There are different opinion and views of separated and divorces issues But, you can blame the other spouse all you like and vise averse. But, You can't get away of the reality of it. the problem where you are at teh time.
Unfortunity you can involve others or others causing the marriage brake up.
There the line
the are people put their children in the middle and manulate the children which on the same hand is wrong.
It's a waste of time to take up the lawyers time to put lies on Legal papers.
It not going to make yourself look good.
So, why do it????
2007-11-16 14:57:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally if my husband wanted a divorce and was wanting everything I would just give it to him and walk away. I do not want any lawyer fees haunting me the rest of my life ya know? I guess people do it because they are greedy for all the material things in life and they want to hurt the spouse. and if they can get other people to feel sorry for them and blame the other spouse then it justifys that it's not their fault that the mariage ended. Personally I would let him dig his own grave.
2007-11-16 15:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by just bored 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spite ! Just for the spite of it.......
In the real world it takes two people to make a marriage work and it takes to for that marriage to fall apart.....I know you'll hear it was all her and or it was all him but in the end they are both at fault for some reason or another.
The others you speak of are the ones either side has brought in to defend there side of the story.....lies or truths It just mean they can't fight there own battles and those same people have been in the back ground of the relationship causing some of the problems your speaking of.
Kids they are the lowest blow either side can use against the other......but unknown to them that in time the children are the only one getting hurt here and there the ones who really see each parent for who they truly are...........Again Just for the SPITE is the reason to do these things to get back at her guilt through you or just to make your life a living hell......That same woman you married is the same person who doesn't want to be with you now.....everyone is two faced it's just depends on what it take to bring it out......good luck keep your head held high and just don't get drawn into her little game ........... just ignore most of it but remember it all in the long run you'll be a better man for going through this.......
2007-11-16 23:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by thebaked 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're preaching to the choir here. The problem is that alot of people become unreasonable when things go bad. It's pretty sad.
2007-11-16 23:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by YJohnY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone tries to win .
2007-11-16 23:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the real question is ?
2007-11-16 23:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋