Family - October 2007

He has been walking me to all of my classes. And today he came up to me and we were walking and he put his arm around me while we were walking. It was really random, what should I do.

2007-10-01 13:41:28 · 7 answers · asked by Snickerdoodle 2

I live with a yeller, she yells about everything. If something doesn't go her way she yells and screams and insults everybody. I've tried asking her not to yell, I tried yelling back at her, I tried asking her after she calms down not to yell anymore. But she yells, yells and yells. I don't know what to do anymore.

2007-10-01 12:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Laughing all the way 5

all i wanna no if they iz gang related is they and if they r how?

2007-10-01 12:41:02 · 1 answers · asked by measexymonkey 1

A young man was killed in a car accident this weekend in my town. He was only 19 years old. He had been drinking. Can you please say a prayer for his family in this tragic situation.

2007-10-01 11:50:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i am in seventh grade and i really want a cell phone. My parents say things like
No, you can use one of our phones
no, Molly, you're too little

I am pretty responible, my parents lend me cell phones to go to football games with, i always answer when they call and don't text and rack up there bills. Do you have any reasons why i should have 1?

2007-10-01 11:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 11:12:11 · 1 answers · asked by chuminera 2

My mom likes to yell at me alot! I have two other sisters and she dosn't yell at either of them. She makes me do alot more chores, and I don't deserve it, yet she finds reasons for making me do it. Another thing is that my Parents are divorced and she has very hostile feelings toward him, and lucky me, I have his eyes. So, sometimes my mom gets really worked up about something he did or she gets really stressed out and starts yelling and blaming me. I'm 18 and I've been told hundreds of times " what the hell is wrong with you". I'm a really good kid, I go to school full time with a full ride scholarship. She actually recently got a Boyfriend and while I was in the hospital she called him and told him, but didn't call my own father, then she persisted to yell at me in the emergency room,calling me selfish, and saying I was ruining everything because I said something about the fact that she told her bf and not my father. the other day she told me that I was emotionally abusing her, Con't

2007-10-01 11:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Stargazer001 1

It's not that she doesn't want me to have a job but she doesn't want me to have a job working for my bf's dad. It's a simple job of answering the phone in the office of his dad's garage but my mom said no because she doesn't want me to be around him because seh says I already spend too much time with him and if I work with him I'll be spending ALL of my time with him but that's not rue And I think she's being biased because she doesn't like him anyway and she even told me I couldn't see him but changed her mind because of my grandfather But I don't get why she wants me to work at some grease spoon place like McDonalds or Waffle House instead of with him. Does this make sense to you?

2007-10-01 10:20:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I am seeking your guidance :) About a month or so ago my older sister confided in me that she had an affair. My sister and I have always been close, so it shocked me that I had no clue this was going on. She has been married to her 'high school sweetheart' for 7 years, and with him for 11 years and they share a beautiful girl together.I have no clue of what to do with this information.

Recently my brother-in-law helped me move into my new apartment. I just found out this morning that he found my journal
and proceeded to read it. Well long story short he knows.
My sister called me this morning crying, and explained how he found out. I cannot help but feel so angry, upset, confused, and nervous for what is about to happen.

I have a feeling that my parents will take this news just as hard, as they love my brother-in-law. I honestly do not know what to do. If I should tell my Mom what I know now before she finds out how he found out, or wait it out.

Any advice?

2007-10-01 10:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, they hardly ever ring us. They always use the excuse that 'we don't like to phone as we know you're working and we don't know what time you get in'. Polony!
But yet they still expect us to phone them all the time, on our phone bill. And when we don't they phone up and complain that we haven't phoned them, implying that we don't love them or something, just because we haven't phoned.
Does anyone else suffer from this bizarre phenomenem?

2007-10-01 09:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by gingersexbomb 3

my daughter is troubled with asking someone out.what advise do i give her?

2007-10-01 09:11:37 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshine-Sefe 1

Tell me what you think and why.

2007-10-01 09:08:27 · 5 answers · asked by backtothepast 3

My husband and I are taking care of his sister's (my sister-in-law) children while she is away for 5 months. We have no children ofour own. The children have different fathers. Each child of course have his own personality. It's been hard on us and the children. One requires a little more disciple then the others. (Her middle son went off on his teacher today because he could not do something he wanted to do) Should my husband be the only one disciplining him or should I also share in this responsibility. I feel because I am not their mother, my sister-in-law would have a problem with me disciplining her children. What should be done? Also what oter ways of disciple can you use. (he's had his game boy, the TV taken, staying in his room, standing in the corner, his favorite movie taken away, spanking) nothing bothers him. He is only five and he cares about nothing. His grandmother told me that even this summr he got angry while with her and he turned over a table. What can be done?

2007-10-01 08:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by good-n-plump 1

Ok... My husband and I got married a year this December. No one was present but our son and 2 witnesses. His parents were told but didn't come, Well all of a sudden...his mother is ranting and raving that she was NEVER told of anything, never invited nothing..well we know better but she's an alcoholic and doesn't remember anything anyways...but now she wants to us to renew our vows FOR HER. We are not willing and telling her so and telling her that a BAR is not a place we would ever consider simply does not work. Telling her to back off does not work either. She truly believes that we should do this for her...and that I need to learn to "roll with the flow".. I think she should have gotten ride of the booze bottle and shown up for her son (which would have been the first she'd ever done anything for him) Short of losing her on my mothers 300 acres of wooded land...what can we do?

2007-10-01 08:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he thinks he's right about everything, and he's self-centered and nothing matters to him unless you know what! he thinks he is more smarter than me despite his military career and he always makes me feel so small inside and i can't stand it! even when i dont' work (we have a kid) he says everything even my credit card is HIS cuz he worked for it. what kind of problem does that describe! i need a excuse to leave him cuz i am sick and tired of it! (we're not in love anymore)

2007-10-01 08:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by silltnwild 2

I can't stand her, but as I recently moved to the same city as her, I have to see her sometimes. She is rude and intolerant of other people's opinions. She will flat out tell me I am wrong (for instance, I believe organic food is a good thing and even though i have researched it's benefits extensively, apparently 2 guys who work at her grocery store told her it's the same thing as regular food and even though she has never looked into the facts, she insists that there is no difference. She says things like "I can't believe you're one of those people and rolls her eyes. ) She told me that because I wouldn't leave my sleeping 2 year old alone in the car which was parked out on the street and come inside with her, that, "you are way too overprotective, I had a cousin like that but she's a lot better now." She's friendly as long as you agree with every stupid thing she says and don't voice your own opinions, which i have a hard time not doing. I am open to other people's views, how do

2007-10-01 07:31:14 · 34 answers · asked by it's me 5

So my daughter is having her birthday party at a roller skating rink, and I would like parents to know that they may stay, however if they would like to also skate, it will cost them $2 to do so. their child is payed for already by me. what is a tacktful way of writting that on the invite?

2007-10-01 07:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by kaylaj0418 1

i would like to hear positive or negative stories about what its like living in a big family.I have five kids at present and would like to know how it must be for them.My oldest is fourteen and my youngest is two....i also have four year old twins and a son of twelve....this question is just out of interest...thanks for the replies.....

2007-10-01 07:17:03 · 20 answers · asked by dotty 3

im 17 and i live in laurel mississippi. can i move out of my house legally without my parents consent?

2007-10-01 06:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by abbigailpollock 1

i see alot of women living at home with their parents, and its seems norm or ok , while men is seen as a "momma's boy".

2007-10-01 06:37:17 · 20 answers · asked by kathy c 2

My step-father died almost a year ago but did not leave a will. He was my legal guardian since I was about 14. I have recently had family problems with my mother and we are currently not speaking. Therefore I have not heard wether or not I am entitled to anything. He was married to my mum for about 5 years I think and he has 2 other children from a previous marriage who I assume are entitled to something. Do I have the same rights?

2007-10-01 06:02:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently bought a home. Now I have room to entertain. I thought it would be nice to have my soon to be 81 year old mother and my 86 year old father along with my kids and my sister to a nice family dinner.
I just received an email that my mom told my first cousin, whom I'm not close with, about the dinner at my house which happens to be close to where he lives. He wants to see my parents. She more or less invited him to join us. I really wanted to make this just immediate family, and she should have asked me before she invited him. It isn't a big deal to have one more person and it is her birthday. I just think she used poor judgment and I'm a little mad. What should I do?

2007-10-01 04:29:48 · 21 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2

My wife recently had a miscarriage a little over weeks ago. She only told a handful people about it: a few close friends, her older brother, and her parents. Because of what happened, her parents came to visit us this weekend. Once they were at our house, her brother more or less invited his family and their other sibling's family over to inform the entire family that they were pregnant with their second child. I felt that the timing was awful as they were only several days pregnant and that they should have waited until my wife had gotten over her miscarriage. I wanted to throw him out of my house at the very moment, but just sat there in disbelief of the lack of consideration for his sister's feelings. I am filled with rage now, but my wife told me not to say anything.

Am I justified in being angry, and, if so, how should I handle the situation? BTW, he also preempted our wedding by getting engaged after our engagement and slipping the wedding in before his sister's.

2007-10-01 04:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by FilledWithAnger 1

my dad told me he would buy me a car but she tells me that i dont need one and shell be my transportation but yet when i want to go somewhere she tells me to find my own way, she drives me crazy with this crap!

2007-10-01 03:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by Beauti 1

My dad is very ill with cancer. He was not the best father and absent most of our lives, my brothers don't want anything to do with him, leaving me to worry about him by myself. He is a 3 1/2 hour drive away from me. I have a family and life of my own. My dad has one friend that has been helping him. She tells me he is very sick, he doesn't remember to take his meds - making him sicker and she works at night and does what she can to help. The big issue is money...he only gets social security and his bills, rent, insurance, etc just about equal what he takes him leaving him with nothing. Does anyone have suggestions? I think he needs some type of nursing care, but do not have money to pay for it. Thank you!

2007-10-01 03:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by patience 1

When my 14 yr. old daugher is on the phone or computer with her boyfriend, I drop everything so I can sit by her and listen/read. I wont go out with my hubby of 20 yrs. if I know she wants her boyfriend to come over. I help her plan her week depending on what his schedule is... Hes not even good for her (he has all the lines), but I almost get depressed if she even thinks she doesnt like him anymore. How do I stop my obsessive behavior.! I think about their relationship to the point that I loose sleep if I think they arent gonna go out anymore. what is wrong with me!?

2007-10-01 03:15:07 · 17 answers · asked by LONNIE M 1

She is 11 years old. I have been w/my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. They seemed to be bonding quite well. However, for the past 6 months, she began to be rude. She doesn't respect him and talk back to him. He ofcourse felt bad at first, but now I can notice that its annoying him. I have talked to her on several occassions and also demanded some respect toward myself and him. Is this normal? What should I do? She was rude this weekend, and now as punishment, I blocked all her favorite tv channels for this week.

2007-10-01 03:13:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

wrecks everything in your house, moved here about 6 months ago from spain, where we were for about 3 years, so had to buy all new furniture and decorate the house. our hallway had only been decorated for about 6 weeks and my husband had to repaint it yesterday because there were dirty marks all the way up where she had leant on the walls, my one leather sofa, where she sits is starting to fade because of her little accidents, and to top it all, I have had to buy a new vaccuum cleaner yesterday because she had been forcing it down to hoover instead of pressing the lever at the side, it was only 6 months old, still under guarantee, but they will say it is abuse so cant send it back. aaargh....... I know some of you will say put her in an old peoples home, but this is easier said than done, she is 80 by the way

2007-10-01 03:01:32 · 25 answers · asked by SUE G online 6

has been acting very strange with her husband who is also the god father for my daughter. I felt because of the things she has done in the past that she is jealous of me and her husband. This weekend i became the god mother of my husbands niece and in the party celebration she acted really strange once again with her husband and me. I confronted her and now i feel horrible. I felt it was time to confront her because this situation has been making me feel really uncomfortable for a while now. I am afraid now that this will cause a great deal of drama in the family and furthermore, i feel so bad about it but i have no regrets. any advice?

2007-10-01 02:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Trying to help 2

I am very worried about my boyfriend.

The link is a picture of him.

I am 23 (Female) and he is 22. He owns and operates several businesses with his father including gyms, nightclubs and resturants. He works very hard and has a very hectic life style, always been called away in the middle of the night to sort something.

Recently he has changed quite a bit. He seems to get upset for no apparant reason and he tells me that he's ugly and he doesnt deserve me.

I have found anti-depressants in his jacket too. He is losing weight too and we are not as close as we were.

My main fear is that his father is retiring next year so his will have the sole responsibility of running practically an empire.

2007-10-01 02:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by moon 1