Should i TELL HIS WIFE?

Question

we been talking hrus and hours confessing our love to each other and most recently he wacked off on his web cam. should i write an annnymous letter and tell the wife ? what do u think the result would be?

what do you mean divorce cuased by ME? isnt he the one who is cheating on his wife? dont u think its caused by HIM

Answer 1

Hi do you have a conscience? Coz from what I see you seem to like to taste forbidden fruit, NEVER TRUST a married guy who professes his love and whacks off on the Internet.

Don't you think if he does this to his wife then he will do it to you also ,YES once a cheat always a cheat drop him ...

If you want to bring down a marriage then you are no better than a single jealous girl with the morals of an alley cat..♥

Answer 2

YOU don't have a problem with this? You sadi he told you his wife is a nazi in a previous post.

Sounds like you want this guy for yourself at any cost.

Write the letter and:

a. you might be able to break up the marriage
b. he might break up with you
c. she might come after you
d. she won't believe you
e. she believes you, you break up the marriage, she comes after you, and he breaks up with you.

Yup, a multiple choice question, which answer do you like best?

Oh, and here's a thought: ever think he might just be lying about his whole home situation to try to "get him some"?

You only know what he's willing to tell you, which could be a complete fabrication. His wife could be a very sweet kind hearted woman who senses that something is wrong but doesn't know for sure what it is, hence the "spying". I do know this. You and this guy seem to have taken a lot of time to get to know each other. Or at least what HE WANTS you to know.

If she is such a spy and a nazi, how come he can talk to you for hours and hours, much less jerk off on a webcam for you?

Answer 3

I don`t know how much is about love here, I think he is just a guy that got bored with his wife or just she doesnt pays attention to him.Maybe you love him, but think about it, if he was man enough he would have meet you in real life and not just masturbating in front of a camera for you, he would have come to your place , bring you some flowers and make love with you.
Both of you have to deal the problem with maturity. What more exactly you want to tell his wife?That he loves you and not her, or that he cheated on her on internet?There is a big difference between this and I personally think that you can`t just send her a letter saying:` your husband is masturbating for me`, maybe he is the bad guy , and using both of you.
There are a lot of things you have to think about , put yourself in as many situations as you can and deal with this.I don`t wanna judge you but I think you should have stayed away from a married guy, if it happened for my husband to do this I would be very hurt but I would forgive him anyway, if it was just random masturbation at porn or whatever i would not really care but I would be very hurt if he said to another woman that he loves her.

Answer 4

Hmmmm i think he not love you. Dun hope he will be divorce his wife he wont but I'm not said all married man is bad certain of them like to play this games to lose he can keep his
wife and the same time hv extra marital affairs.

If you want to looking married man can but you hv to think about his wife and their child. We cant be greedy that the price you have to pay.

You will suffered later if you dun want to scarify now. I'm happy with my BF I never force him to divorce his wife I'm respect his family privacy and he trust I wont break up his marriage.

I'm still remember when the first we met we promise each other wont let his wife hurt. I never call him at home but now days he more open let me talk I think he was planning to give a sign to his wife that he have me. His wife
never care abot him anymore but because of their child
the best way keep the marriage. I'm respect his attitude and
his responsibility

If you going to see his wife trust me he will leave you 100%
no doubt be more realistic. My BF want to marry me because
I never think to do a bad thing or let his hurt even once.

The man will be more respect you rather than be a disaster
being nice girl you wont lose anything. We have a secret affairs and will get marry soon coz he wont get the best girl
in market like me very tolerate and compromise each other.

I want he be happy have his marriage and me no need to choose between us. My type very independent dun like man flocking around
and the best choice is married man but I dun know which you are ? Choose wisely baby Good Luck

Answer 5

U knew that he had a wife in the first place.Since you involved with him,u ought to know what's the consequences will be.Why involving his wife?As far as i concern,involving with a married person,there will be no string attach as they have their commitment and rarely they dump their family.If u to tell his wife,why make yourself as anonymous so that if happen they file for divorce,u will not feel guilty and don't wish to be the reason of their divorced?If u dare to do it then u ought to face the music.Start a new life and treat it as a lesson to be learn.Forget abt him.There are more single men out there.If he could do this to his wife that mean he could do it to u too.

Answer 6

In response to your additional details, it is caused by you, it takes two to tango, and you and him are causing this, do tell his wife, and I think that is the best, if I saw you face to face, and you told me that, I would put you and your homewrecking a** on the street along with my husband and change the lock on the doors and throw his web came out in the street, and stand there and watch you clean it up with your mouth!!

Then I would call the cops and you can do anything and everything you want to do in the city jail!!!!!

And the next day I would come in and serve him divorce papers and you can comfort him again, doing what you do best!!!!!

Answer 7

If you are in love with him, then why would you want to hurt him?
What he is doing is wrong however, and I'm sure he is lying on both ends to have his cake and eat it too.

I would go about your life and walk away. No matter what is going on, he is married and most likely doesn't have the guts to get out of his unhappy situation...that is if he really is unhappy.
Some guys will say anything to get a little strange....
Don't fall for the bull.
Walk away.

Answer 8

This is why a married man who wants to cheat should never ever mess around with single women. Single women messing with married men are bitter and resentful from the start because they have no one to really love them all they have is the married man's penis...some of the time.
Married women on the other hand have just as much to lose as the married man. This keeps everyone in check. Married people who live risque need to stick to married people.

Answer 9

i think you should leave it. it isn't really a thing a wife needs to know. at the end of the day it's not a big thing. just because someone says i love you doesn't mean they actually mean it. i love you is eight letters long and so is bullshit!

but at the end of the day if he is being solemnly truthful ( which i highly doubt ) why is he still with his wife and not with you. he is acting like a silly teenager flashing his bits on cam!

Answer 10

you are absolutely right, a divorce would be his fault! now, I am wondering, if he got a divorce, would he really end up w/ you, or is he just using you? think about that... yes, I do think you should tell his wife, wouldn't you want to know if your future husband was doing the same? tell her, if I was that wife, I'd want to know...! beware, she might cut off their internet,,, lol... that's what I'd do... or break the computer, lol! good luck =) tell her...! I think it's time more men/women got busted, so this crap would stop... I feel really bad if kids are involved =(... !!!