i was on vacation with hubby. and met a couple we h ung with for the 2 weeks we were here. we hung out alot. the couple would argue alot.. about anything and everything, her husband was negative just about on everything or he was just bored he would say to her. nothing made him happy and it made his wife uncomfortable and bitchy. twards him that is. accordong to them they were married 15 yrs. i got talking to his wife alone and asked why go on vacation when you dont get along. she said to me , at home he is nice to her , but when he has to be alone with her he says he is bored. tome he seemed controlling. after asking others, i guess couples do fight alot on vacations? is this true with any of yous? my hubby and i had a few diffrences but we werent haters lol. i did like the couple we called them the bundys lol
2007-11-16 15:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ha! Sounds like there in a relationship where when he gets home, he goes down to the basement to tinker with stuff. And she stays upstairs making a pot roast. Where he'd rather be with the guys than spend free time with her. That's so old school.
2007-11-16 16:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that being on vacation will necessarily make you feud more. I think that if a couple argues on vacation then they argue when they are at home just as much. Regardless of what they lady told you, she is probably just trying to save a little dignity, and I guarantee he treats her the same if not worse when they are alone. Couples who argue all the time, for whatever reasons, have unresolved problems in their marriage. Couple who don't argue don't ever resolve problems. I think it is healthy to have an argument once in a while, or a disagreement, but not all the time, and not when you don't resolve the problem. That just makes things worse.
2007-11-17 00:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by mamaof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it's just an example of folks not knowing how to make their relationship work better and a lot of unresolved negative feelings from their early childhood past.
They probably treat each other the way they were taught to behave as kids never bothered to find a better way to behave.
Too bad, I wish they could change and look in places like this to improve their relationship (although, they may be happy with their mutual misery!)
www.barbaradeangelis.com/
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
2007-11-17 01:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not us...we love our time together! but I've experienced those haters personally as well. It was a battle tryin to be positive with all the negativity. I remember taking my son to disney world with my sister in law and her daughter and they too were like that. I couldn't stand their behavior!! I actually left with just my son at times to have some real fun!! I mean come on how could you be negative in Disney World!!
2007-11-17 00:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by just bored 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never knock Al Bundy.
2007-11-16 23:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol nope hubby and i dont fight.. i know people like that.. its like there not happy if there not at each other.. i couldnt live that way.. good luck
2007-11-17 00:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some couples do argue all of the time.
Some couples do NOT argue.
And sometimes .. only one of them .. argues.
2007-11-17 00:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope all dont fight! some draw closer to each other
2007-11-17 00:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by mitchey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋