before having sex? Does it really matter in the end of all?
2007-11-16 00:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think waiting until marriage is important at all-its about being mature and ready for the person that you are with. Especially in today's society, with such an extremely high divorce rate, and the way people treat marriage as disposable. Too many people make such a big deal out of getting married, but once they tie the knot, the fun is over, and before you know it, they give up and get divorced. When so many people treat marriage as just a piece of paper, nothing more, how can you expect anybody to want to wait until their wedding night?
2007-11-16 00:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Akatsuki 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I suppose it does boil down to whether you believe that God created sex as an intimate union between man and wife to the exclusion of all others or...
That we all just evolved from primeval slime in which case we might as well have sex with whoever we want and whenever we want (even in the shopping centre) and, what the heck, kill them if we didn't like it because there right and wrong doesn't really exist.
As far as trying to see if it fits right - I have never heard of anyone having parts that did not fit. If you know your anatomy right most of the action occurs just inside the vaginal entrance so loving your spouse enough to learn to satisfy their needs and desires is what is important.
If people follow God's plan both men and women are at their most content!
2007-11-16 00:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am not married yet, but of course it matters if you have sex before marriage, I mean come on. I don't believe in sex before marriage, because sometimes you think you are with the right person and that he's cool, and he'll end up marrying you, so why not have sex with him. But sometimes, things change, you might have your own cicrumstances and end up not getting along with him and stuff. My point is, you should wait until you get married, so you'd be quite sure that you are finally with the right person. Because you are married to him and have vows and stuff already. Its just legal, too, hehe.
2007-11-16 00:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Nope, I did not wait. Wait, do you mean with a partner? LOL
Hmm, I think these days most people don't wait at all. But some do. If it matters to those who wait, then more power to them. If they believe in God and His laws for us, then we, as a rule, should wait. No, I am no hypocrite. I was not sure how I felt about God when I was younger. Now I do.
2007-11-16 02:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didnt wait...almost did but didnt. I do think it matter ALOT, there is no way I'm amrrying a man who is 3 inches nor one that may have something weird going on down there. Its always good to know what you are marrying into.
2007-11-16 00:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who are deeply religious think that it's a sin to have sex before marriage.
I personally feel that if you truely love someone, why wait? The only thing that I don't really agree with is people having random hook-ups.
2007-11-16 00:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Gary M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't sleep with every man you date but I don't see the need to wait until marriage either. Be wise and make good choices.
2007-11-16 00:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I waited before marriage.
Not all the way until marriage, mind you, but I waited.
2007-11-16 00:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was 14 when I first had sex, I was 30 when I first got married. No it doesn't matter unless you believe it does.
2007-11-16 00:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kenneth E 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The men who wrote the bible, had the agenda of keeping women powerless, and as "owned objects." This is where the marriage idea comes in, the woman changing her name, and also staying a virgin. This way they couldl protect the "blood lines".
Today, people are smarter than to be mindless robots and follow these patriarchal views.
Sex is natural- before the christians came along with their "rules to rule women", sex was very open and acceptable. Christians made sex "bad".
2007-11-16 00:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 4 · 4⤊ 4⤋