Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2007

My wife loves me very much. She says her soul is satisfied, but doesn't need to be physical as much. My wife satisfies my soul, but not my physical needs. Recently I've met a woman who is in a similar situation with her husband. Neither of us want to leave our spouses, but the physical attraction we have toward each other is so strong, that we feel the pain of loneliness when we are apart. Why is it wrong to satisfy our souls, but not give in to our physical desires without the reprocussion of guilt?

2007-11-16 15:51:16 · 37 answers · asked by The Saint 1

Ok my husband does not have the best history with cheating and Iam pretty sure he is not. But we got in a fight tonight and I want to know if I am over reacting. For some reason he does not like to discuss his female friends with me well last night he decided to which was fine. Then he went on that this women was having a b-day party for her son. Ok fine. Well then I start to question him and he states that he compliments her sometimes, Which I could of dealt with not hearing that. Anyways he said that he would like to go. I said fine. So I am working and dont get off till nine and the bday party starts at 7. him and my daughter goes/ Well he picks me up and my daughter is not in the car. Mind you that I do not know this women and have trust issues with my hubby., Comes to fine out that she has been alone with her for over three hours/ I got mad. One I dont know this women and I know you flirt with her. oh and btw it was her party which he decided to tell me after the fact. Help !!!

2007-11-16 15:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by the_britts2003 2

I'm still so lonely after my divorce. I don't go to bars or clubs. When I got married I lost touch with my family and friends.. I only hung out with my husbands friends and family. Now that we're apart, it's like starting all over. I'm really not sure where to go from here. any help would be much appreciated. Thank you all!

2007-11-16 15:37:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it ok to sleep around while single (and ladies, please dont say you didn't) but sleeping around while married is gross?

2007-11-16 15:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by male.confused 2

2007-11-16 15:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can a woman tell if a man is really into her? and not just for sex?

2007-11-16 15:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

but my husband was joking around with me and stuff and we were talking about how women always say "its MY baby" but then he said its more of THE MANS baby it comes from him first....do some men really think that and have any of ur husbands said this to you and been serious

p.s again my husband wasJOKING when he said this

2007-11-16 15:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 4 years already and I've been in another realtionship since my ex and I split (cuz he was young and not ready to get married). Sometimes I think about him for no reason and miss what we had, and other times I am so happy we ended it cuz i couldn't stand all the stupid arguments.

2007-11-16 15:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by PIXIE 2

My ex-husband started dating a girl in Aug. Engaged in May. Haven't met her in person. I tried to get to know her with hopes of being friends. Sent card to congratulate on engagement to her, sent emails, invited to be "friend" on myspace so she could see pics of kids. Recently had a falling out with my ex (usually we get along good) over a situation with his new fiancee spending the night at his house with the kids there; we had signed a legal document in front of judge stating several things including that we would not have members of opp. sex spend night with kids there. He was trying to sneak it behind my back, but I figured out what he was up to prior to it happening & stopped it. Anyways, the new fiancee flipped out & started sending me text after text, email after email calling me names, etc. I have told her to stop all contact with me but she persists. It's aggravating.

2007-11-16 15:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 15:22:48 · 43 answers · asked by Midwest Social Worker 2

It's not public, it's in a fitting room. Could I get in trouble if I did that with my husband?

2007-11-16 15:20:33 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

even know your marred andmadley in love....do you still see people that you think are hot and like get a feeling that you rellly like then or somehingsimular ever.......if you do should you feel gulity or is it just human nature to be attracted to then??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 15:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2

My husband and I are separating (for reasons I will not fully go into, except to say that he has some issues...and he agrees) and the idea of not having to see him when I walk through the door makes me happy. I am not mad, sad, or hurt. I am ready to move on. Did you feel similar to this at first and then change your mind...or are you still happy to be separated?

2007-11-16 15:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She already said she's happy..

2007-11-16 15:08:53 · 14 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2

Except that you find married life utterly boring?

2007-11-16 15:07:04 · 19 answers · asked by male.confused 2

Have you ever had a jealous mate?Did the relationship become violent?
I met someone online. He and I have not met in person yet. We have been talking on the phone and chating online.I asked him about his past relationships.He told me that his past girlfriends said that he was too jealous.When he told me that I became worried.Should I continue to talk with him?

2007-11-16 15:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

so i had a high school sweetheart for all 4 years of high school... but when it came time for college we went seperate ways and decided to break it off... well she is depressed now and is transfering to my school next year. she is expecting us to get back together but i'm kind of enjoying the single life. any suggestions?

2007-11-16 15:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by NCSUwolfpack22 3

There are different opinion and views of separated and divorces issues But, you can blame the other spouse all you like and vise averse. But, You can't get away of the reality of it. the problem where you are at teh time.

Unfortunity you can involve others or others causing the marriage brake up.

There the line

the are people put their children in the middle and manulate the children which on the same hand is wrong.

It's a waste of time to take up the lawyers time to put lies on Legal papers.

It not going to make yourself look good.

So, why do it????

2007-11-16 14:57:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kirsten from the moment we fell in love
i knew it would last 4ever
i love you
you are amazing
you are girl that makes me whole
i dont want there 2 be any1 else but you
from this moment on my heart is always urs
i want want 2 spend the rest of my life with you
your my dream come true
will you marry me?

2007-11-16 14:55:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This boys # I have in my phone. Well we have been talking lately..This boy named *Cody* gave me his # Saying that call him he wants ot hook up with you!
Well ive` been getting that the boy i`m talking too is the same boy. That we were alone and crap..Like even when i asked him what she looks like it kinda matched up too me
I don`t know about you..But to me that`s fishy!
He texted me..And stuff askin me what i`m doin..
And then he said somethin about ''forget it'' Remember?
What does that mean.Also he doesn`t go to my school..But i think he is lying..I`m not shure.
What do you think i`m tired of being confsued!!
The bad thing of it is..What if i think this is the boy..But then i find out it isn`t what should i do?

2007-11-16 14:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

if youre going on the computer and talking to other people like guys in chatrooms and youre husband doesnt know is it wrong but only doing it for conversation and its fun

2007-11-16 14:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you sleep with your husband or wife, do you cuddle to sleep, or do you sleep on opposite sides not really touching?

also pleae add how many yrs you have been married

2007-11-16 14:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do married people think that unmarried people cant understand the problems they have??

2007-11-16 14:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by peterson51785 3

We have this investor who is married; his a foreigner by the way - his wife is is in their country but he have a girlfriend here and he brings her when he comes to our office, the girlfriend knows that he's married but is not with his wife anymore - according to the GF - for us all we know is his still committed to his legal wife. this situation has make us uncomfortable because we dont want to be caught in the middle if in case his legal wife will visit our office. He doesnt talk much regarding his relationship and personal matter - we respect that however we just dont like the idea of him bringing his "mistress" in our business place, we also believe that this brings bad luck to the business. I want to hear other people's opinion regarding this - are just exagerated and narrow-minded on our way of thinking, not to mention conservative? also, as a woman (me) im beginning not to like her, coz she love to talk about herself all the time and i think she's a hypocrite and fake,

2007-11-16 14:43:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will you marry a poor man?

2007-11-16 14:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 1

my husband and i went on a vacation, a ski vacation, to save our marriage. unfortunately, one night, i went to get a massage, and when i came back, i found my husband in bed with one of the male hotel workers. i didnt know what to think. after pondering the thought of having a 3 some that night, i realized that this occasion may not be the healthiest for our relationship. My husband has kept in contact with this man since then, and he often visits on weekends. what do you think i should do? should i get a divorce, get serious counseling, or welcome my husbands new lover into our life. our children seem to enjoy his company and i think he is quite handsome.

i need help!

2007-11-16 14:38:54 · 31 answers · asked by watermeloniegirl 2

2007-11-16 14:37:35 · 16 answers · asked by knight 1

2007-11-16 14:37:27 · 26 answers · asked by godslove 1

I already have 6 from 3 different women and pay over half of my income towards child support. I've never fallen behind on my payments and share custody with all my kids' moms. It just happened when I was young and dumb back high school. I had all 6 of them before I turned 19. Between college and supporting my kids, I have worked my butt off and barely had any time to spend with them. My youngest is 7 and I missed all her best years growing up. I really don't want this. I think she's got it in her head to keep it. I used condoms I swear. And she said she was on the pill but I don't believe her. I really need her to see my point of view. She's a Catholic. I suspect she thinks I'll marry her if she keeps it. I have no such plans.

2007-11-16 14:32:40 · 30 answers · asked by Sean 2

I left my husband in January because his drinking was out of control. I left him so he could get better for our family.(his drinking was making my daughters upset) I was not leaving him so we could get a divorce. I could not let my kids live that life anymore. He told me he could not get sober with me in the house with him. To make a long story short he ended up finding another girl and now she is having his baby in Febuary. I was so crushed when I found this out a few months ago but for some reason it still bothers me. Why? I am so over him because he truly showed me and our girls how much he cared. We are getting a divorce and I can't wait to get it started. I guess my question is,why do I still waste so much of my energy on him? Is there anything I can do to make it go away? I guess it hurts so much because I struggle everyday and he has it made with this new girl. They are getting ready for this new baby but he still has two daughters that he doesn't see enough. Thanks!

2007-11-16 14:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1