so i had a high school sweetheart for all 4 years of high school... but when it came time for college we went seperate ways and decided to break it off... well she is depressed now and is transfering to my school next year. she is expecting us to get back together but i'm kind of enjoying the single life. any suggestions?
2007-11-16 15:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by NCSUwolfpack22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
enjoy your single life.
you are not committed and you are not married.
make it very clear to her what your intentions are!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-16 15:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you leading her on? Be truthful with her before she moves to your school. It may break her heart, but if you don't want to get back together, you better tell her now before her heart is broken when she moves. Let her know that if she is just coming to your school to be with you, that you really just need your space right now, but you don't know what will happen in the future and you really care for her a lot. If she wants to still come to your school for other reasons, let her know you still want to be very good friends. I don't see anything wrong with taking some time to date other girls. Just don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. And if you do love her and you know that the next time you see her, all your old feeling will come back, maybe you shouldn't let her go and be with her. Maybe theres no need to go find something, when it's right in front of you. Decisions, decisions...good luck with whatever you choose!
2007-11-16 23:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The single life has it's perks as does being in a relationship. My advice is to take things slow and express to her that it is your intention. - If you are certain that you don't want to get together with her now - you will obviously have to word it cautiously. - Express to her that you have enjoyed this time alone and that you are just not sure as to if you are ready for a relationship. I would also be careful too.. If you decide that the single life is getting old and you realize she is who you want to be with - she might have already moved on. Unless you are a guy who really really isn't into relationships the single life will get old and you will want to settle down - if she is someone you can see yourself settling down with, don't lose that opportunity, make sure you two remain close.
2007-11-16 23:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to be HONEST!!! Tell her you are enjoying your freedom and you just want to keep things casual if possible. Don't string her along it will just cause a lot of drama.
2007-11-16 23:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Shavon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u dont wanna be in a relationship 4 now
2007-11-16 23:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by a desprete dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask questions like this in singles and dating
2007-11-16 23:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome her back as a good friend. Introduce her to new people but be very clear with her that you have moved on.
2007-11-16 23:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are moving on. and then she will be always your friend.
2007-11-16 23:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her right now
2007-11-16 23:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by xoxoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋