Why is there so much pressure for singles to sleep around and marrieds to be faithful?

Question

Why is it ok to sleep around while single (and ladies, please dont say you didn't) but sleeping around while married is gross?

Answer 1

I"m single i feel no pressure it would be nice to have some action but if i feel pressured by the person am out of there.

I guess what makes it gross is that you decided to make it a holy matrimony to be with that one special person olnly...your choice .

Answer 2

Who said there is pressure to sleep around while single? When people are married that is supposed to be the last person you ever have sex with, if people don't like that then they shouldn't get married. Personally I think its "gross" to sleep around single or married, way too many things you can catch now a days.

Answer 3

I am a female and I REALLY DIDN'T sleep around when I was single. But hey, I never was willing to settle for the dingbats, pigs or drunks that are all over the place, either.
I am happily married now to my wife and the purpose of marriage is to grow old with your deepest love/best friend and it's just you and your honey getting through life together, committed through thick and thin, better or worse, sickness and in health. Those kinds of vows and that kind of life has no need or room for lovers on the side. Why make such vows of commitment if you're going to be disrespectful and have sex with other people? It spreads disease, too. If you wanna sleep around, don't be married.

Answer 4

....huh. It's never ok.

Why sleep around when you can sleep in one single bed over and over again, without anything to bother you as a consequnce?

Single or not, it's a matter of choice. And note, not all single ladies are promiscuous. Even at this modern age. Take a look. You'll be surprise.

And while married? Please. Go over with your vows and review it. It might help you out.

Answer 5

Hmm, well, I am single and I don't sleep around. I don't even date anymore, but I'm older.

I think it's an age thing about sowing wild oats and finding a partner. My family used to bug me all the time, but my last relationship was a nightmare and I've been single for over 10 years.

No one says anything anymore. For that matter, most people are 50/50 on my sexual preference. Some think I'm hetero, others think I'm homosexual.

I don't even care anymore.

Answer 6

there is no PRESSURE to "sleep around" when single--you do it IF you want to. As far as when married, read the bible--it is a sin, and millions do it anyway. That's a BIG part of what keeps the divorce courts busy.

Answer 7

then why get married if your still gonna sleep around? and really theres no pressure when single its just if you want to.

Answer 8

It depends on how you value yourself in both situations. If you are single and feel that this is magical weapon to use to get next to someone, you are wrong and you have self esteem problems. I would want someone to want me for who I am and not just a lust thing. When you are married you are united to be "One" forsaking all others. Do onto others as you would have them do unto you. How would you like to be cheated on? It is all about moral ethics either you have them or you don't.

Answer 9

Yep there are. it is not our fault that the a million single alluring committed lady is pushed by potential of ways adult adult males look and their actual visual allure, particularly of what's interior them. They by no potential opt to circulate out with the committed, obese and not that amazing guy, however the only which is so amazing, each lady desires to circulate to mattress with. so as this is why they end how they end. Ironic, isn't it?

Answer 10

ITS GROSS MARRIED ARE BETWEEN TWO NOT THREE