if youre going on the computer and talking to other people like guys in chatrooms and youre husband doesnt know is it wrong but only doing it for conversation and its fun
2007-11-16 14:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah - you shouldnt be doin that, but what the hell it is fun lol lol. whats he doin while your online talkin **** or should i say whats he hiding from you? ah but you dont care, he can do what ever since you can Right?
2007-11-16 15:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with it as long as your just talking to them like you would someone you meet in real life.
It's only cheating if you cross the line and break your vows.
But you have no reason not to tell your husband if your not doing anything wrong.
My husband and I both go online and chat with friends, male and female but we don't hide it and there is no reason to do so.
2007-11-16 14:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know if you're having an affair or not. But here's a quick rule of thumb: if you would feel comfortable telling your husband about it, or better yet, letting him see what you're typing, it's probably not an affair.
2007-11-16 15:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, would you want him doing it? If it was the other way around how would you feel?
Are they conversations you would mind him reading?
Personally me and my husband do everything to make the other one feel loved and secure :)
2007-11-16 15:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends upon conversations...but still i think ur husband has a right to know at least for avoiding the future conflicts in ur marriage life
2007-11-16 14:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by sin_talk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might not be exactly having an affair, but it's still wrong. You are talking to other men on the side. It can definitely be construed as being unfaithful by your husband. Stop it!
2007-11-16 14:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess just chatting is ok if you start up a conversation and then find out it's a man, but if you're strickly chatting with him, b/c he's a man, then it's wrong. Or it could be considered cheating altogether.
2007-11-16 14:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband knew about it, would it bother him?
If your answer is yes, it might be considered cheating. You need to ask yourself also if this is taking away time and intimacy with your husband. It was explained to me that anything that takes away intimacy from your marital relationship could be considered cheating. That sounded reasonable to me.
2007-11-16 14:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sister, as long as you keep the talk "G" rated, you ain't doing anything wrong. Don't let these clowns tell you otherwise.
2007-11-16 17:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Carol Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's gas all over the floor and you are holding a lit match.
beware that you are playing with fire.
2007-11-16 15:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋