2007-11-16 14:37:27 · 26 answers · asked by godslove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if he doesn't know, and you don't get pregnant.
2007-11-16 14:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I think it's up to the couple who are separated to make the ground rules. I always thought during a separation, the couple was taking a break from each other to see if they wanted to get back together and work things out. And, during that period nobody dated because the couple was technically still married.
By dating, it sounds like the decision has already been made not to get back together with your spouse. In all fairness, your spouse should be told so they can be free to date too since you're moving on.
2007-11-16 22:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish single people who have never been married would stay out of this forum. You have no clue what you are talking about on this issue being married and being single separation are totally different. To answer your question, if you are separated, I would use the time to figure out whether the marriage is worth fixing or using time to heal yourself. Why starting dating other when you are still married? You will be bringing that baggage to others, give you self time to figure what you really want to do. If there are kids it can probably be used against in a court of law depending on the state.
2007-11-17 01:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by comcast23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are legally still married. Sometimes people who are separated get back together and it could be interpreted as an affair. Just wait until you are sure that there is no way that you will get back together. Besides you just got out of a long, serious relationship, dating might not be the right thing to do. Not yet!
2007-11-16 22:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by brittme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if you are completely done with him. If you are asking if it's OK while being legally separated, yes it is OK to date. There is no law against it. There is though if you are military and didn't file you can get in trouble for Adultery. I think you should have been more specific about your question.
2007-11-16 22:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by n/a n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Godslove,
It's perfectly fine as long as you don't have any regrets, there aren't any rule's for dating if you are separated. In society these day's there are no rule's for marriage either. It's all inside of you, so make sure it's really what you want so that down the line you don't wish you hadn't done it. I wish you the best!
2007-11-16 22:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are way too caught up in a racial thing, it is ok too date so soon after marriage if you feel it's ok. Besides, first guy is always the rebound.
2007-11-16 22:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by bec3tiny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-16 22:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, married is married. Never start cooking something new until you are finished with the pie in the oven. You will end up with two hot messes if you do.
2007-11-16 22:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should date anybody because u never know if that dude u seperated from he might want you and you might want him back to i would wait till he finds a girl 1st then u could date
2007-11-16 22:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by kwanita w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that's OK, how will you ever figure out
what to do about your marriage if your dating other people?
To me, it is cheating-because you're still married.
2007-11-16 23:10:39 · answer #11 · answered by Brilliant 1forHIM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋