Family - June 2007

I am named after Bucks Fizz (yes... the 80's pop group), Cheryl Baker and Jay Aston- Cheryl Jay. Very sad decision on the part of my parents. Maybe they got carried away as i was born the year after they won Eurovision... sad!! Anyone else got any funny stories behind why they are named so??

2007-06-01 07:30:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughters middle daughter has been staying w/my cousin and his wife for approx. 2-3 months on what was agreed to be a temporary situation due to financial/physical reasons & both my cuz & wife are obsessed over this child. Child had hair to her butt & they (cuz &wife) cut her hair w/out consulting my daughter. They feel since they pay for her daycare, etc. they have the right and my daughter should not have had a problem with it, but she did & they got into a huge dispute & my daughter won't let her daughter go back to their house. What do you think is right.

2007-06-01 07:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by sissytwo 3

And do you ever feel guilty about it? I do.

2007-06-01 07:00:20 · 31 answers · asked by Voight-Kampff 3

My husband doesn't work while I do and he stays home to look after the kids. He leaves them in their rooms for quite a large portion of the day which I know isn't right and arrangments have been made to stop this but is it normal for children's fathers to want to spend as little time with them as possible as "they fry his brain" by going on all the time.

Any experience is much appreciated as I am actually at the point of leaving him as I don't see it can be right.

2007-06-01 05:32:16 · 25 answers · asked by Yoga Wifey 3

he s girlfriend is pregnant. I don t like that girl, i dont know how to be happy for him. I dont want to make contact with her... i know im wrong if he choose her i should be happy for her a like her but i dont, instead i feel really sad and im even crying.... is he s girlfriend but i know she got pregnat unpurpose. please some advise.

2007-06-01 04:52:07 · 42 answers · asked by lissy 3

she doesn't want to see me happy. i'm 22 years old and a born again christian but with what she is doing am sure that even if Jesus came back today, i would not go to heaven. when i was 9 years old old, she left me with my grand mother and never came back until after i was 16 years old. i have now lived with her for about four years and all i do every day is wish that she never even came back because she has brought hell in my life. she treats me like a dummy because i don't argue back with her (when she is shouting at me i just keep quiet because i don't want to disrespect her - even though she does'nt love me). she took all my banking information and my credit card the moment i started doing work study in school and i don't even have a clue of what she does with my money. she is so difficult and self centered, short tempered and difficult to talk to. please help me. all i'm thinking is running away but i have no place to go. i still value my salvation and want to exercise my faith.

2007-06-01 04:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 20 years old and was kicked out of the house @ 18. I've been struggling ever since as far as basically everything goes; because my parents just threw me out without having taught me a thing.

my mother is a very strong alcoholic and my father a very big enabler in her life. my mom is very emotionally abusive and my sister and i have taken the brunt of it most of our lives.

anyway i guess i just need some advice. my sister is 14 and already headed for trouble. she's already not passed the 8th grade, and i was the same way only i didn't graduate high school (i went to summer school.)

I have very significant anxiety problems, as well as issues with msyelf. I don't want my sister to turn out the same way. i wouldn't by any means give my parents the parenting of the year award...it gets so much more complicated than that but this is all i can fit so it will have to do. I'm just very torn.

2007-06-01 04:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole Britnee [live.laugh.love] 1

My cousin is graduating from Loyola High School and is going to be going to USC. I originally thought to get him something from his college but I'm not sure, their clothing and items are expensive, and being a college student myself, i cant really afford it. Any ideas? It would be greatly appreciated since i have to give it to him tomorrow, haha.

2007-06-01 04:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew L 1

my mom is in home care hospice ta home with me thee are nurses here 24-7 she may go at any time now - my question is this -

should i stay in the same building and get a 1 bd room when she does pass -- this is a not very nice section 8 building in a downtown area - it would be hard to budget it out every month but it could be done - i am on disability for severe migraines and only get 600 a month rent would be 150 or a tiny bit less -

i have a sister and father who also live in the same building
they are both very screwed up he is 78 is a manic depressive that doesnt take any meds for it and is also a compulsive gambler she is 47 and is a very bad drug addict that uses about 100 dollars worth of drugs every day with her one friend that buys it all

i have no real great prospects here but at least i would have my own place and not be at any ones mercy and under their rules and their roof i am 32 and single no children never married

the other choice is to go and live with

2007-06-01 04:13:21 · 6 answers · asked by Medusa 4

I moved to London two years ago to be in this band that my mum and dad thought had 'great potential' (i was only 18 at the time) and because we had rich management who were already a part of the music industry, thought that we were going to get signed. The songs were very good, poppy, charty (girl band by the way) but we were treated like absolute ****. I became very unhappy last year, as did all the rest of the girls in the band, so we broke up two weeks ago. Since then i've been so happy and everything has started to look up for me and my boyfriend whom i live with. My parents however, have completely disowned me, wont talk to me, think iv chucked away my only chance of being anything. I have had a really sore pain in my chest over the last couple of days, got it checked out today, turns out its something quite bad, txt my parents and told them about it, not a single text or phone call. What should i do? I really need my parents support right now and they have completely shut me out

2007-06-01 03:05:48 · 41 answers · asked by Kristen C 1

My boyfriend and I had a tough time about a month ago where we nearly broke everything off because I wanted more children and he didn't. We sorted it out and we agreed that we would have kids someday, but only when he was ready.

I have a 14-month-old daughter and he used to be really uncomfortable around her, but he seems to be getting a little better with her each time he sees her. When we're over at his place she follows him around his apartment and walks under his legs. Sometimes he asks about her and wants to make sure I'm taking care of her. I tease him about it and he brushes it off saying he still isn't ready to be a dad, but I can see him growing into the role a tiny bit day by day.

He's not her biological father and her dad is still involved in her life as well. My question is, as my daughter gets older, I want my boyfriend to have a say in what happens with her education and raising. Is that possible, since we don't want to get married/aren't living together?

2007-06-01 02:37:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

talk to or see relatives not living with you .

2007-06-01 02:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Boomvus 1

...to buy me a car?My dad works for MTA in New York(no he isnt a bus driver), he makes very good money.I live in FL with my mom, I'm 16 and I need a car.Not just b/c all my friends have cars,I need one because my mom rushes every morning to bring me to school and then drives on the other side of town for work. I talked to him about this; I'M HIS ONLY DAUGHTER! He is SO stingy with his money. We made a deal that hes going to send me $40 for every A I get on my report card; my last one had 5 A's and he made a big flipping deal about the $200. I'm so frustrated!!! If YOU were in my place what would you do?I HELP PLEASE! I tried getting a job,but most places prefer 17 year olds(my 17th birthday isnt until September 9th). I graduate in May '08, hopefully one of my brothers can help me out :/

2007-06-01 02:09:28 · 20 answers · asked by tiggaface 2

im with my bloke and im friend with his brothers and sister but recently one of his brothers has been saying that it will never work between me and his brother he keeps looking at me in a way thats not normal and slapping my bum and generally flirting with me, im not interested in him i am very happy with his brother were trying for a baby he knows AND IS STILL BEHAVING LIKE THIS.

2007-06-01 01:58:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i moved in with my boyfriend back in feb,i just met his mom last weekend.ofcourse she knew about me but not that we live together.she has a mental disorder and he wants to protect her,i do understand why but i feel like i am being hidden....if anyone knows about this disorder please let me know what you think.is there anything i should be doing or he should be, i really dont like decieving her!!

2007-06-01 01:21:04 · 4 answers · asked by cupcake37379 2

I have recently split up with my boyfriend because of various reasons. He still owes my sister money. My relationship with my sister is at an all time low.

How can I get the money off my ex? I have tried phoning him and texting him but ignores my calls and texts.

What can I do to get the money the he owes?

2007-06-01 01:09:11 · 39 answers · asked by Carly D 1

AT SCHOOL MY NICK IS BARBIE BECOZ I HAVE LONG BLOND HAIR AND IM ALITTLE SLOW!HEHEHE BUT I AM NOT I LAUGH THEM OFF BUT AM I REALLY A BLONDE BABIE? IS IT AN INSOLT OR COPLIMENT? i wish i was barbie the bich has everything

2007-06-01 00:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by princess 1