Family - June 2007

???? im an uncle???

2007-06-21 17:21:56 · 22 answers · asked by MrSilent 1

This past weekend, I went on vacation, and my sister and I got into a big blow-out argument, and she ended up saying, "This whole world would be a better place without you in it", and continued to berate me, and I started BAWLING uncontrollably...She's apologized, but I still feel AWFUL, and WOUNDED....She broke my heart....Now, question is....should I forgive her? I've had a really TOUGH life, and I feel like each day is a battle for me, I can NEVER comprehend how someone could talk to ANYONE that way, let alone their own sister!!!! How can I deal with this pain I feel from this situation...I need advice, b/c I don't want to ruminate in the negative...thank you!

2007-06-21 17:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 29, my husbands 34, we have a 3 yr old and a 2 yr old, and we bought a large house so my parents could live with us. My mother works and my father is handicapped and in a wheelchair and in severely bad health. We moved in together to help each other financially and because my father needs to be cared for when my mother works. Lately, my husband has been arguing with me about kicking them out, but I just don't know if I can. We bought the house we are in with the understanding that we would be splitting the bills. If they move out, not only will my father have no one to care for him (with the exception of hospice nurses which will cost my mother LOADS of $$), my husband and I will be under SEVERE financial stress. He doesn't seem to care about any of that. His main concern is being "In Charge" of his house. Is he right? Should I treat my parents as renters instead of partners? Should I kick them out if it is putting stress on my marriage?

2007-06-21 17:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by portiaraylee 2

i want to go to Wentworth Military Accademy in Lexington Missouri but my parents wont let me they are making me go to the public school in my area!!! are they doing whats best for me ???

2007-06-21 16:57:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has done.... no wait does a lot of stupid things like doing drugs,stealing, giving up her baby kid for a car.Yup thats right she gave up the sweetest baby girl 4 a car (2 my mom, but still makes me sick).Now she's with this guy not 4 love but 4 money (he needs papers and so that he can look good n front of the courts he wants my sis 2 take back the baby and she says ok).I have taken care of Mia for almost a year me not her. I clean her ,play with her, give her food, spend all my money on her I do everything that my sis should do and u know what I'm ok with that because I love that baby.But I 'm so mad that my sis after all she has or hasn't done she thinks she can just walk in out of no where and think that she hasn't done anything wrong.I fear that the court system well give Mia back 2 my sis.I do love that baby with all my heart but there is only so much I can do what going 2 happen when she's older and ask why her mom doesn't want her I'm only 17 i don't know what 2 do.

2007-06-21 16:55:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the mother of 4 my first 2 were great no problems gratuated HS currently going to college.... bright futures ahead. My problem is the 2 younger kids. Boy 16 and girl 14. They talk back, disrespect us, throw things when angry, disappear for hours, lie about when and with whom they are with, grades keep getting worse and currently failing more than 2 subjects each. We tried talking to them explaining that we need to know where they are especailly since both of us parents work full time. Daughter recently embarrassed us by getting caught shoplifting while shopping with us- we gave her money to spend in the store but she still lifted a couple more items. I am at my wits end, everytime we try to punish them by taking away priviledges they seem to twist us into making an exception- they usually play the daddy or mommy game when they beg which ever one of us didn't set the punishment to get us to loosen up the reins for a day or night. Any suggestions.
boy into pot girl drinks help!

2007-06-21 16:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by NMR 1

I will not allow my children 2 boys and 2 girls stay at there grandparents house because of things running threw my mind of things that could happen to them. Not with there grandma jsut the male siblings. Even if my brothers there uncles sleep over at our house I stay up alllll night. Is that normal?

2007-06-21 16:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by Becky A 1

I'm going to a 50th anniversary party this Sunday and there are these family members that we serious DO NOT LIKE. We want to stay away from them as much as possible. Is there any ideas on staying away from them for about 3 1/2 hours when there are about 150 people there?

2007-06-21 16:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He hates black kids, especially my friends. He always uses the "N" word on them. And once in a while, he'd be all like, "white power!"
Oh my god, I don't know if he's trying to p*ss me off, or he has some serious issues.

2007-06-21 16:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months i introduced him to my parents 4 months ago they say they don't approve of him...my boyfriend is very respectfull to me and my parents......they say that he is a bad influence because we had sex and he dresses like a " thug " i understand about the sex thing but it wasn't just his idea it was mine too and he didn't pressure me into it..it just happened one day...he treats me good and has never hurt me in anyway.............how can i convine my parents that he is a good guy???? i tried but it just seems like they don't want to hear it.... what do i do???

2007-06-21 15:44:27 · 16 answers · asked by ghettoprincesss 1

How do you keep in touch with family living back home, and how often. This is my first time living abroad and although I have kept in touch with certain members of my close family due to the time difference I have found that some member of my family it is quite hard.

2007-06-21 15:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by Petra 5

my step-mom dose not want her daughter to go out on dates until she is 16 by dates i mean like going to the movie and stuff so she told my dad that i cant go when it is not her desion it my mom and dads do you think she should have any say in this matter????

2007-06-21 15:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by Dr.Hottie 1

my sister is a *****, thats all. she complains and criticizes and all sorts of stuff. i get annoyed by her words, she talz and talx, but i just dont care. she expects me to care! how do i ignore her so much that she gives up hope of trying to change me?

2007-06-21 15:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i was told it wasn't my place to be pride and happy for my step son by his mother...i really hurt my feeling. Do you think i'm over reacting?

2007-06-21 15:10:02 · 21 answers · asked by Brandy J 1

Whoud it be strange to create a myspace for my brother who just passed so all of his friends can share memories they had with/of him and stuff?

2007-06-21 15:06:54 · 28 answers · asked by ErinRae 3

take my door off my room cuase they dont think i deserve privacy? lol its crazy!

2007-06-21 14:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by erica d 3

my parents ALWAYS yell, find things wrong with me and DESTROY my confidence and ANYTIME i try to have a nice reasonable talk they say quit overreacting or should we put you in counseling? and i literally HAVE to be perfect...anytime i get something for about 4 months they'll say didn't i JUST get you that how could you even ask for something else...my younger sister is treated like an angel...it makes me cry and feel bad i'm only going to be a sophmore..WHAT DO I DO??? PLEASE HELP!!

thank you!

GO YANKEES
27 in 07!

2007-06-21 14:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-21 14:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by nellie 216 2

next week is my mom's birthday (step-mom actually...since I was five y/o; she was the one who raised me and I don't know my real mother-no bio mom in 15 years) and she and I haven't seen each other in awhile...i was a pretty messed up kid: depressed, suicidal, my father and I didn't get along (he was abusive to me when we were alone-but never in front of my momma)...so because I had so many problems and because my father was occasionally beating me I moved out at age 14...she and I wrote letters for a year then I got mad at her...dad kept putting her in the middle and it made it hard for her and I to get along when she loved both him and me but he and I hate eachother...we stopped writing letters and never talked until last thanksgiving...I called her and she answered! we've talked several times since then and I decided to ask her out to lunch this weekend when I come to town to visit my friends...I got her a b-day present and we set the day/time/place but now I'm nervous...help?
:(

2007-06-21 13:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant figure out how to spell it. Is it mema, meema, or meemaw???? Please help, i'm making a scrap book.

2007-06-21 13:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by jema 2

There was some bad stuff going on when I was little; spankings, having to change/use the bathroom w/doors open (so she could always see what I was doing), and when my parents split her wrath focused on how I was the cause of all her problems (she said my dad loved me more than her).

As I've gotten older, I've tried to forgive and put it behind me while at the same time reaching out to her. The rude awakening came when I was planning my wedding - she had nothing to do with it. Nothing. She showed up - that's it.

Over the years, I keep trying but to no avail. I'm tired of it.
I felt rejected by her when I was a child because I did nothing right, and I still feel this way - but talking about it w/her turns into about her and her fears.
I've been to counseling and was told to act as tho she was dead, but that seems so cruel. I want her to reach out to me for once!

Is that too much to ask?
Please don't be cruel with the answers - I'm serious about this.

2007-06-21 12:23:46 · 10 answers · asked by Done 6

im 23 hes 44. he is seperated for 8 years has 3 kids under 20yrs. weve lived together for 2 years and i have often brought up the subject of marriage but he quickly shrugs it off and then says 'when the time is right' but when is the 'right' time? i adore him but sometimes i think i love him more than he loves me

2007-06-21 11:56:02 · 14 answers · asked by samsond 1

As a parent, what would you allow her to do,have, go, and what would be her curfew?

2007-06-21 11:48:51 · 20 answers · asked by k9pup316 2

pleaz star and answer pleaz

2007-06-21 11:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by <3.GirlsJustWannaHaveFun.< 3

Well tomorrow is the last day of school and it's a half day. Everybody who's anybody is going to meet up at the kent station(mall) like an after school type of thing. First I need to confront my mom about this in a way she'll for sure let me go. Does anyone have any ideas how do i persuade her to let me go?

2007-06-21 11:30:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I am graduating from middle school and I got technically everything I want.
I got a laptop (since my school needs one), I got an iPod, an AMAZING digital camera, an AMAZING cellphone, a PSP...
I'm turning 14 this August and since I got some great grades for 8th Grade, my parents want to reward me by getting me something... Please, give me options to what I would like.. I won't give you a price range since I have none but have it reasonably priced.

2007-06-21 11:23:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am almost 13 years old, and I live with my parents, and 2 younger siblings. Weeks have passed, and my dad has told me to go outside and play, well when I'm gone, hes been on the computer. Well, I've wondered and I snooped around outside and peeked through the blinds, and he was indeed watching porn. I have also found porn magazines behind the safe in our closet, and other sorts of porn media. What should I Do? Im afraid if my mom finds out, our family is done for. REAL ANSWERS PLEASE!

2007-06-21 11:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by AdventureGho 3

2007-06-21 11:22:01 · 21 answers · asked by Katrina M 1

When the person adopting is in the military?

2007-06-21 11:14:29 · 2 answers · asked by nicole l 2

When I was 30 my mum called me on the phone and needed to tell me that my father actually wasn't really my father, that it was another man. And that was a huge surprise to me. I never knew or had an inkling that my father wasn't my biological father? What has been the biggest surprise in your life so far?

2007-06-21 11:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous