2007-11-19 14:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by Deflin-Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We both are not married but we both are in a middle of relashin ship.
2007-11-19 14:52:16 · update #1
Consider leaving your Job and creating a relationship with him however don't go behind your current relationships back you both need to decide if you want each other or to stay in your current relations!
2007-11-19 15:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Amberlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really willing to deal with the level of concealment that would be needed to carry out this relationship? You can never appear to be intimate in any way while on the job. You can never be seen in public together unless you go to a town 50 miles away to avoid running into a co-worker. You wont be able to chat about him with the other girls at work when their discussing boyfriends. You really can't tell anyone because you never know who will talk and who wont. In many ways, you'll have all the same complications as two people carrying on an affair. And if the relationship lasts and becomes serious, then you could both lose your jobs. Are you both willing to take these risks? Personally, I would, but I'm stupid when it comes to men. Don't be like me.
2007-11-19 23:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by AessaMenevrah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo, ever heard of the term, sexual harrassment? And read your office rules/regulations on dating coworkers and bosses? Well, you better start hunting for another job and leave the job with your pride in tact. Dont do it - never good idea to mix pleasure with business.
2007-11-19 22:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pse take your time learn the situation so that you don't become a victim of circumstance. don't rush coz this affair is not an easy one it might cost you your job and it's reaaly bad to fall for your Boss how do you know it's not a test to see if you can give in easly?
2007-11-20 01:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by halicate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you both break it off with each other, or the ones your in a relationship with.
2007-11-19 23:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details please. Are either of you married? If you go into a relationship, and it turns out badly then one of you may have to leave the job. Which is more important to you - a romance or the job?
2007-11-19 22:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider looking for another job if you plan to continue the relationship with your boss.
2007-11-19 22:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by bob 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Labor law violations are screaming!!!
Either you need to get a new job, he gets a new job, or you both stop "showing interest on each other"
2007-11-19 22:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by LyndasCa 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he has not contacted you in 2 months .. then he must not want to contact you.
You can either approach him first. Or - you can do nothing .. until he approaches you.
When someone is really & truly interested - they usually let you know it.
2007-11-19 22:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiki,
First, look for a new job, & when U finally accept it, then & only then, can U date your boss.
2007-11-19 23:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋