Every man or woman has got the limitation, and we maintain the safe distance between partners. Do you know what is the distance or space , you maintain with your partner. What about your partner with you,
2007-11-16 04:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the same amount of distance that u keep in bed while enjoying her love pleasures
2007-11-23 22:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are driving separate cars and one is following the other, we usually manitain the typical ratio of one car length for every 10 miles per hour.
When we are walking together, he walks faster that I do, which is fine because he's taller. BUT he better not get too far ahead of me in a crowd when I have high heels on or we can become separated. Still, we both usually carry cell phones on those occasions. I would prefer if he took my arm or my hand most of the time so we could stay together.
As far as other boundaries are concerned, we have both agreed not to talk in any detail about previous spouses or lovers. This is his 4th marriage and my second. Also, we try to respect each other's privacy regarding some personal topics. For example, he can't see blood or he'll get kind of faint, so I will not allow him to see my surgical incision and scar until it is 100% healed.
2007-11-16 04:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Limitation and safe distance? There is no such thing as maintaining safe distance in marriage in my opinion. Marriage automatically makes you vulnerable, and when you choose to enter into that type of union you should be up to the challenge of making yourself vulnerable. So, emotionally there is no space between my husband and I. We have our friends that we go out with together and then we each have friends we see seperately, we don't suffocate each other, and we trust each other. If those are considered "limits" then I guess we have them, but I consider it more a matter of respect and giving each other freedom to exsist a little outside the couplehood. I guess I am a little confused with your question.
2007-11-16 04:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the securtiy level you have... Someone is always going to give more than the other, whether it's space or love or compassion. I won't give into the space if I do not feel secure with the person I'm with. I believe it's called hard work in bridging the gap. Like attracts Like, so I cannot expect something different in return than what I am willing to give.
2007-11-16 04:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nonsense, if you have difference or limitation with your partner then you are not partners. Partners should not have space between them even for air... All limits of love must be crossed between the partners...
2007-11-18 01:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the partners and how well they get along and how comfortable they are with each other at the time. There are couples who don't keep anything from each other, but there are others who keep everything from each other. Most are in the middle. IT just all depends on the people and the dynamics of their relationship.
2007-11-17 12:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 27 feet.
2007-11-16 04:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about personal space or emotional distance?
2007-11-16 04:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mandrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be specific. i know when it comes to my husband family im in the know but not the know it all!!! when hes on the toliet im outta there!! but i love having him home n i love hangin out with him but at times i want space to be free.
2007-11-16 04:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by kaaay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between me and mine,No border
2007-11-16 04:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Arun Ramesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋