I am going through a divorce and am trying to be nice and he is not just going with it and why I have no clue as he is bound to loose so much more then our "marraige" even though we have been apart he still is stuck on I am his wife????
I am done being nice I hate him I will no longer be put in the hospital blah blah blah.
This is turning into a feeling unlike I have ever had before
2007-11-16 03:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uh-oh. It sounds like you have totally reached your patience limit. Don't worry, we've all been there! I bet this divorce is totally taking over your life 24/7. You need to get a break from it. Call up some friends, go out to lunch, shopping or even get all dressed up and go dancing. It'll be hard, but DON'T talk about he divorce or him at all. Just let go of it for a day, night or even a whole weekend. On Monday you'll be so much more relaxed and back in control of yourself. You deserve some fun, go for it!!
2007-11-16 03:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you're asking here. Divorce is hard, especially when one partner isn't cooperative. It sounds like your ex is a controlling, manipulative, violent person. Don't give in to his requests for a reconciliation. Find people in your life (real people, not us online specters) who can support you and be there for you when things get hard. If nothing else, find a counselor who can listen to you and act as a good sounding board. Do NOT let anger rule you during the divorce -- you'll just regret that down the road.
2007-11-16 11:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by dansinger61 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both are manipulators and don't belong together! You need legal help! You could call the police but they could just make things worse for you! Best use legal aid and a lawyer or attorney! Don't give in. Some self help books might help you win over your husband! ( I was thinking marrying someone but I don't want to be in your predicament so I'm now not going to!)
2007-11-16 12:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down......Dont lose it. Being "nice" and being a grownup and civil and courteous is NOT the same thing. You do NOT have to worry about appeasing HIM. But you DO have to consider what your children see. Be polite to your soon to be ex. Don't turn into one of THOSE ex wives no matter how he tries to push your buttons. Remember kindergarten??? The bully? The advice your mom gave you? JUST IGNORE THEM AND THEY CAN'T WIN! Same here sweetness! ITS BUSINESS now...no longer a relationship. Treat it as a business deal and there is no need for emotions. Dont let your anger/him win. Just look at him for the pathetic loser he is and do what you have to do. Don't listen to his bullcrap. Dont fall for the bait he dangles to piss you off. Dont worry about HIM being stuck on YOU being his wife. That is HIS problem. JUST DO IT. Do it calm and do is smart. p.s. Calm always wins out in court!
2007-11-16 14:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 7 gramma of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this man is scaring you. get an order or protection. each time he has contact with you, call the cops.
2007-11-16 11:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question or a statement ?
2007-11-16 11:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋