We are Engaged and in love with a lil family im not as slender as i use to be but im a face model with a high sex drive!
Im so in love and i wouldn ever be able to handle being cheated on!
2007-11-19 19:38:08 · 17 answers · asked by Ashes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me tell you something. His wondering eyes has nothing to do with you and how hott you look. This is not about you sweetie.
This is about him, the respect for you, and his insecurities. See a lot of men stare. It doesn't matter who their with. They could be with Beyonce and after a while he will be used to her looks and he will be looking at something else.
I was the same way with my husband before we got married. I was so in love with him I couldn't stand it if I was cheated on and I hated when I knew he looked at other women. To be honest he had to actually re-educate himself on how to be a proper gentleman. Most guys grow up thinking this behavor is acceptable. Men don't understand when they focus their attention on other women it takes away from their current relationship. When he places his full attention on you, he will begin to see what a beautiful soul you have.
There is a difference between a quick glance ( You can't stop anybody from recognizing a beautiful person) and an outright stare. That is unacceptable! Talk to him. If this something that he's not willing to work on. You might want to really consider your future.
2007-11-19 20:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think might be missing in this marriage you have with this man for you to be having such Strong feelings for this other guy in the first place? And do you think there is anything you can do to change that or make better the situation regards you and your man? How do you think it would effect you if your husband were to find out (should you have gone ahead and ever cheated), if he left you for good? Would it matter if you had this other guy instead? Look at what is wrong or not quite right in your marriage, way up some pros and cons. Lust is addictive but it wears off. Use some of your lone time to think this out good and hard. Good Luck
2016-05-24 07:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't likely to get the 10 points but I think you need to put your ego in check....everything you said is an explanation as to why he shouldn't look at other women....cuz you are so great....well dear, let me tell you about the real world.
If you don't get over this now it isn't a good idea to get married....because after marriage you will likely think that a long look means he's having an affair.
When actresses are cheated on don't you think they wonder too? With some exceptions, most of these dazzling and beautiful women wonder if there is a problem with their marriage or relationship. They either try to work it out or get out of the marriage or relationship, depending on their feelings.
So as long as he is just looking don't worry...it's a MAN thing. 10 points says you look at men too.
2007-11-19 20:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by nancy w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean he looks at other women, I don't know why it would bother you? I look at men, my husband looks at women but we only have sex with each other. It's quite normal for people to appreciate the appearance of others. You need to work on your self confidence. For a start, you should think about your statement about being "willing to do anything for him". I love my husband enormously and I love my sons hugely but I wouldn't do 'anything' for them. There should always be limits to your willingness to 'do' for others otherwise you are telling them you are nothing but a doormat with no morals, ethics or self respect.
Question: How does anyone love a doormat?
Answer: By using them to wipe their feet on.
2007-11-19 19:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by fruitbat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men look at other women. Just ask the men around you. Even i look at attractive men-and woman too! Don't get mad at him because he quickly glanced at a Jennifer Love Hewitt clone. however, STARING is another thing. if it bothers you just ask him to not stare while he's around you. Or playfully joke with him like "isn't she pretty?" He will probably get embarrassed because you saw him looking. I mean, its okay if it bothers you sometimes because we girls sometimes feel ugly when were not. I know you look at other men but that doesn't mean your going to cheat on your guy! If you found out he cheated, well, thats another story....
2007-11-19 21:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't want someone that will do anything for him...maybe he wants to have to try for some things...and if you are ever cheated on you WILL be able to handle it. you have to be able to handle it...worse things happen in life and there are alot of people that have it ALOT worse than people that have been cheated on...put it into perspective.
2007-11-19 19:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking is normal. Don't you look? I do! Just because he looks at other women does not mean that he will cheat on you. I would try not to let it bother you.
2007-11-19 19:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking is a bad habit guys develope early. It's a hard habit to break, but it doesn't mean anything.
2007-11-20 01:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by mjmayer188 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worried about him looking already....Your one insecure person don't get married until you resolve your issues or your marriage is going to be short lived!!! FYI looks only go skin deep Its whats inside that counts!!!
2007-11-20 01:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like when you go into the chinese take away
you always look at the menu
but always end up with your favourite thing everytime, you know you love it and cant resist it
2007-11-19 19:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋