I have screwed up numerous times but never slept with another guy. But pissed him off numerous times. He says he is getting tired of me but I love him more than anything and I want to start a fresh new year and make him happy and not be so upset with me...Any advice??? I'm considering couples counseling thinking maybe that will help some.
2007-11-19 12:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by brooke_grey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
screwing up does not mean having intercourse with someone else!!! if i did he probably would have left me already
2007-11-19 12:20:56 · update #1
We all fight in marriages. if you found someone one that does not fight and married. there has to be something wrong. at times you need to stop and think. I do at times. also the way you say things can make things worse than they are. so try not to say anything bad at any time. and it will not hurt to say you or sorry once and a while. even if you feel you were in the right. make up after a fight, just say you did not mean what you said, and smile. it is hard at times but do as I do, just hold your word back and think, of a better way of saying them where it will not sounds as bad.
2007-11-19 17:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop screwing up. YOU'RE in charge of YOUR actions. If you truly love him, you'll not only WANT to change, you WILL change.
Couple's counseling sounds like a great idea, and if he doesn't want to go, go without him.
Good luck :)
2007-11-19 12:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me call a noted professional on the term "intercourse", and I'll get back to ya, when President bill from Hilliary's new order!!
2007-11-19 13:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't know what the meaning of love is or you wouldnt keep hurting him--i hope he finds someone to really make him happy
2007-11-19 12:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define screwing up.
Define pissing him off.
Stop screwing up.
Stop pissing him off.
Why is this so hard to figure out???
2007-11-19 12:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe therapy for yourself. That never hurts...knowledge is power and knowledge of oneself is priceless.
2007-11-19 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
define "screwed up".
does that mean you were naked or clothed?
2007-11-19 12:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋