Family - June 2007

she's turning 40 and wants something less than $5. she's also having a competition.

any ideas?

2007-06-23 06:01:17 · 8 answers · asked by Guy B 1

Heres what happened: Everytime I try to speak my opinion, to her she'll only hear hers! Its quite annoying if you know what I mean. Im only 16 and I know Im not the smartest person in the world, but I do know my way around. She makes me feel stupid about everything. She thinks Im totally incapable of things she isnt. She doesnt even trust me. And Im not one of thoes delinquints. I do my homework. I get straight A's. What do I do? How can I proove to her that Im not as immature as she thinks?

2007-06-23 06:00:32 · 3 answers · asked by laurenisthebombohyes 1

well I do!!!!!!!!!!!!! does any1 else she is sk8ter chick?

2007-06-23 05:55:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

She died during the month of February and within a month or so we were celebrating Mothers Day (I don't even know what month we celebrate mothers day). On that day, many years ago, I made a vow to never celebrate Mothers Day again or call anyone else MOM. I made this vow as an eleven year old child and I was making it to my mother because I did not want her to be jealous. Now that I am an adult and married. I have a sister who is a mom and I have my mother in law. I have not acknowledged this day with them and I still call my mother in law by her first name. She introduces me to everyones as her daughter. I am trying to get over this feeling I have but am I wrong for refusing to do this? They do not know my feelings towards this because I've never shared it with anyone except you, my fellow Yahoo friends.

2007-06-23 04:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5

My daughter is half hispanic. And I've been teaching her Spanish as I'm learning it. My dad can't stand it. (I live with my parents) Is it wrong for me to teach her this? How do I tell him that I want her to be able to speak both languages and be a part of both of her cultures?

Chloe's dad is not a part of her life and won't be. But is it still wrong for me to teach her Spanish?

2007-06-23 03:54:35 · 10 answers · asked by Endellion 4

everyday i always have little problems with my mum that'll soon change into big problems. i'm always the one who make my mum and dad fight.
for example:
-i just lost my cell phone on the bus (some jerk stole it), and i borrowed my mum's yesterday. i silent the cell phone cause i was watching a movie, and because i forgot to un-silent it, my father who's now in italy, can't call my mum because my mum didn't hear her phone vibrating. the next morning i had a fight and until now i don't talk much to my mum because my mum and my dad just had a fight last night (he called my house), dad told mum that she have to buy me a new cell phone (with out camera and bluetooth, and has only black and white colours, like my old one), and i'm not allowed ever to touch my mum's phone again.

that's just only one example that just happened earlier. what should i do so i can get along with mum and don't be a fight starter?i admit it's my fault too. please help?

2007-06-23 02:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by Sashiya 3

My step mom is 8 years older than me. She is 32 and I'm 24.
My dad is over 60 and honestly I don't know why my step mom
got interest in my dad. I believe its because of money.
My dad doesn't know that her wife is cheating on him with
me. I don't believe we are committing incest because she
is not my real mom. We get drunk together, we get high
together and my dad no idea what's going on. So,
is it ok? It's not really bad is it?

I don't want to hurt my dad but I love my step mom like a
woman. I don't want my dad to find out what's going on.
I love my dad but I need hide this secret.

2007-06-22 21:26:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im living apart from my family since i was judt 18 years coz of parental torture.........i was really sick living with parents now its been more than a years im still living my life as much i can enjoy ......can i live all my life the way Im ritenow without parents

2007-06-22 21:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, here's my situation I'm a 20 year old male living in Washington D.C. with my parents, right now I'm at a dalima where I want to move out on my own really soon. Of course my parents say that I'm too young and should stay home and go to school, but the more they want me to do things in there eyes the more I really want to leave. Now at this point I know that I'm a very responsable person, even if they don't think so I have about over two thousand dollars saved up and I been thinking about moving to El Paso, Texas where I went to college but moved back to DC for other reasons, so my question is with the job I have, two thousand dollars saved, no kids, no girlfriend, no debt, or anything like that holding me back, should I make my move?

2007-06-22 21:06:37 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Nice Guy 1

I've read other answers to questions such as mine about clashing mother/daughter relationships; how they have grown soo close now that the daughter is older.I have to say though, it seems so far-fetched. We fight every day and i just feel angry with her all the time even when were not arguing. We say horrible things to each other and I cant remember the last time we were civilized. She's a single mother and I am an only child so that has to be a major cause of it. Also, I'm at the point where i have one more year of highschool left and then i leave for college. So, i guess my questions are these: How long does it take to have a decent relationship? Are there cases where they cant be fixed? And other than cleaning the dishes, (realistically) what could i do to improve it, even if i feel like its one-sided? Thank you for any answers you can share.

2007-06-22 19:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-06-22 19:19:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just kind of forgot that my brother was leaving for iraq today(saturday) (he lives in another state with his dad) i am like the only one that didnt say good bye to him. i was going to but i totally forgot.will he be mad at me? what should i do?

2007-06-22 19:02:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-22 18:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by frerevivian 2

She's already seen it.

2007-06-22 18:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is 17,goes to college and lies to me most of the time.He went missing two weeks ago,Told police after 24 hours.He turned up and was given a telling off by the police for wasting their time.He has a phone but turns it off so we cant ring him.I,m affraid that he might be up to no good.I try to talk to him about anything he wants to talk about,but he just won,t talk to me.

2007-06-22 18:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by fedup 1

is it true about teenage boys they get between 25 and 35 erections a day? they c um quickly but are soon ready to do it again and again? they go fast when they are doing it they are too r andy to slow down?

2007-06-22 18:13:13 · 14 answers · asked by good m 1

Have you ever worked in a mas sage par lour? Do you have to rub all parts of a guys bo dy? Have you got memories you want to share?

2007-06-22 18:10:42 · 2 answers · asked by good m 1

I would like to start a tradition of a nice family dinner at home and cutting a cake for my son's 1st birthday, however, my parents, sisters, and inlaws totals about 15 adults and I live in a small condo. I don't want to choose btwn my parents house or inlaws house. A restaurant may be costly and not as cozy. Any suggestions please!

2007-06-22 17:40:14 · 5 answers · asked by Erica 2

My inlaws don't like me b/c i agree w/ my my husband giving them money or buy expensive gifts. he does by gifts (but gifts) not salaries ...for instance if ibuy a $700 pocketbook they feel they should get the same kind of gift! which he did prior to us dating or getting married (12 year later lol) they call me selfish because i shop alot (just bought a new house) but we have 3 children. we make less money than all the couples we just manage differntly.. why should i buy for them when they all work or feel bad
my reasoning no one ever helps ...WE pay for sitters, paid for our wedding..i am cool with it why can't they be?
i want to buy a (ie: a grill) is this rude when iknow they've asked for things.. idon';t care but of course my husband does...make sense sound familiar...

annoying but please be trueful??

2007-06-22 17:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful had a BOY on 3.7.09!!! 3

I need something that her grandkids will not want to use or wear because everytime she gets gifts her 30 yr old granddaughter goes and say can have this and she says yes and then she's left with nothing.. she nice like that and feels like she can't say no.. so i need a gift that her granddaughter will not want.

2007-06-22 17:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by ladytee 4

Me and my girlfriend have a good relationship.We are not married because of a few reasons.Yet we live together and act like a married couple.She already has a child and tells me she is not ready for another one.Im 31 years old and i want kids of my own.Im not getting any younger but i respect her and im being patent.It just gets worse when day to day i see other familys and their kids.Then i get snobby questions and comments like " when are you two going to have one " or like today "aww all theses babys and you don't have one....maybe you can adopt one" Whats the best way to deal with going day to day and having to put up with this ?

2007-06-22 17:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by saintlypriest 1

This is the deal, My older brother who is 30 just started to date a girl that is 17 years old. Me and my family have been trying so hard to make him break up with her before they get in trouble. First her parents dosen't even know that she is dating a 30 years old. Second the girl hasnt even graduated from high school and she just turned senior. Third she is caucasian and we are mexican-american and we don't even know anything about her parents, they could be prejudice for all we know! But yeah he is messing with her future because she is still young and who know know what her parents will do if they found out he's 30 years old! What would you people do or say to him or her??

2007-06-22 16:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

During this 8 mo I have been dealing with my son asking were is the park guy he doesnt even call him dad. About 2 weeks ago my son was setermed to go to the park were he always mets his dad when he got there he no more park guy ok and he played for hours at the park laughing I am afraid letting his dad back in live will mentally break him help what should I do o also he droped paying health ins and is trying to get out of paying his 500 a mo for child support

2007-06-22 16:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm only a teen, and i just found out that my parents are getting a devorce, my grandpa has lung cancer, my great- grandpa has skin cancer, and one of my other relatives has some other kind of cancer. how do i get over all of this? please help!

2007-06-22 16:15:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i was 5 my dad hit my brother and mom alot really bad one day he hit my bro and i told my mom the ploice handcuffing my dad infront of me he went away 4 a while then i lived with my momshe was horrible she would have mean punishment i interupeted her one day and she threw a saltshakker at my head and my mouth was bloody and chipped my tooth my dad payed 4 it to be fixed but it hurt like hell, she did alot of stuff like that but the worst was when my step-dad hit me she didn't stop him he was huge i was 9 years old and for 3 years i had to deal with it and go to school like nothing was wrong well all this time i was never said anythingthen we lived in a house and she hit me i stayedup one night and thoughtwhat have i done wrong to make her hate me and then i thought its not my fault so i called my dad and now i live with him prob is that nowshe calls me and says she loves me and i feel bad cus i never want to talk to her again but she mymom should i forgive i'm 13 and confused help

2007-06-22 15:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i feel like someone is being unfair or mean to me i talk back and it's with people that i really shouldn't talk back to...what should i do?

2007-06-22 15:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by S. S 1

Almost a year ago, my dad got remarried to a new person, not my mom. Before they got married, she was really nice to me. Then, she got a little bossier, a little meaner, and a little more short-tempered. She is now obsessing with creating this image of a "perfect family". It is so annoying, and my brother, sister, and new stepsister do not approve of it. We go out and get this professional photographer to take "family pictures" of us. What's worse, is she told the photographer to photoshop out my brother's pimples on his face. I felt so angry for him. I mean, if I didn't have a mom, I could understand this whole thing. But I DO! I am with her so much more than them. I only see them once every two weeks. I usually don't even think about them most days, but when I am with them, it is horrible. She is mean to my sister and I a lot, since we are younger. She is only nice to my brother (age 15) and her own daughter (age 8). She obsesses over this family thing. How do I stop her?

2007-06-22 14:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by TaCaBu 2

OMG, I have a very simular parent problem just like you do. My name is Ron and I just turned 23 in May. I can stand my mother and I hate her presence. I dont talk to her at all and to avoid her, I always stay in my room. My mother has the same type of crazy problems. She's in her 40's. She's too overbarring, overprotective, paranoid, and has a huge problem with always yelling to the top of her lungs when she gets mad. Its like she doesn't know how to control her herself! She loves me so much but she treats me like a child and doesn't respect me at all as a adult. I'm the first male in my family to graudate from high school and I have a job and been working for 5 to 6 years. I dont have any kids, I never had sex and I'm still a vergin (I cant believe that I am....). She always picks fights with my stepfather and loves to start drama for no reason at all. She hasn't worked in years and doesn't do anything now these days except sit in the living room and watch t.v. and knit blankets and eat sunflower seeds and candy. She's a Diabetic and has Authoritis and other problems that I cant even get into. I dont have a driver's liscence because I never applied for one. I know how to drive, I just cant pass the Written Test at the DMV. I failed it twice and I haven't went back since because I feel like I might fail again. So my parents takes me to work instead and picks me up. I never cause either of them any trouble and always pay for everything on my own wither it's gas, groceries, clothes or anything else. I buy my own things and never ask anyone for a dime. I dont believe in asking people or borrowing money from people cause its pathetic. But the main issue I really have is my mother. I just plain hate her. I dont talk to her and I'm sick of her always telling me that she loves me and that I'm all that she has when thatz not true. I have a half older sister that has 2 children of her own and lives on her own. I dont get along with my sister either. I dont like God at all and blame him for giving me such a mother and such a lonely and depressive life in the country. I wish so much that my mother's life would just end so that I wouldn't have to worry about her anymore. It wouldn't fully make me happy but it would be a start.....
If anyone thinks they have some advice for me then go right ahead, cause no one on here would want a crazy mother and life like mine.....

2007-06-22 14:40:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

when ever something goes wrong its always my falt! I dont know if i can take it anymore. My story is i grew up in a foster home my whole life and he took me in we have a child together and one all the way. Hes just so hatefull twords me and i have no where to go, no family no money and only one friend but she cant help me she has problems of her own and i dont want to put strees on her. i just need some advice...should i try to work it out or should i go to an batterd womans shelter.

one more thing when ever he gets mad he always tells me to leave because its his house and his mone...and he doesnt even care if i dont have anywhere to go and he makes sure i take our son...i dont want to make him out to be the bad guy he does take care of us but is it worth it? please help...

2007-06-22 14:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok I gotta answer some ppl here who thought that its not right to hit a woman, but this is our RELIGION how can u disrespect our right to do it???? qu'ran sez women must be controlled or she danger of hellfire, this is fact b'cuz most ppl in hell are women it's a fact right in qu'ran. so plz understand and help us!

See is there any other way. i mean maybe if we trap her in the room for some time or even if my father won't hit her then maybe we can take away the food until she relents to be reasonable. i know u think this is harsh but anything is better than breaking the family. i am her son but i can hate her if she does this action! wud it be better to get her to move back to pakistan? at least there she cannot run away like this in US. even now v are not sure where she is living.

2007-06-22 14:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by Minerva 1