2007-11-19 21:13:14 · 17 answers · asked by BABU L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to talk to u'r wife on this issue and try to resolve it divorce is not the remedy
2007-11-19 21:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My inlaws can be horrible at times, like when we moved home from Germany, and ended up living there with them for a year until we found our own home to purchase and move into. The MIL was the worst. Whether it was the kids, or a fight between me and my hubby, she always interfered and gave her two cents. Unfortunately, due to homes available, and locale of his job, we still live in the same town as them, and she still sticks her nose in everything, but its not quite as bad. My best friend had to move from PA to Ohio to escape the interference of her in laws. Try moving farther away, or as far as possible, before you go for a divorce. Divorce is so final, and if you still love each other, and don't have major problems outside of the inlaws, i'm sure the marriage could still work. just do what you can to remove the in laws from the picture.
2007-11-19 21:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this all happening due to communication problem between both of you. Normally elders give us an advice for our betterment, as they are in-laws, i think you are not interested in seeing the reality. Please speak to your wife and tell her your feelings about the involvement of her father and mother in all your issues which is not liked by you. But my suggestion you should try to think a way, if you are considering the suggestions and interference of your parents, obviously your wife also thinks that you both should take the advice of her parents, if you leave your ego and think in her view, i hope most of the problems will be solved.
2007-11-20 00:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by sriram_rahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Your wife is not the cause of the problems in your marriage, your in-laws are, your wife has nothing to do with this, talk to your in-laws, and divorce them, become estranged from them do not hurt your wife, because your in-laws are causing the problem.
That is totally not fair!!!!
Address this with the in-laws!
Do not make someone else suffer because you are having problems with other people, address the issue with your in-laws.
2007-11-19 22:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are not married to your in laws. you need to grow up and communicate to your wife your feelings on the in law issues that you have. try marriage counseling and everything else to try to save the marriage especially if you want a divorce because of the in laws. this is exactly what the in laws want you to do. they want to drive you out and away. but if you love your wife you ought to show them that you are here to stay and that they will go before you will. fight for your wife and your marriage. GodBless
2007-11-19 22:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce over inlaws? That should not even be an option.We
marry and take on the whole family whether we like them or not . ...
You need to sit down and talk to your wife,tell her your issues,and you both come up with a solution together.Her family needs to quit trying to run the show.
2007-11-19 21:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by uptoyou 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What divorce isn't always the answer, marriage is about talking to your spouse and trying to compromise. If you divorce then your just weak and wanna get away form your problems... Just talk to her, I'm sure she will understand. Besides its only a little problem no big deal, they are annoying but its not her fault.
2007-11-19 21:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by Closed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is not a solution.By divorcing her due to interference,is not a reason to end a relationship.Talk to her and try to resolve things or alternative both of you could go to a marriage counsellor to get professional help.
"To built a happiness, it take a longer period but to destroy the happiness that been built,it easier that building."
2007-11-19 21:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by babygerl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
can u break relation with your parents if they are interfere you in yr life no my friend u want to give divorce to yr wife because she is woman she is not stronger than you she is not able to fight with you i like people who drink who smoke but i dont like people who do divorce dont think about it dont ask us about it u know u can handle it just think twice this is matter of whole life not only yours but your wife's also pls dont do that
2007-11-20 02:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by hir bhatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce of wife for in-laws is not good. discuss with wife. separate / distance from in-laws
2007-11-19 21:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by vep 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋