From my question earlier... If I decide to leave my husband because of his weed smoking, abusing cough medication, and neglecting our child...Then what? I am a housewife right now because my son needs alot of attention since he was born at 24 weeks. I definetly feel everybody that told me to not put up with it, and thats what I want to do...But my son needs medical care. I dont like dealing with the chaplain and FRG people because when things got bad last year they did absolutly nothing about it...they just "pretended to". When I was in danger they took my situation lightly, so all them can rott in hell! Who else can I rely on to help me at least get off this island and back home?
2007-11-16 13:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband has a financial obligation to assist with the raising of your child.
Surely the way he is you would be better off without his physical presence since he's not doing much good anyway, and just take his child support and use it to make your situation better.
Maybe you move back in with your folks briefly while you get back on your feet. Maybe you use his child support to pay for daycare so you can get a good paying job.
Your husband should also have decent medical insurance, so your son should remain on his policy so your costs are covered.
There are always alternatives, and staying with a loser who is more of a burden than a benefit shouldn't be an option.
2007-11-16 13:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to take heed to approximately this, and if I have been on your shoes hell could have broken unfastened already! What an fool...to not point out irresponsible loser...! i assume many people will think of you -and that i- are overreacting...not SO. Pot is merely the 1st step....Or do you particularly think of people do Coke or heroin in one day? HA HA. humorous how some people can say that's alright to do drugs especially circumstances....i could be giggling if it wasn't pathetic. have you ever considered those 50 or 60 365 days olds who in no way stopped being hippies and nevertheless smoke pot? they don't look so amazing now, do they? properly....for the reason that your husband is an grownup -chronologically, a minimum of- he has the desirable to make a mistake his existence if he needs to; yet that would not recommend he has the desirable to pull you and your toddler down with him. So, in case you experience you could not forgive him and you think of he won't replace, then get your guts at the same time and bypass to a lawyer after talking on your loved ones. good success. no one merits a drug person as a husband- notwithstanding "leisure" or "occasional". think of roughly your toddler's destiny, as properly as your peace of strategies.
2016-09-29 09:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him, then get him into rehab. Tell him it's the drugs or you. If he picks the drugs then go to a woman's shelter. And call family if you have any. A woman's shelter will get you the help you need and your son. Trust me...just call one and you will find out. There will always be child support since he has a job also.
2007-11-16 13:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with smoking a little weed but the other stuff i don't blame you for wanting to leave him. Do what you got to do for yourself and for your baby. Good luck!
2007-11-16 13:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the dead beat and find a real man who knows how to treat a woman and a baby
2007-11-16 13:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Falcon163 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just leave him and demand spousal support, you don't have to divorce him. you have lots of options. you can stay on tricare and all that. you need some good friends and family. do you have that?
2007-11-16 13:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope your family would be behind you to help you out....otherwise you're going to have to find a job and good benefits.
2007-11-16 13:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO UR HUSBAND ABOUT HOW U FEEL.. AND OFFER HIM TO SEEK SOME HELP OR LEAVE HIM IF HE REFUSED TO DO WHAT U ASK HIM TO DO GOOD LUCK
2007-11-16 13:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh.. what?
2007-11-16 13:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋