It's been 4 years already and I've been in another realtionship since my ex and I split (cuz he was young and not ready to get married). Sometimes I think about him for no reason and miss what we had, and other times I am so happy we ended it cuz i couldn't stand all the stupid arguments.
2007-11-16 15:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by PIXIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means that perhaps you were holding out a ray of hope that he would come back to you, or maybe you were hoping he would have been run over by a beer truck
2007-11-16 15:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it necessarily mean that you are still hung up on him, just that he is about to make the move that you and he were supposed to make. You are thinking of the what ifs. Once you remember what it was that broke you both up, you will feel better. I had a friend that had kinda the same situation. She really didn't want to be with the guy, just wondered and though she should be in a different place by now. Gl
2007-11-16 15:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably, you may't replace someone and cause them to do something that you want. they ought to favor to regulate for themselves.. there are some thoughts. you may search for marriage counseling, you may also sit him down and tell him the way you experience with the "I" words, or you may want to offer him an ultimatim (very last motel). the element is that you married him, understanding what you've been transferring into (him having an ex spouse and childrens).. so there extremely isn't a lot you may want to do except what I reported above. If he wasn't hiding something from you why might want to he delete the messages? it type of feels really off to me.
2016-10-24 09:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean that you are still hung up on him..It means you are human & a woman and it sucks that he is getting married before u!...... I think if you were married you would probably careless....
But the feeling is defitnetly normal and it will pass. I actually went to my ex's wedding..I was a lil tense and upset but i sat threw it and i actually felt good about going..Because ultimately im glad he is happy. And i met my fiance at the wedding so hey it worked out!!!
2007-11-16 15:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by kaprea j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is a long time, but yes, it is very possible. It takes a large amount of time and energy to be able to forget someone you had feelings for. I, unfortunately lost my first love to death, but I think about him every day, even though it has been almost 10 years. Everyone misses someone for one reason or another, and to miss the person you love, to marriage, or whatever, is totally natural.
2007-11-16 15:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard, even when we still bear hurt feelings when an ex does well as is the case here. This does not necessarily mean that you are still "hung up". And if thinking about an ex for no reason is weird, then I am weird too!
2007-11-16 15:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to think about someone you spent a good part of your life with. You two had a close relationship. You won't be able to forget him completely. As time goes on, I think things will get clearer for you. You can feel a twinge of uneasiness about his marriage. That doesn't mean you secretly love him and want him back.
2007-11-16 15:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by jess i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. Actually, you might be in denial if you didn't think this. You're happy for him and glad that you're over him and out of a bad relationship, but a little part of you still wonders why it couldn't work for you, and if it was your fault, though you know the truth.
2007-11-16 15:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone actually said you were jealous on this, so that made me want to chime in. first off, that person is a moron. it's a totally normal reaction. you had a great friendship with this person and it hurts that it's not there and that someone else, on top of that, is replacing you. people feel this same attachment in all relationships. you just have to get through it. go out with friends, be around family, just get your mind off of it. it will be much easier as it goes.
2007-11-16 15:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between being interested in someone, and being hung up on them. I think its normal to have some sort of reaction to big-life-news of an ex.
2007-11-16 15:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by takeoutgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋