we have a 18 month old little girl and I do not wan to break up her home. I am diabetic and I have adhd that Im not taking medicine for right now. help
2007-11-19 15:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have a 18 month old little girl and I dont want to break up her home. I know my diabetes and my adhd is affecting this. Im on insulin but we cant afford the Adderall. I noticd the real chane after my grandfathere died and it has just went down hill from there. I just need some help with channeling my anger. i love her more than anything and I need my family.
2007-11-19 16:11:14 · update #1
You have to make up your mind once and for all if you love your family and know that it was wrong on your part .... i.e. never never to repeat your mistakes. Apologize to her. Be responsible for your health too.
2007-11-19 15:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go to the doctor and get on some meds for your diabetes. You are stupid for not staying on your meds or taking them, do you know how important that is? You need to make sure that you are healthy so you can be with you wife and you baby girl for years to come!
Second if you and your wife are having issues you need to learn how to communicate better together. People in relationships will always have 'hick-ups' and that is fine and normal. I would recommend seeing a councilor together and talking about things. It is not a bad thing to have to go and talk to some one, it could really help out!
But go to the doctor and take care of yourself!!!
2007-11-19 15:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by sspice5757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are dozens and dozens of companies who help people get their medications when they can't afford them. Try this site: http://www.drugpolicyalliance.org/homepage.cfm, its the one Montel Williams speaks for. When your not feeling the pressure of your ADHD and your diabetes on you, let your wife know that you are trying, yoiu do love her, and anything mean that comes out is just misdirected. Try to focus that anger into motivation- Motivation to love your wife, build a better life for you her and that little girl and to develop a behaviour pattern that can help you deal with your issues.
2007-11-19 19:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the exact same way and has the exact same problem. It took me leaving him for him to actually get help. four months without me drove him crazy and now he is the best husband in the world. You dont alwayz have to take medicine. It depends on the severity of it. His medisine actually was the cause. He alwayz said hurtful things to me like he hated me. We have a eight month old together and loosing me and that baby made him want to get help if you love her that much and you think you need the meds then get them because you dont want to loose them and have to go through worse pain.
2007-11-19 15:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by stephers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a DR? Do know of anyone that could turn you on to a good counselor/therapist...If you cant afford one then turn to social services and see what they can do to proivide info for help..One thing for sure you dont want your child to be exposed to you saying mean things and tension between you and your wife...try to at least keep things toned down, and realize that this WILL have negative effects on your child if you carry on this way...Get professional help bottom line
2007-11-19 15:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by kindablue99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you are admitting you need help and say mean things to your wife. It takes a real man to admit to things.
Try to control your temper and be more loving. Make love, not war!
Just repeat to yourself "Peace be still", over and over and it works.
Make it work, for your baby.
2007-11-19 16:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple solution: STOP BEING MEAN TO YOUR WIFE!!! Get the help you need. There is no excuse for any man or woman to mistreat their spouse. Especially for NO reason.
2007-11-19 15:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuses excuses! What is your question? Stop being mean to your wife and get your health issues in order!You have a child to consider.
2007-11-19 15:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why arent you taking your medication? and why are you saying mean things to her? you need to get help for yourself. do whatever you need to do to fix your medical problem so you can be a good husband and father. if you say mean things to her...she's going to eventually leave you.
2007-11-19 15:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you go to counseling.
2007-11-19 15:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋