My parents recently divorced, and a couple of weeks later, it was parents evening at my school. I took my mum with me, and all was well until she met my Graphics teacher.
Anyway, skip the lovey dovey part, he's now MOVING IN with us and they are GETTING MARRIED in 2008.
Why oh why did it have to be my graphics teacher?
I really need some tips on how to cope with a teacher living with us, for what seems permanent...
2007-11-19 18:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by 1992Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know how you have a different persona at work and a different one at home? That is how it is going to be.
Be a professional about it.
He is your step-father at home, he is your teacher when he is at work.
I hope your mother at least does a background check on him before marrying him... and she probably needs to protect her assets by getting him to sign a pre-nup, too.
When they get to a certain age, the guys are either looking for a purse or a nurse. You get the idea.
You might want to mention that to her in private.
2007-11-19 18:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He won't be your teacher forever.
I'm sure this seems incredibly awful to you now -- I know I would have been horrified if this had happened to me when I was in school -- but it's not a permanent situation. Someday he will just be the guy your mom married, not your teacher.
Try to be happy for your mother. I'm sure she wants your love and support as much now as she ever has. Hang in there. It will get better with time though that's hard to believe right now.
2007-11-20 02:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know for sure but I think if you mention it to the head of your school you could get moved out of his class. It would be considered conflict of interest. If you can't do that then I suggest getting used to it. Talk to your mum and her bf and let them know how you feel. Maybe you could set up some sort of rules system so that you can keep home and school seperate.
2007-11-20 02:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by laura1977 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you.if you are quite big just move out and prefer staying in hostel or pgs.
2007-11-20 02:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by kamal m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
euwwwwww yukky............. ya poor thing.......... that would do my head in................. ask your dad if you can move in with him ...either that or find away to deal with the fact hes moving in and marrying your mum
2007-11-20 02:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋