Except that you find married life utterly boring?
2007-11-16 15:07:04 · 19 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No...you bunch of frumps just don't understand.
My wife is hot...and the sex is good.
But come on now...being married IS sooooo booooring.
2007-11-16 15:14:15 · update #1
Look dopes,
I've served in the military, stared down the barrel of a gun, done college, worked at small companies and large corporations. I've traveled in the states, the southern states and new england. Shoot I've ever run thru the gungles of panama.
So i'm not boring.
Whats reallly really boring are the confines of marriage.
2007-11-16 16:13:05 · update #2
I'm sorry hon... but being boring is a poor excuse to destroy a family.... I have to be honest here.
I wish my marriage was boring.... I would be so very happy.
Sigh....
2007-11-16 15:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you find it boring you are part of the problem. Most couples let things go before it is to late. Ad some spice to it. Do romantic trips even just a drive, Go fishing or what ever. In the bedroom spread some rose petals on the bed with some kind of treat with them. If your spouse is not receptive then the spark is gone. Try to work it out. Find some common ground and work on it. Find out what the interest was in getting married in the first place. If that dont work then it is over as you have to be friends before anything. I have not read anything in here about the bedroom dork. You asked the question. Spice up your marriage ding bat
2007-11-16 15:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by brianandchristinenickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no - I would find a way to keep it from being utterly boring. Divorce is expensive.
If there isn't some serious problem then it shouldn't be too hard to figure out how to make the relationship what you want it to be. Marriage can be incredible and fun and exciting. It just takes a little work sometimes. Maybe its time to take some drastic steps and make some big changes. But divorce wouldn't be the big change I would choose.
2007-11-16 15:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by RLW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would just try to spice things up in the marriage as much as possible. If this is not an option, then I would find a way to make life more exciting. And I do NOT mean cheating....but find a hobby. You're right--married life is boring. But that's just normal. It's up to you to find things to make things more fun. And again, I am NOT condoning cheaing! *grin* Just maybe increase the amount of friends that you have, flirt a little with a cute girl, etc.
2007-11-16 15:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find out why it is boring in the first place.Would you cut off your friendship with your somebody just b'coz it is boring?We are all bored at one point or the other.That is why we have to look at where the relation is going and set our priorities clearly.If you really feel you are bored with your marriage,your wife will not be lagging behind in that respect and will surely tell you someday how her life with you sucks.
Further, marriage is just one dimension of life.Focus on things that give you the kicks you don't get at home.Just to give you an example, would you not have a nice evening with your wife if your favourite football team wins or if you get a promotion or bonus? And your spouse who is so boring till then suddenly appears so romantic and appealing that you would not exchange sometime with her for anything in the world.
If you are a person who hangs around your wife,paying all your attention only to family, you will bored to death and cause lot of resentment in the minds of your family member/s.So get out of your house,work hard and win the whole world,leave your mark on history,help the poor and needy and whatever you can.Get back to your house after having spent a fulfilling day and you will find somebody who is eagerly waiting for you and you will realise how beautiful life is and what a divine gift wife is.
I would not divorce just because I am bored,only a moron would.If you are bored in one respect,you can be exited about other things.If you are vexed with life in general ,it is no wonder you naturally consider your wife the cause and effect of it.We all have somebody to victimise,don't we!
First crawl out that family-centered mindset and look at life in its various magficient dimensions.I am sure more than one of it will surely draw you attention,given you look at it in the right way.Surely,you will be very busy before long enjoying your life to the max.Goodluck.
2007-11-16 16:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by havah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its boring there is something wrong ..but then again single life could get boring too.
Its a matter of activities and adventures...for both with each other.
2007-11-17 03:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and be an adult. You sound like a child complaining about things being boring.
2007-11-16 15:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way man.......could be bad magic........
Man up! and find a way to make it work....
..try remembering why you married her in the first place....
.....remember, a lot of women these days are on some whole 'nother other sh.......just plain crazy and disgusting! So if you've got a good one, do right by her.........keep her straight, but do right by her
2007-11-16 15:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Funkenstein 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhh..you sound like a big baby. Get a freakin' hobby, go do something with your wife thats exciting! Be a freakin' man! S@*#...are you serious with this???!!! You have problems.
2007-11-16 15:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never divorce my husband for that reason you cant give up before trying you should spice it up do things you never do talk to your partner so they can do the same make it fun.
its most likely boring because you or your partner are boring so change that
2007-11-16 15:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by sprinklz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋