have you experience infidelity by your husband/boyfriend and forgave him???
how has it been trying to move forward with them after their betrayal?
have they proven trustworthy?
2007-11-16 18:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its easy to go back with them, forgive them, but than your mind begins to wonder if they are a few minutes late, or there is an argument. u are always thinking about if he is doing it again. a man's past is a very good predictor of his future. if he didn't love u enough not to cheat on u in the first place, why go back and run the chance of it happening all over again.
2007-11-16 23:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My boyfriend cheated on me.. it was very hard in the beginning... You really need to spend time apart from each other to be able to cope with the anger... then if their is still someting there, try to work it out.. but it's a slow process trying to regain the trust... and it's obvious their will be jealousy there because of the cheating... it's just something you both have to be 100% committed to...
2007-11-17 02:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nance_1010 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is extremely hard to move past and it hurts to the core. You cant stope imagining it , it makes you physically sick. Can you move past and rebuild trust, yes. But, I can assure you that it is a extremely long and bumpy road. If you did this to her you have to answer all her quesitons she may have, be there to wipe each tear, and face it you desearve the mean comments she WILL make! Maybe she needs to attend couniling , maybe not. But you will have to do all you can to feed her ego. If you wants you to stay home and not go with friends you do, if she wants you to call her when you are at the store, do it. You will have alot to prove but It can be proven. Most importantly. love her so strong and make her feel like the ONLY one.
2007-11-17 02:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation, how long the cheating was, what point in the relationship it was, and how guilty the person actually feels.
i was cheated on once and after promising it would never happen again, it did.
But that person wasnt sorry, not in any way.
It takes knowing the person and the whole situation to decide that.
2007-11-17 02:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by aniston30062 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man cheated on me when i was in 9th grade..i found out that my man cheated on me after i broke up with him..he told me the truth in person that he cheated on me..i didnt get mad as i would cuz he told me soon enough and that he didnt hide it from me....alot of girls will take that differently...we were best friends after we broke up..we knew we loved each other and gave each other another chance..now everything is better than great...now im engaged to him..he has never cheated on me since then..lol...alot of guys and girls are different not all cheaters are still cheaters..i was a cheater way b4 i dated my man.ive changed cuz i finally found the right person for me..im finally happy with who i am..i believe in giving people chances..if they crossed the line more than once or twice then its just not worth it..
2007-11-17 02:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shqipe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationship is fragile like glass, once you break the trust it is hard to fix...thats what i belive and practise.
2007-11-17 02:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by boyklitz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that you are pinning the cheating title on the male gender only?
2007-11-17 02:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater always a cheater....once someone cheats it never works there is no trust in the relationship at all and thats the main ingredient for a good relationship.
2007-11-17 02:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
cheating is wrong i don't know why people do it but all i now is if you don't like someone you should just tell them and if you like two people well your just dirty
2007-11-17 02:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and I kept cheating after that. Women are so stupid.
2007-11-17 02:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋