Family - October 2007

He gave me a lecture on why he hates me and at the end he said: 'We're not brothers anymore, I hate you and have lost all respect for you'
He hasn't talked to me for 2 days now, and I think he's serious. What do I do if he doesn't listen and I don't talk to my parents, No way.

2007-10-31 21:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am elder Bahu in my house. I m entered in this hause just 2 yrs before. Afeter my marriage my Devrani is entered in our house.
No body is repect me as a i m jithani and badi bahu of this house. Even on karvachouth the devrani not repecting me Mere charan bhi usne nahin chue.
My Father - in-law.is also respecting her.
I try my level best and always my intebntion is to help her in all work.
but she don;t help me.
What i do ?
I m in too much tension @@@@@

2007-10-31 21:39:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

actually i have a boyfriend but he not normal a normal person(he disable).
I really love him so much.But I have obtacle from my family exspecially from my father.
My father give reason that my boyfriend haven't a good job (not stable).Yes that's true but
for me he that's not the problem because my boyfriend already working & we will get the income to support our live.
So I don't know, which the issue now whether my father not agree we marriege because he disable person? or
he not a rice man or their (my family) shy to receive because he is disable. But for my brother, he girls friend is from rice
family. My father very agree untill he never critic his girlfriend and my father try to save asset for my brother for his marry
with his girlfriend. Is't fair?I'm very sad..please help me how to making my fath

2007-10-31 20:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by akilq 1

this is my friend. he's 20. he's in college. his dad's a preacher. both his parents are unbelievably strict! his parents have to know what he's doing the entire time, where he's at, who he's with, and has to call. He's going to go on a trip w/ catholics to San Francisco for a pro-life march. his dad don't want him to go cuz he doesn't want him to be influenced by the catholics. he says he's 20 and if he wants to be catholic he'll be catholic. (he's thinking of converting) His never had a "father." he had a pastor. they never once played catch or did anything together. his older brother did drugs cuz his druggie friends treated him better than his parents! Mike's 27, married w/ 3 kids now and doing well. he visits no more than twice a year. why? his parents still try and tell him what to do! My friend wasn't allowed to go to a concert w/ me because he couldn't miss youth group! we had already ordered the tickets! my parent found out I was going 2 the concert an hour before I left and

2007-10-31 19:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made plans to move to the other side of the U.S. but im having trouble telling my family,we are all so very close ,but every time i try to talk to them about me moving somewhere they avoid the conversation ,or they say i cant leave, how do i talk to them with out them about this?

2007-10-31 19:11:05 · 5 answers · asked by lovlyislndgrl 1

My mother recently got back together with my estranged father. He had an affair with some 20 year old something 7 years ago and after we found out he left us to go be with her. Now he's back and my mother has accepted him back into her life. She wants me to forgive him as well, I told her to go **** herself. Was I in my right to?

2007-10-31 19:00:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents knows my limit of abilities but they keep expecting more. Once i passed my exams but they were not happy and scolds me for doing a bad job and my marks are quite high. I hate to see my parents disappointed but i tried my best and that is wat i can give

2007-10-31 18:28:55 · 7 answers · asked by shoosh... 1

I have two kids 9 and 8, they sleep in their room, each in his bed, but the old one refuses to sleep alone in his own bed and insists to sleep with his younger brother in the same bed, he says that he is afeard to sleep alone.

2007-10-31 18:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by EMAD A 1

i discover my mother was cheating on my father about 3 months ago she had been doing so for about 2 years so she says

Im a 20 year old national guard member and i am getting deployed to the border for 18 months i haven't spoke to her since i found this out, can i get some advice from a parent who has kids but has also been in my shoes please


i don't know whether to stick with my standards that ironically my mother taught me or to give in

some help please

2007-10-31 18:11:48 · 12 answers · asked by michael s 1

my parents nag me and my siblings about education/school blah blah blah. i understand that they want me to get good education so i can have a better future, but i think all this nagging with expectations could possibly make an opposite effect (f-ing up in school)! my siblings and i are freakin' adults, but our parents treat us like children sometimes which is so sad. im 18 and cant wait to move out, so i can be independent and succeed in school without such pressures.

does anybody feel the same way?!

2007-10-31 17:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by hunny111805 1

Alright, I have had a pretty rough childhood and have gone through many things in my life. I had a gun pulled on me at the age of 5 by my cousins mother, I was sexually molested by my Uncle in law from the age of 7-11and then, the only person that I confided in about this, raped me later on, (while I was on my cycle at that). I was only 13 when that happened and a virgin. I have never received therapy for any of this and I am currently 24, hence my name, Knowledge24. I was scared and never told anyone about this until later on in life. I told my Mother a few months ago about what my Uncle in law did and she called him and threatened to kill him if she ever saw him again.

I called my Aunt and told her what her husband did to me, she played dumb and acted like she didn't know, when she did. I'm angry and hurt and lately, I have been having angry panic attacks and want to confront all the people who have wronged me in my past, but people tell me to let it go. I know I should, but I cant

2007-10-31 17:18:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i know you are going to look down on me but why is it when a woman goes out with a man and afterdwards .he dont respect her at all once he gets what he wanted from well you know . that isnt right to treat a woman like that and brag to his friends is it no matter if your married or not where.s the respect he had while with a woman and now none at all we have feeling to

2007-10-31 17:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by d_justic64 2

he is obsessed with my education, my parents are divorced and when i'm at his house, he makes me study 4 hours a day and if i get a B he'll yell at me. He always wants me to be in the front row and now everyone thinks i'm a geek. He hits me a lot and yells at me in front of everyone and once even spanked me in front of the whole school when i was in 4th grade. When i was 8 i got a C and he slapped me. He makes me feel like i'm a piece of crap by verbally abusing me and calling me bad words. I once told him he was a mean person and he told me that i was going to do drugs and that i'll get pregnant when i'm 15. He hurts my mom when he comes over to her house and since he's a lawyer, if my mom took him to court he would win anyway. Everytime he gets a girlfriend, he makes out with her in front of me and when i tell him to stop he says he loves her more than me. Sometimes he's nice but sometimes he can be the most horrible parent ever. Any suggestions besides telling someone?

2007-10-31 14:54:09 · 9 answers · asked by arielle s 3

I want to leave my stuff in my Will to my Mom, But she is quite old (70's) ....my sister is 45ish and has stabbed me in the back from day one and inherited all the family's houses and monies....I want to leave Mom all but if I do she will leave it to my sister when she passes so i'm screwed either way...any creative soloutions?

2007-10-31 14:44:28 · 21 answers · asked by Beach Life 7

I just had to endure a minute walk and talk(harder to do, loses weight) and *****, with my sister. She cannot get it through her head, that now is not 10 years ago. Life is different, she went to college and stuff. It's not my fault. She wants to do stuff w me. But all she does is give me crap and we fight. She never calls me! She calls my mom, she calls me if she can't get her. She doesn't e-mail me. She doesn't have time for me. She was telling me about going to Orlando w her. It's not my fault no1 has the decency to tell me anything. My mom tells me nothing! I believe I am family. Many times, it DIRECTLY concerns me or I have some part in it. She doesn't tell me. She tells me nothing about my sister's going ons.? And my sister asks me personal questions that I hate, I have told her a billion times not to ask! She is permenately glued to her cell phone. And she's a pro golfer, and likes to be out, and to work out. There's no time to hang out. At night I like to watch a movie. She doe

2007-10-31 13:24:53 · 2 answers · asked by samantha wilson 2

ever since I got married to my hubby his mum and sister always seem to backchat about another girl who is part of their family, I heard from someone that she was meant to get an arranged marriage with my hubby but my hubby didnt want to etc. anyway now that I'm married to my hubby my MIL always wants me to look all pretty especially when I'm in front of that girl and her family, she is maried as well btw. We are meant to be going to a birthday party and she is supposedly going to be there with her husband, I want to go dressed simple and my MIL was like "its up to you but so and so(that girl) is going to come dressed all grand and you may feel awkward", I was thinking to myself so what if she comes dressed up grand, who is she to me? I dont understand why my MIL is so eager to make me look all dressed up in front of them, its as if shes using me to hurt them or something

2007-10-31 11:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by kitty 1

Any tips on how to move out i would appreciate i have a truck, i have a job that pays 11.59 an hour, i've already been told by the counselors that i have enough credits to graduate....i want to move out because my 28 year old irresponsible sister irritates me to the point where everytime i am home i am frustrated and stressed out! because she is a slob...and treats my parents like slaves.

2007-10-31 11:55:46 · 9 answers · asked by Catastraphe 1

It's disgusting. He makes this noise deep down in his throat that you make when you snort down mucus.

He doesn't sniffle and he never blows his nose. He does this year round. He doesn't sound congested at all even though he claims that he is.

He won't take medication either to fix his "congestion". He says he doesn't want to be doped up on something even though my family tells him that not all meds will "dope" him up.

It's sick and I've asked him to stop, he still does it. Any ideas?

God my family is nuts.

2007-10-31 11:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by iwuvrockandroll 2

2007-10-31 11:45:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this boy in my 7th grade class.Hes my friend and we laugh together all the time,hes very silly. I think he likes me because I noticed signs a lot.Today he was borrowing my planner(electronic)he used it for a while then he saw my telephone list. He typed in his name then showed me while smiling.What he was doing i didnt really understand so i just smiled.Next thing i know hes typing in his number. Then after hes finish my friend asks to borrow it and hes looking akward at me like he wants me to say something to stop her. He then he was forced to quickly delete his number. I really like him a lot but i was dissapointed that he deleted his number "not that id be brave enough to call" anyway was he flirting? If he was what should i do to show i feel the same cause I dont want to ruin our friendship since i have to see him almost every day? Remember I'm a shy middle school girl.

2007-10-31 11:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by MiddleSchoolGirl 1

My friend is trying to seek custody of her son. The lawyer said it would be good to get a court appointed guardian. What excatly do they do? The child is 3 yrs old.

2007-10-31 11:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by Riley's Mommy 6

First of all i'm 17 live w/ my parents and work 25 hours a week while going to school my 28 year old sister is a single mother living with us (my parents) who works 3 days a week depends on welfare, is dirty (doesnt change clothes, barely showers, disgusting breath) stays at home all day watching tv and making a mess and letting her son run wild & do what he pleases and expects my mother to clean, and cook for her! i am goin CRAZY! she irritates me just the simple fact that she doesnt care about my mom who works as a housekeeper 40 hours a week! how is she so ungratfull? i want to tell her to LEAVE! but everytime i tell her she is selfish and ungratfull she starts hitting hurself and saying she wishes she was dead and crying and i find myself in the same position i was in before which is she is being a slob at home. also she has her OWN TRAILER! so its not like we would kick her out to the streets. & she brought all her furniture to our house yesterday! like she moved in! i need help!!

2007-10-31 11:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by Catastraphe 1

Long story short-lost parental rights when they were 7 & 10. Elder son is turning 18 on Saturday. Do I go to the house, knock on the door and ask to see my son? Park in their cul-de-sak and wait for him to come out? Will not be able to see /speak to my now 15 yr old, would that not be too heartbreaking for him? I've cried with pain & reget every day for the past eight years...I need to see them so this hole in my heart can finally start to heal and these tears of sorrow can turn to joy. I've been dying inside for eight long dark years and I need to live and love again, hopefully with my sons in my life. How do I do this the right way?

2007-10-31 10:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by gmoney 3

What should I do since my mother doesn't let me go out anywhere with my friends and for god's sake I'm 17 years old!! She claims that she doesn't know them, I know she's trying to protect me because she cares about me, but it's really starting to get on my nerves!! HELP!

2007-10-31 10:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 13 now and all my friends are allowed to stay out till 10pm I want to stay out till the same time so I can see my bf and friends,there parents are cool with it but mine say no u should stay out till 9pm it really annoys me how im not treated the same and Im not the tpye who gets into fights so how can I conice them Im not a little kid anymore and dont give me answers like ''do what your parents say'' I have and its the first time ive ever been populer so I really really want to stay out so what should i do?

2007-10-31 10:39:13 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous

who will always be his daughter but can not forgive him for so much? What steps should be taken to fix a broken daughter/father relationship?
She has lost respect and love for him, now.

2007-10-31 10:13:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do adults judge kids so much at there age when they like a boy??

2007-10-31 10:07:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i thought she wants to used that money for emergency.....but she kinda slip and i find out that she just want to send that money to my cousing for his bday......which is a big deal for me....first of all i'm not sure if she will ever pay that money or not? my mom told me that my aunt never pay her back everytime she owed money from her...also i'm a single parent no one help me financially.

what should i do?

2007-10-31 09:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

My husband's brother got married last week. Since we were both in the party, we needed someone to drive our daughter to the babysitter. My mother-in-law insisted. Normally a 10 minute drive, we called her cellphone after an hour went by. No answer. Another 1/2 hr later, she gets to the wedding (late) misses introductions, delays the mother/son dance, completely emotionless and acts like nothing happened. I asked where she was and she said she got lost, I asked why she didn't answer, she didn't hear the phone. THAT's IT! This just isn't good enough for me. It happened when she picked her up later that night too. She left the wedding over an hour ahead of us, and somehow we got home before she did. I ask and she rolls her eyes and goes to bed. Do I have any right to demand knowing where she took my daughter? Do you think I shouldn't trust her again? My husband and I disagree on that. I need to know im not crazy. Thanks

2007-10-31 09:27:24 · 17 answers · asked by kad 1

I recently came to germany from korea. When i was home on leave i found out that my mother was terminally ill but i was already on orders to come to Germany. Now i am trying everything that i can think of to get back to the states to be with her but nothing is working. I do not know what to do and i feel like no body is trying to help. If anyone knows exactly what to do that could get me back to the states to be with her then please contact me so that i may do this. thankyou.

2007-10-31 09:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by john s 1