Just curious. There is usually one in the relationship that loves the other more than the other loves them.
2007-11-16 16:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by Lorrie W 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was just curious how other people felt.
2007-11-16 16:54:58 · update #1
Sometimes yes.
2007-11-16 16:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by mitchey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies have proven that most women are more expressive and are not scared to show their emotions openly. While men being men, usually expresses their emotions in a more toned-down manner. However, that does not mean that husbands love their wives any lesser. Women shows their husband their love by the 'little things' they do for men. Reason being most women are stickler for details. Like how many women do you know remembers their husband's birthday compared to the number of men who remember their wife's birthday? But I am sure many wives can also testify that most of the time when something important crops up, like the birth of a child or when the wife is seriously ill, the husband would always be at the bedside to offer his support. So like a book says "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" and enjoy the time you have together as this may be the only lifetime you have with each other. So enjoy!
2007-11-17 02:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ci Ci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the loaded gun question. And well the answer is loaded to. I'm sure once in a while that two people have the same kind of love for one another. But the odds are and due to how people met, what the situation was, the circumstances. That most people have that lop sided love where one does or feels they love the other person more. And now all the complications arise, the questions, the actions.....
Honestly this is a simple question and a simple answer. Odds are to find couples that feel the same way about one another is more rare or more difficult than you think. We are humans that have desires, urges, we are rarely content or happy with what we have. Including a partner the desire to find and seek out feelings and emotions over power us, we are human with many faults Odds are one says things because the other partner is around, says things not to rock the boat. look at the divorce rate, dating issues, relationships in general....it's a disaster.
So I'll go out there and say it, it's more lop sided, in most NOT ALL relationships it's one sided and you can see everyday, look around you, and for God sake don't ask your significant other this question, no need to..........
2007-11-17 00:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by itsdaddyus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't doubt that this is the case in a good number of marriages. I think I love my spouse more than he loves me, honestly. He still has things in his life that is very important to him, though very unnecessary because they're just hobbies/interests, that he's willing to leave me at home for no matter what I say (or even what our funds say). =/ Though I'd love to share everywhere I go and everything I do with him, it's so easy for him to not be the same way. He's fine not coming with me to friends' weddings or family trips. Maybe I'm too clingy, but sometimes it makes me sad how "unattached" he can be.
2007-11-17 00:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with that statement. Usually when the stronger of the two give up then the relationship falls apart or is headed for hard times. I know that I love my husband more than he loves me. For instant we have been together seven years when I am sick I mean hospital, emergency room, and surgery, when those times have happen to me he has not been supportive to me at all. I just wonder what would happen if I ever got seriously ill
2007-11-17 00:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is not one person who loves the other most. That is the view of the persons who think they do. People love each other differently and show it differently that's all.
I think you are looking way too much and too deep about who loves who more. That is simply wrong. Do not try to compare, love is not a game or a competition. just love be loved and enjoy the love.
2007-11-17 01:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's funny that you ask this because my husband and I jokingly play this little game every day to see who can be the first to say "I love you most of all" before the other one does. I know, it's really silly but it's fun and keeps us laughing. We went away for a romantic weekend for our anniversary and at midnight, I rolled over and woke him up to say "i love you most of all for our anniversary!" In all seriousness, I think we love each other equally and powerfully.
2007-11-17 00:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband more that he loves me. I love more actively, I am a caretaker. Too, he has been involved with some unfortunate women, it makes trust and surrender much more difficult. I do know he loves me as much as he can. So I guess 100% is all I can hope for.
2007-11-17 00:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. McK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for us it's equal tho maybe not always the same intensity. We studied and learned how to keep things in balance and happy.....try it:
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
2007-11-17 00:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put the marriage above me and her.
2007-11-17 01:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋