Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2007

Last year at this time, my husband and I went through bad times, and he hurt me alot. He got sent back early from Iraq because of it, and almost got kicked out the army. As the months passed things began to get better between us and I let my guard down just a little. His friend returned from Iraq 3 weeks ago, and since then things have been bad. He is smoking weed, abusing pills, and neglecting our son. I have had it..I try to talk to him but nothing is getting through. I asked him not to do these things but instead he does it behind my back. Game recognizes Game..So I know whats going on but he denies it. To redeem himself he brings up things I did wrong in the past. I just want our family to not fall apart, but he is not hearing me. What do I do? I really want to leave because I feel like I am being totally disrespected and tired of constantly being lied to. Marriage is based on trust, I feel like if I cant trust him then what is that for a marriage? How do I get through to him?

2007-11-16 00:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2

before having sex? Does it really matter in the end of all?

2007-11-16 00:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

And if so, is it just because they are tired of living a lie? Does it make it easier for them if they get caught? Should I file for divorce or wait for him to fess up?

2007-11-16 00:22:58 · 13 answers · asked by raininonsunday 3

I know we live in the 21st century however aren't somethings suppose to stay traditional? I mean if a man wants to marry you, he will propose, simple as that.

The reason I bring this up is...my fiance's sister that was DYING to get married mind you (insight--she's the last one in the family to be engaged --has made several comments that it bugs her & her BF BETTER propose by...October or whatever the month maybe that time) & her BF wasn't asking so she asked him and he said "I guess". What's with all the pressure? I mean isn't love suppose to be patient? I don't think marriage should involve ultimatiums either. Keep in mind this man just lost his Mother too...kind of bad timing. I just want ti to work but I'm seeing when a woman proposes the odds are stacked that it usually don't bc the man didn't want ot get married to begin with. I mean look at the divorce rate already. Ugh. Your thoughts?

2007-11-16 00:14:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous