Do married people think that unmarried people cant understand the problems they have??
2007-11-16 14:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by peterson51785 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly in my opinion, in the past I have thought that too. However sometimes we as married couples don't realize that unmarried people can sometimes see what we don't see. They are an outsiders perspective and sometimes they really know what they are talking about.
2007-11-16 14:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by S_O_T_C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will it's hard for some unmarried people to understand married people, but a relationship is a relationship it's all depends on the problems that are going on. You need to just talk them all out go with your heart.
2007-11-16 22:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Toni A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend was unmarried but living with him and I have been married for 3 years and she asks me things all the time, but some of them she understands. It's just guys have different motivations and things. But in the end she just got married to him last week.
2007-11-17 04:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by singer4u1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some unmarried people can't understand. That's not to say that all unmarried people cannot understand what I'm going through, but some of them seem more apt to say, "Just leave him!" when I have a problem, rather than understanding that I'm fully capable of complaining and venting without wanting to leave.
2007-11-16 23:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to be married at least once to know what us married people go through every day, so, No I don't believe that unmarried people understand that what REALLY goes on between married people at all, they can only speculate.
2007-11-16 22:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible for an unmarried person to understand marriage if they are mature.
2007-11-16 22:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. Since when I wasn't married I didn't have a clue. I know a lot of my friends that got married before me suddenly seem snobbish, I didn't know why.
But now that I am married and have been for 4 years, I understand.
The first 1 and a bit your so uptight about everything, it's like the toughest part of marriage. I didn't have a clue when I was single what was up.
2007-11-16 23:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kellyn25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married people should act like unmarried people...this throws the unmarried people off...wishing they were like you two...happily married but don't know it!
2007-11-16 22:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by nancie_usa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all relationships have the same basic problems, married or not. My boyfriend and I live together, and we have the same problems that my parents do. Paying bills, spending time together, work, money, etc. Maybe single people with no relationship experience don't understand.
2007-11-16 22:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were older they could understand. but from the types of questions I have answered in the past. shows me they do not understand. and have a lot to learn. I am not saying all are that way. it just seems as if most of them are. when they can understand why parents do the things they do, then they will understand. but most of them do not. so I cannot see how they can grasp the things they have to face and worry about. there are times a parent has to do something they do not want to do, but they do if it means it will help their teens or Children. but the teens and Children see it as being mean to them. there are times sacrifices have to be made. not just for the teens or Children, but for their spouse. if you can understand, what I just told you, then you are one that will understand, about a Marriage.
2007-11-16 23:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋