This has never caused problems for us. Any one else been able to do this without causing harm to their relationship? Any nightmare situations caused because of it?
2007-11-19 13:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by dave w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My hubby and I know how many each have been with and, we have been fine with it.
2007-11-19 14:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband can't handle it. I don't have to say a thing about past partners and he just imagines all the details. I can't even be friends with old boyfriends, even if I broke up with them 15 years ago and now they are married with kids and living on the other side of the globe. Sucks really. If my husband knew how many men I had had before we were married I belive he would have an aneurysm and never let me out of the house again.
2007-11-19 14:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Marjorie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extremely some ppl will disagree with me, yet i will see your factor. i do no longer sleep around... and a factor of me looks down on women people who make weaker alternatives than I easily have. i will't have intimacy except i'm in love. that's not continually elementary! besides... i'm sorry this has passed off to you. easily, you sound like the baby of guy i like... an experienced older guy. even regardless of the indisputable fact that i'm style of an angel, that's what i like. in step with risk we the two have double standards that way. attempt to sleep on it for each week or so, and interior the intervening time, attempt to no longer permit it get to you. Get some relax. on each and every occasion i'm confronted with some thing difficult, i hit upon I surprisingly much continually loosen up after a pair of days.
2016-10-17 11:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course...and both of us have enough respect for the other that we don't dig for any more info than the other is willing to give....not that either one of us were "wild" lol.....
Both of us were previously married...for me that was all...he had a short relationship after his 1st marriage ended that didn't work out....both of us are the type that have to be in love before we get involved.....not that common anymore but we're both cut from an old fashioned cloth.....
2007-11-19 14:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We've never been interested in past partners. I know he had a long term relationship he was very serious about.. but I don't even know her name. I don't care eirher, and he doesn't care about my old flames. It's all about us now... and what happened before is ancient history. If any one of those girls showed up now, his eyes would only be on me .
2007-11-19 14:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife can talk about anything literaly and we have no problems what so ever .... when we got into this relationship we both said that we would always be open to one another and be able to talk to one another about anything ..... and we do and has been great right from the start of our relationship ...... she knows about every woman i sleep with and slept with in the past before her .... and i know about hers as well an means nothing as everyone has a past whether it be bad or good we all have one and nothing you can do to change it .....
2007-11-19 14:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know his number and he doesn't know mine. I guess it would be Okay. I know most people do that, but he is my only now and forever on. I'm not great at looking at the past. None of them mattered before him so why talk about it?
If it worked for you than good. I can't imagine it would cause "problems."
2007-11-19 14:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by plastic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You simply say the truth and make it better. Like say this partner was good in bed but since i am more experienced u are the better person for me. Like say the bad stuff first then make it better. So she/he won't feel bad. There are ways around it. My advice it be open and honest is the best policy.
2007-11-19 14:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this shouldnt cause a problem. the past is the past. my husband told me how many women he's slept with (i dont even remember exactly...i could care less about how many he's been with). he knows my past as well. the important thing is that we both agree not to be with anyone else now that we're together. the past is the past.
2007-11-19 14:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have discussed each other's sexual past and we're both completely fine with it. Just stay open and honest -- that's what it's all about!
It's also great for STD purposes.
You also don't have to reveal your past... what's your past is your past... just as long as it doesn't come back to haunt your present life with your partner -- or future!
2007-11-19 14:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had no sexual encounters in my life but to my husband alone. I was married to him as a virgin. He's the first guy I ever sex. We are now on our 7 years on our married.
We have very open to each other that no secrete of us we didn't revail because we wanted to be honest as possible to each other to keep our married successful for ever.
Last year, after my 25th birthday, he surprised me a present. He knows and understand that I kept my fantasy. He was the one who persuaded me to fantasize. A night after my birthday, he talked and arranged his younger mele best friend to have sex with me to make real my fantasy. It was wonderful sex. My hubby requested us to watch our lovemaking with his friend but he and I refused we cpuld not concentrate. So, instead, he requested me to tell all details of our lovemaking. So I did and tell him everything. I could not able to complete my story because my hubby got hot while listening to me he got hard and made love to me again and again.
2007-11-19 17:42:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋