Hi. My husband and I are currently moved officially because of job. But it is true that we moved because of husband's ex.
She made guys call her PRINCESS. She two-timed with my husband's best friend. She left both of them in 1 month(almost 6 years ago) because they couldn't afford to buy her an apartment.
Boys say PRINCESS didn't even care about them at all.
But ever since I started going out with my husband 1 year ago, PRINCESS started showing up in front of my husband everywhere he goes. One day, my husband noticed PRINCESS was behind him without saying anything on the train. But when my husband is with me, she never shows up.
(At first, I doubted my husband met her by chance. We both cried and our marriage was in danger.)
She just wants boys' attention again because my husband's friend's friend told her about me. But what she does is really creepy.
Although I am away from her now, I am still nervous and sometimes have her nightmare.
I would like your advice to forget her.
2007-11-16 04:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are back to the States from My husband's country, F. In the past, she caused a trouble with another guy claiming he stalked her, nevertheless F country police couldn't deal with her.
2007-11-16 05:00:14 · update #1
I called the police for her stalking in that country but it didn't go well like in the States...
It seems she is totally crazed. She gave condoms to my husband's best friend. But they were condoms which one of her exs has left.
She also gave my husband a teddy bear and a sweater which one of her exs has given her. (Her ex's name was on that sweater.)
2007-11-16 06:02:38 · update #2
Restraining order
2007-11-16 04:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Zenkai 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-16 04:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There isn't any way to forget her. She has devled into your mind. As far as what she is going to your husband. If you guys are in the US, it's illegal to stalk someone.
The only best way is if her husband sees her following him in public, he needs to publicly say loudly for everyone to hear "I do not like you following me, please stop". If there are witnesses this is even better. Then a judge would be able to grant an order to tell her to cease all this type of behaviour with him.
But it's hard to prove it if you don't have witnesses.
She doesn't sound like a Princess at all, but the Queen of Trash.
You need to tell your husband's friend's friend to stop broadcasting his business as well. If the friends are talking it will be only a matter of time until she finds out where you moved to.
2007-11-16 04:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Joes Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is stalking your husband, you need to call the police before it gets out of the hand. Ever see the 1987 movie "Fatal Attraction"? You don't want it to get to the point where the woman starts murdering your family pets and boiling them on the stove.
You should also see if you can get a restraining order from the legal court against her.
2007-11-16 04:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by x y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a big difference in stalking someone and liking someone and i do not think this girl is stalking you she just likes you it might not even be the kind of like that your thinking of she might just like your personality . can you not just be Friends with this girl? that is all she might want. people seem to always think they know what someone is thinking or wanting when in reality they are wrong she may even be trying to get closer to you to get closer to her ex boyfriend. if she does like you then talk to her and while talking to her let slip that you like someone a girl that's appearance is pleasant to you dnt say that though as it quite narrow minded to just judge someone on how they look. do not look at her if it bothering you that much.
2016-05-23 10:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is a SERIOUS matter, but thank God this time the victim is the guy.
I fear for the life of stalked women.
Their male ex can be a real threat to such woman, in MANY ways!!!
I am sorry to say it is amazing what evils are done in the name of "love", FALSELY, in this sin-cursed world.
Just as it is amazing what evil is supposedly done in God's name FALSELY!!!
God is LOVE...but not the selfish kind of so-called "love" stalkers think they "feel".
Love, like serving God, does not come instinctively to sinful mortals.
Only with God's Spirit in our heart can we truly love unselfishly!!!
2007-11-17 06:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she does seem to be creepy. Hopefully your move will help, by putting distance between you. As long as she doesn't try to follow you, and chances are she won't, time will help fade the bad memories. By moving, it sounds like your husband wanted to be away from her too.
2007-11-16 04:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2007-11-16 04:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by All the way back... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a nut...but you know you must be a Saint for forgiving your husband...he needs to notify the authorities and thank his lucky stars you are still with him
2007-11-16 04:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order! :)
And confront that psycho! Have your husband demand of her to leave her alone
2007-11-16 04:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by yolie857 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋