2007-11-16 14:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by Dirt E. Deeds 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not 4 online dating! Just friendship?
2007-11-16 14:06:08 · update #1
I can't believe I'm chatting with you now...
I feel so ashamed...so dirty....LOL
I think there is a difference in chatting versus cyber sex. It's like chatting with someone in line at the grocery store, it doesn't mean your going to follow them home and make a porn......
Wait....does it??...LOL Sorry, couldn't help myself... :-)
2007-11-16 14:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is a difference between chatting and starting up a relationship on line. One thing to think about though is this: if you are lonely in your marriage and your wife is as well, maybe less time chatting to strangers and more time spent on your best friend and life partner might make you both happier.
If you chat as a single person and present yourself like you are looking for a relationship, it is obviously wrong. One way to know if you are okay or not is to picture your spouse doing and saying what you are and thinking about how it would feel and how you would like it.
You know if it wrong or not. Trust your values. Don't get caught up in being right. Get caught up in being happy.
2007-11-16 22:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You wouldn't be asking this question if you probably have not crossed any lines. I think when you are in relationship and chatting turns inappropriate and you know what I mean by incorporate it is time to stop chatting online with certain individuals.
2007-11-16 22:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,nothing wrong with chatting online as long as the topic is about friendship, things youve learned and just really want to get to know more about others, i mean if you are happily married you would know your duty right, so no, its not wrong.
2007-11-16 22:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not even if you are talking to females. It's perfectly okay for married people to have friendships with either men or women. If your wife has a problem with you having friendships outside the marriage, she is controlling and bordering abuse.
2007-11-16 22:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong in chatting with other people. It depends on what you're chatting. You can gain some knowledge from it. Just stay away from flirting and hitting on other people
2007-11-16 22:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Hengky W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if he brags about his wife and tells others how happily married he is and how he would never do anything to jeopardize that.
2007-11-16 22:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are chatting about!
If you are talking about football, the weather, swapping recipes, etc. there is nothing wrong with discussing that kind of thing with either gender.
If you are talking about anything sexual then yes, you are out of line.
2007-11-16 22:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong. If each individual is honest and sincere to their spouse.
But......still chatting contributes so many divorces and seperations. That's where it's starts.
It's how you deal with it.
2007-11-16 22:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sha S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you heard of the term "emotional cheating?" Yes, that's right "internet shopping" is not ok to do when you are a married man.
2007-11-16 22:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋