even know your marred andmadley in love....do you still see people that you think are hot and like get a feeling that you rellly like then or somehingsimular ever.......if you do should you feel gulity or is it just human nature to be attracted to then??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-16 15:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
woops i was typing fast sry for the mistates
and i'm not married but i'm inlove.....and the person i'm in love with isn't sure if they love me....and i've been distracted by one other biy then it blew off and i relized how stupid it was.....and now it's happening with another boy....i think it's cuz i tired of waiting for him t want me and to love me.....but i love him more hen anyhting so i can't give up!!!!!....
2007-11-16 15:24:42 · update #1
It is alright to look but not touch. Just because you are married doesn't mean that you are dead. You can still appreciate sexy looking people BUT that is as far as it should go. I love my husband but I still can swoon when I see Mathew McConnolly (sp)
2007-11-16 15:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to be attracted to people .. afterall - that is how the marriage took place .. because the person was attracted to their spouse in the first place.
It is human nature to be attracted to other people. However - lots of the time .. when a person is really in love - they have no desire but for the person they really love.
If you feel like your guy does not love you .. then this could affect you to want to be loved .. and to look for love.
Have you ever asked yourself if you really love your guy .. or if you are simply wanting someone?
2007-11-16 23:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal to be attracted to others even though ur in love with and totally committed to ur man. IF ur committed, keep committed. Looking is fine, just don't touch, or flirt or anything. I'm glad my husband told me that he'll look, otherwise I'd go nuts because I thought he'd want someone else. But since he told me this and I"ve learned much, I've learned that people look. IF someones attractive, u'll admire. Its nature, the Lord created all humans to be attractive and attract one another...just not be with everyone they wanted to be with.
2007-11-16 23:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is nature's automatic docking system, like a satellite once initiated it is hard to stop. It wants you pregnant, repeatedly by several people, and then to look after and protect the kids. You have a brain, you don't have to act on every impulse.
2007-11-16 23:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to be attracted to someone who is sexy. That is how you met your husband. (of course there was love and stuff) This is a trait that God built into us to assure that we multiply. When you promise yourself to a husband or wife these feelings don't go away. That is why marriage is a committment. You still have these feelings, but the difference is that you don't act on them. Don't be ashamed of your feelings. If you act, BE ASHAMED.
2007-11-16 23:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by stringer_G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course--but you don't act on it. It's human nature to say, "Wow, he's hot" or "Holy Cow she's beautifully." Other people exist in this world.
But acting on those attractions is an entirely different thing. It's one thing to think, "I wonder what it would be like to be married to him" and it's quite another to think, "I bet he would be great at sex."
Admiration is okay, lust is not.
2007-11-16 23:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to others is almost as normal as spelling words wrong like crazy in your Answers Posts.
2007-11-16 23:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You haven't quite settled in yet on the fact that you're really married. Yes, it is normal...stay focused on the real life you have just committed to.
2007-11-16 23:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by nancie_usa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see people on TV that are cute
2007-11-17 18:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, yeah, we're still human... besides, how do you think cheating happens?!
2007-11-16 23:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by grob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋