2007-11-19 12:53:57 · 33 answers · asked by SC male1958 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seriously? :0
I agree with you.
2007-11-19 14:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by glitter glue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the reason for the breakup between the daughter and her ex- would factor into this some - how much depends on the reason and who broke it off. For example, if the guy broke it off to be with the mom that would be pond-scum level behavior for both of them.
Apart from that, another answer was appropriate, I thought: While maybe not really WRONG, it's awfully high in ick factor. I certainly hope they both know better than to ever show up at a family gathering together, for example.
2007-11-19 13:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly she is ur ex-wife and secondly ex-bf of ur daughter is 13 years younger to ur ex-wife. Now why should u bother for one who is no longer ur wife. How do u accept that the boy 13 year younger concede to dating with an almost old woman. Are u sure about their dating? If its true u disregard it and let ur ex lose her prestige and honor and face consequences for that. Most ppl will be of the opinion that she is doing wrong.
2007-11-19 13:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by nazbak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly: age has nothing to do with anything once they are both over 18.
Second: If she is your ex wife who she dates should be of no concern to you.
Third: If the guy is your daughters EX boyfriend then he is going to date someone else regardless. Who he dates should be of no concern to you or her, just like who you or she date is of no concern to him.
Fourth: If this is going to threaten the relationship between your daughter & her mother it is up to them to sort out - it is of no concern to you as you will no doubt be biased in your opinion and will not help matters either way.
I am sorry if your daughter is hurting but parents shouldn't fight their childrens battles - especially when the child is 31 years old. Let her work it out with her mother.
2007-11-19 13:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in case your ex-boyfriend did some thing to truly harm you, and you desire to get revenge; then sure, decide for it! yet once you and your ex-boyfriend had a powerful courting, and he went out of his thank you to be there for you, and enable you to, then do not do it. often, while a woman or a guy comes between 2 acquaintances; the two the two acquaintances will elect eachother's friendship over the guy or lady, or the friendship ends. no depend if or not you elect to be with this guy, be sensible approximately your selection. are not getting harm because of the fact you probably did not take time to speak to the two between the lads approximately how they felt. Do the main appropriate element or greater useful yet do what's nice for you. reliable success!
2016-10-02 00:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by eubank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing wrong with this is that your ex didn't respect her own daughter enough to keep her paws of her daughter men, no matter how long they dated or have been broken up! Sounds like material for Jerry Springer
2007-11-19 13:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong, out of all the guys, in the world why would she even want to date someone that her own Daughter dated, and probably no doubt slept with. Ewwwwwwww.
2007-11-19 12:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by That one 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Technically and legally it's not wrong. Morally, yea, it's hard to imagine a mother dating her daughter's ex-boyfriend. If she has always been a good mother and she is not doing this to be vindictive though, then I think you bothe shuld leave them be. She deserves to be happy and if he does, then so be it.
Your daughter and him broke up so that relationship is over. You and your ex-wife divorced, so that also is over. I don't think you should be so bitter about this that it ruins your relationship. If it's a healthy relationship the you both should treat it as such.
2007-11-19 13:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by miggyboo2 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's not wrong to think it's wrong but if you were in her shoes dating your son's ex gf you wouldn't be worried about this because your heart would lead, not your head.
We're human and by nature we're greedy, selfish, and needy....subconciously...
Point on end? No. It's not wrong to think it's wrong.
It's wrong. It's disgusting and it's just beyond having morals.
2007-11-19 13:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong and gross! I would never date one of my childrens ex's! The thought sickens me! How could they even have sex without thinking hey I did your daughter too!
2007-11-19 12:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as they dont mind why did it bother you. You mentioned that they are ex to both you and your daughter. Unless he is the father of your daughter kid. Then that is unforgivable and disgusting.
2007-11-19 13:01:02 · answer #11 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋