Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2007

Ok here it goes...
I was checking on my hubby's question like he asked me to and well I then happen to noticed a question he answered and the name kinda looked like something by hubby would use and so I clicked on it and the question was very fa miler to mine and my husbands life's so I started to think maybe it was one of the other accounts he has on here because I know he has quit a few I am just not sure what they are and then I ran across more questions that were fa miler to our lives and then I knew ok this is defiantly him and then I ran across this question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjOuk7_mrLmofpe1XFPObfLty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070710161459AAgilZa

What would you think if you found out that your husband was asking a question like this because right now I am really upset should I approach him about this and if so how would you approach your husband?

2007-11-16 14:27:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you were in a strong happy marriage of over 12 years and your wife wanted to fufill a fantasy of me and another guy having sex with her at the same time and said she would be willing to let me have her and another woman at the same time would you do it?

2007-11-16 14:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been seeing each other for over a year. I am a civilian contractor and so is my boyfriend. I spend a lot more time in Iraq and thats where he's at also. At first I had no idea he was married, i just recently found out. I am so upset at this whole situation, but I'm also in love with him, and don't know what to do. He claims he has no love at home and both had talked about a divorce way before I came in the picture. Should I believe him? It gets very lonely in the desert and I would hate to do the rest of my time here with out him around me. We are so close. We stay at each others room everynight, we do everything together. I know this is wrong but I didn't know he was married. Help!

2007-11-16 14:23:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are coming up to the holidays and I know it isn't going to be easy.

My husband cheated on me with a prositute over the summer. We are trying to work things out. We have been tested for STDs. We are going to church and are in counseling (seperate and together- with the same counselors).

I have been dealing with images and thoughts in my head.

Example: I can be driving and it will pop in my head. I will think about him with her (I know the details) and wonder why. I question what he was wearing and want to get rid of those clothes. I ask myself questions about what lead him to do it. My biggest thing is thinking of the two of them together in that hotel room.
I'm thinking about it more lately.
My question is How do I deal with all of this with the holidays and the fact that no one knows about our problem?

Thank you for your advice.

2007-11-16 14:22:00 · 17 answers · asked by K_A_mom 1

we have been together for 4 years and i already have kids and knows some day he will to what would you do!!!!!!!!??????????

2007-11-16 14:20:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 14:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by terri b 1

It is now day 55 of of 60. I may want to change my mind about it being uncontested. Does my refusal to sign force everything to begin again at day one>

2007-11-16 14:15:33 · 4 answers · asked by wfs 1

It is now day 55 of of 60. I may want to change my mind about it being uncontested. Does my refusal to sign force everything to begin again at day one>

2007-11-16 14:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by wfs 1

I guess I wanna try something new. But sure it'll hurt someone. How can I get over that girl? Just don't talk to her at all, I guess. But then the feeling still left in there....

2007-11-16 14:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2

For 13 yrs I chased this guy..it was love at first sight for me..when I hit 21 a "certain kind of relationship" started with him.I am 24 ..for the past 2 yrs I have been the girl who he always knew would be right there waiting for him..5 days ago he said he wanted space and I said okay even thought he knows i love and am inlove with him and that I would wait for him to find out w.hat he wanted..he still wanted to have a break..he felt pressured.. he asked me too what if i changed my mind and I said don't because this is what you need. he said he didn't want to lose me its just he wasn't ready for me in life right now..hes 30..I am 25..I said ok and afterwards we stopped talking,writing ect. 5 days there were no calls,or letters or nothing..we are 3 hrs apart by the way..he writes me today and says he can't do it..and not being able to hear my voice is killing him..he said he hates this and doesn't understand why its all or nothing..am I wrong if I dont write back?If i do..when?

2007-11-16 14:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This has to be grounds for divorce.
I can deal with the sex change and all but I can NOT deal with the nightly beatings he/she now gives me..

I was safer in prison.

2007-11-16 14:03:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 14:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by Dirt E. Deeds 3

My wife tells me sex is not important in a relationship but i think it is, actually making love is to me not just sex. I like the pleasure of touching her, feeling her entire body, caressing her every inch of her body, massaging her and plenty of foreplay and then making love four and hour or 2 or 3! Kissing and hugging, and making great hot love! If I it were up to me, I'd do it with her everyday, sometime twice a day. She tells me that once or twice a month might even be too much for her and that in this world, there wouldn't even be a woman who would even want that much affection, that it does not exits! I believe otherwise. She says that I'm a dreamer! Is this true or are there any women like me out there who can save my case??? That am not the sexually crazy one out here! Although, if she was more affectionate and caring I probably wouldn't want it so much! At least 4 times a week of great love would be great!

2007-11-16 14:00:50 · 12 answers · asked by Camelot 1

I just found out my husband has been having an affair so I had to pack up my two kids and move in with my parents. My father hits both me and my kids and there is nothing I can do about it because of fear. Is there anyway to make money quick so I can afford to get my kids away from this environment and get a good enough lawyer so that I don't have to share custody with my horrible drug addict cheating husband?

2007-11-16 13:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by xxxxxxlinziexxxxxx 2

2007-11-16 13:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have. i'm 19 and the guy is 22. he got married bec. he got his girl pregnant. he said that he doesnt really love her but had no other options but to marry her. they are living together.
We go to the same school and attend same classes.
I stopped seeing him now, because it's wrong but i still love him. he said he's going to file an annulment, so we could be together. i told him not to and stay together for the baby.
not that i'm concerned about the baby actually i just dont want to be involved with their issues anymore, although i know i've ruined it their marriage already... now he still tries to work it out and bec we still see each other at school, it gets more difficult.
I feel guilty about it. I feel also bad for the girl and the baby.
What do I do to get rid of him and to get over him?
I know what i did was bad and i am sincerely sorry about it.

2007-11-16 13:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by Hoola 1

I have cyber*** with a few woman online and love it. How do woman feel about this?

2007-11-16 13:48:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Studies consistantly show that 50-60% of both men and women cheat in their relationships (A bad thing I think), yet here on answers if anyoe says they cheated or were thinking about it everyone and their uncle jumps on their case. Statisticaly speaking, there have to be a lot of hypocrits around here, or people who cheat rarely Yahoo.

Comments?

2007-11-16 13:46:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do persaude them to meet you again without being up front about it because they dont like pressure. The problem is we fell inlove but had to end it all and have stayed away for years, but stayed intouch via msn and e mail but i would like to see that person again before i move abroad

2007-11-16 13:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do when you and your future spouse tell his mother you are moving the wedding date closer and her response is "ok well i think we and her and her family need to sit down and talk about it" Oh and she doesnt seem ok with the marriage or you in the first place???

2007-11-16 13:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lost Girl 88 2

I'm married and love my wife very much. We've been married for 8 years. Never have this feeling before. One day I found this girl who came along with my friends for the pool party at my house, She's 22.and really cute. I like her the first day. a month later. My wife and I went to my friend's pub for the grand opening. we met again, so I hang out for a while and before I leave with my wife. (my wife's already in the car) I'm still inside and that girl asked me" Can I get you a couge" then I said back" isn't that too small?" then she said Can I get you the bed then?" I said "that sounds good to me" but at the end I left the pub with the weird feeling and couldn't sleep at night at all, kept thinkin about her. later on Monday night. I went to her house. We've talk for a while then I kissed her and almose went to bed with her. Then she asked me"what are thinkin right now? what's in your head?" Then I couldn't answer. and left later on.

2007-11-16 13:29:29 · 34 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2

My husband and I have been separated for 3 years and married 4 years. I want so much to divorce him and move on. But I can't find him. Should i start dating anyway.

2007-11-16 13:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by springful 3

I don't believe you should ever have to ask your lover to make love to her or him. I think it should be spontaneous! Don't you think so? If one wants to and the other always finds an excuse not to and you have to ask each time or make an appointment, what then???

2007-11-16 13:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Camelot 1

my husband is always at work but he has satuday and sunday off for once. i was wondering what are some fun things we could do? we live in central indiana, so it's pretty chilly right now.

2007-11-16 13:11:07 · 16 answers · asked by Expecting baby #1 4

From my question earlier... If I decide to leave my husband because of his weed smoking, abusing cough medication, and neglecting our child...Then what? I am a housewife right now because my son needs alot of attention since he was born at 24 weeks. I definetly feel everybody that told me to not put up with it, and thats what I want to do...But my son needs medical care. I dont like dealing with the chaplain and FRG people because when things got bad last year they did absolutly nothing about it...they just "pretended to". When I was in danger they took my situation lightly, so all them can rott in hell! Who else can I rely on to help me at least get off this island and back home?

2007-11-16 13:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2

After 14 years, It has crossed my mind to cheat on my wife. I do love my wife but want another woman to satisfy me. I know it is wrong, but it feels right what should I do?

2007-11-16 13:07:14 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I want to stay abstinent until marriage. Do you think it is possible if we stay together in the same bed bud just cuddle without any sex? She likes the idea, but I have a feeling it could be really hard for me to well, you know...

2007-11-16 13:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

I love her but don't want to be disloyal to him. Do you think it's okay to be nice to her? I like to visit with her some and treat her like family. I can't treat her mean, she's sweet.

2007-11-16 12:55:03 · 19 answers · asked by jacquie 6

MY HUSBAND WORKED WITH A YOUNGER BIOSEXUAL FEMALE FOR ABOUT A YEAR. HE DID SPEAK OF HER OFTEN BUT I'M NOT THE JEALOUS TYPE SOOOO. ANYWAY, SHE MOVES AWAY AND HAS CALLED HIM ON THE HIS CELL PHONE A COUPLE OF TIMES. IT WAS BAD TIMING(i WAS IN THE ROOM) SO ANYWAY SHE CALLS MY HOUSE NUMBER AND MY HUSBAND ACTS ALL SHOCKED AND CONFUSED (RIGHT) WHISPERS NOT TO CALL HIM AT HOME. ARE YOU STILL WITH ME? SO IT FINALLY COME TO A HEAD AND HE SAID HE LOANED HER SOME MONEY SEVERAL MONTHS AGO AND SHE WAS CALLING BACK FOR MORE. HE SAID SHE HAD A 5 YEAR OLD LITTLE BOY AND NEEDED CHRISTMAS MONEY. WELL WHEN HE TALKED TO HER AGAIN SHE IS MESSED UP ON SOMETHING, LOST HER LITTLE BOY,AND IS UNDER HOUSE ARREST.SHE HAS BEEN IN PRISON BEFORE. DO YOU THINK SOMETHING WENT ON BETWEEN THEM THE YEAR SHE WORKED THERE OR IS SHE JUST A TROUBLE SOUL WHO FOUND A SUCKER.

2007-11-16 12:53:47 · 20 answers · asked by bob 2

2007-11-16 12:52:06 · 11 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3