Have you ever had the perfect girl and you took her for granted...you ended the relationship but you thought she would be calling and being all upset about it and so on and so on..but instead she never did anything..and then you start to feel like you really messed up!?
If so what did you do to win her back? Or did you even try.?
I wrote her but she never wrote back..what does that mean?
2007-11-16 17:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But i really think I love her..and I know no one will ever love me like this girl would..should I fight for her?
2007-11-16 17:15:19 · update #1
i have known her for many many years..and she is inlove with me..and would do anything for me..so its kinda odd that shes giving me the cold shoulder if she cared so much in the first place.
2007-11-16 17:18:58 · update #2
Desperation never wins people back. It pushes them farther away. She'll sense desperation no matter what. If you both move on and figure out that you don't need each other, but still want each other, there may be a chance.
First response is right. You played a game and lost when it came to expecting a certain response after the breakup.
Love is more powerful than what you're talking about here. You don't have to "fight for her" to have real love. If you think it's about games and fighting and winning, you're not talking about love. You're talking about needy relationships.
2007-11-16 17:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 16, she was 15...i never had the guts 2 tell her how i really felt about her...didn't play any games, just no guts.
no, i never thought she'd call and i never tried 2 win her back as she married right out of high school.
that was almost 34yrs ago.
if u have written her and she hasn't written back, do u really need us to tell you what that means, i believe u already know...move forward.
2007-11-17 02:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is this important to you, why insist on playing games on her heart? Just to see if she would bite the hook again after she got injured from it the first time? Just move on knowing you f***ed up. Do not repeat the same error.
2007-11-16 17:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a perfect person. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.
You also did a manipulative and selfish thing with the "break-up game."
People are not puppets.
2007-11-16 21:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're to the point of no return. I had one like that.
Good news is, it's many years later and she's really ugly now!
2007-11-16 17:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you played a game and you lost. You need to accept your defeats in life and accept being wrong. you wrote her and she didn't answer? means you let it go ... and you move on.
2007-11-16 17:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you fell in love with her but you pushed her away and she knew that she never did anything wrong it was all you.
so learn from your MISTAKES and MOVE ON.
2007-11-16 17:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by married & still inlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just playing hard to get... dont know? ask!
2007-11-16 17:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a loser
2007-11-16 17:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋