Family - August 2007

We are identical twins. Should we both carry on enjoying this or should I do something about it?

2007-08-31 23:56:01 · 39 answers · asked by chas 1

teenagers and it said she is a prostitute. I am so ashamed, someone came up to me in the shop saying did you read about her in the paper they were laughing enjoying it, i feel really low at the moment and angry with her for doing this, expassilly as she got kids as well, i am bringing them up she does care about they or i feel, how do i deal with these nosey people

2007-08-31 23:51:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father is workaholic and seldom at home. He never, ever takes an active interest in my life. At home he just watches TV or sits behind a newspaper. Never showed his care, love or concern for my life! I feel so frustrated and angry at having this kind of father. I'm already 20 and I still don't know him very well as a person. He never affirms or pats me on the head for anything good I've achieved. I'm so angry he's always punishing me for my mistakes. I hate him.

2007-08-31 22:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-31 21:54:26 · 6 answers · asked by mamilove 2

i have left my house with some money in my hand .... around 500 dollars .... actually i have left my house because of some house old problems....i mean my mom and dad fighting every day....advice me what to do...????

2007-08-31 20:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by Srishti G 1

I have a daughter(with 5 children) that uses me to the limit.If she is in the right mood I can see the kids in school holidays only to find that after I have returned them home I am being accused of saying terrible things.My daughter since the age of about 25 has always done this to me also she finds ways to blame me for everything that happens in her life(BAD THINGS) she has been on drugs for many yrs but I don't need to hear that this is why these things happen because it's not.She hits me,she has stabbed me not seriously but I had to get stiches.She tells me that she can beat me at any game that she plays with me because she can win mental games over me because of the kids,I love them!People have told me to forget her that she is worth the trouble but I honestly believe that a mother's love is unconditional,that's always been my motto.I have had to attend children courts with her,you name it I have gone through it with her.I'm at the end of the road of not knowing what to do anymore

2007-08-31 19:57:51 · 5 answers · asked by jamie h 1

Hi my sister works in the same office which is made up of lots of departments as me. Anyway i already work with one of my sisters and shes on about going for a job in a department connected to mine. I dont really want her to go for it how do i put her off without being rude.

2007-08-31 19:40:07 · 12 answers · asked by chinwag 1

My brother in law has been staying with me and my husband for the past month and he's really bugging me. He works but he doesn't give us any money for putting him up. I understand he doesn't make much working at the grocery store he works at but he should still give us something. He also takes one of our cars with out my permission and eats the grocery I buy and leaves the living room a mess and doesn't clean up the guest room he's using. I tried to talk to my husband about it but all he says is that it's his little brother and I shouldn't be so hard on him. Once I got into an argument with my brother in law and my husband actually took his side! I'm so sick of this and I'm at my wits end what should I do?

2007-08-31 19:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 and my step-dad just saw my tattoo that I have had almost a year. He fliped out saying that I am white trash and all and Im far from white trash. My mom knew about it. So anyways today he told me not to bother cleaning my pick up.. So to make a long story short hes going to sale my truck because I have a tattoo..
And my mom wont do anything about it she wont stand up for me at all when it comes to me and my sister or him she picks him. Both my sister and my boyfriends hates him with a passion.

2007-08-31 19:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by SLIM 1

now shes hanging out with other people and it makes me realllly sad. what shold i do??

2007-08-31 18:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sure my parents did and I'm equally sure I wasn't it. Is it normal though?

2007-08-31 18:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by Dungeon Master 5

I love him and want him to move in and we have discussed this. My 7 year old trys to hug him and he sort of shrugs him off. Last night we discussed this in more detail and he said that he thinks my son would be a bad influence on his 2 year old daughter that he treats like a newborn , not a toddler. He says he has seen My son act up and is afraid that this will cause problems with his daughter, understand that he only gets his daughter every other Sunday from 12-6. But mostly I feel like he just doesnt like my son.
He has done some very nice things for us all and I have an 18 year old that notices the " neglect" of my youngest also so it is not just me. I sent the boyfriend an email tonight and told him that if he couldn't make an effort to be more outgoing with my youngest, then why even try living together. Another thing is he recently bought me a nice car and spent his savings on it and pretty much needs to move in soon... How do I handle this ? please honest answers.

2007-08-31 17:57:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anji 3

He is so wild.He won't give me bak my Nintendo DS! JUST STINKIN HELP!!!!

2007-08-31 17:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we don't really talk that much but they invited my family to there daughter's b'day party @ a skating rink i spent the last 30 dollars i had on her for her b'day the whole time we was there they ignored my children and me then here recently both of my children just had b'days they didn't call,send a card or even get my children a present - i know it's my family but i just think what they did was wrong and my sister in law is due to have her 2nd child in sept.and she had a baby shower just a few weeks ago and didn't even invite me to the shower i fig. they call me to let me know when they have this baby what do u think about this situation

2007-08-31 17:39:49 · 7 answers · asked by iluvfrogs 2

O so lets start off with a little background. I'm a 13 year old girl and I only live with my dad because my parents split up when I was 1 me and my dad have a nice bond, but I only sometimes really tell him how I'm feeling. Any way he met this girl and they were video chatting because she lives in the philipines after 2 weeks we both met her and her little 2 year old for 2 weeks and now heres the thing in ike 8 months they are getting married so now for the first time I'm going to have a mother and a sister, but there is more the girl is pregnatso I'm acually gonna have two sibblings and my whole life is going to change and I know my dad and gerda have differnet parenting styles so its going to be a big change. And my friends aren't really making a deal about it.

2007-08-31 17:33:28 · 4 answers · asked by me 5

Why would a 60 some year old father, constantly acuse his 23 year old daughter of acusing him of molesting her when she's NEVER acused him of doing anything? It's getting Ignoying. Is this very comen? Do men just acuse their daughters of acusing them when they haven't? What's wrong with him?

2007-08-31 17:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by purifiedheartbeating 1

ok so i lied to get out of class and went to another teachers class n he wrote my name down and i feel so terrible because i lied to get out of class even though i did go back to class and grr i hate it i never do stupid things like this and i feel so terrible because he has my name down on the seating chart n im not even in his class!! sounds so stupid but im ina dumb class with all stuck up girls that r advanced dancers when im not..n i couldnt take thier crap since they dont help me or anything so i was like screw it ..why waste my time when all they do is give me crap even the teacher gives me crap...

2007-08-31 17:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by woah 1

my mom talks to me just fine about my day & stuff. but 4 some reason, whatever advice she gives me or speeches she tells me, i always wantto think the opposite and not listen to her. i am an amazing student & the shy & smart girl, i knnow its bad to feel this way, but i cant stop it. Also when she talks to me, since i m the 11st child, she really doesn't know what to say. so she kinda talks to me like she was talking to a kid, but trust me, i m not anymore. for example, when i should have first started to wear a bra, she told me that it was "that time" and baby & slow talked to me. i didnt 4 a while bcuz i felt like i shouldnt bcuz she said i could. & idk y! Also, she always asks me my opinion on boys, whoi like, if i like that movie star, and tells me stories about her boyfriends. i feel like kinda shes pressuring me 2 date, so i actually am not, even though my friends are. Waht should i do about this feeling? did u have it when u were a teen?

2007-08-31 17:06:29 · 20 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3

why do SO many people think that people cut them selves for attention. most of the time, its not for atention at all! and they dont even really want anybody to see the cuts/scars, but if somebody does see them, they can't lie, so they have to tell them. and not just the EMO people cut the selves. step out of the labels people please. so many other types of people cut them selves too and theres always a reason behind it. also, why do a lot of people think that if somebody cuts them self they are insane and they immediately need phsyciatric help? all they really need is ONE person to talk to and help them sort out whats going on. Im really just wondering why people are so shallow to say people "emo" people cut themselves for attention andthey are crazy. now i know all of you dont feel this way so dont come on here hating on me, all im doing is asking ok?

2007-08-31 17:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by conviction_x 2

its my dad's birthday today and i need to get him a birthday present!! i want to get him something original but not wine or tie. can u please list them!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-31 16:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by westham till i die 2

2007-08-31 16:10:08 · 8 answers · asked by I Hate My Life 1

I just moved and made new friends and they r all dudes my mom doesnt really like da fact that they r guys well i was home alone well she was working and all of a sudden they came into da house and they were making a whole bunch of noice and the neibors heard it too and the next day the neighbors told my mom what had happened i tried to explain to her that i didnt invite them in (i know it sounds like bs but its true) and i tried to get them out buit they didnt listen! now im like grounded for like 3 weeks or a month i got everything taken away i had to dies my hair back to the natural color,got my cell phone taken away,cant talk on aim,cant hang out wit my friends around my house, and cant go anywere. how can i earn my moms trust back? any ideas?

2007-08-31 16:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have an older friend that is 10 years older than me. She was my math college teacher and we became friends. We only talk through email b/c we are not that close yet but anyway..she just had a baby a month and a half ago and she has invited me over to see her already. Well I got her baby a present out of generosity.. (I have already gotten her a baby shower present which was an engravable picture frame that was expensive!)..but I was shopping and saw some cute outfits so I decided to get them just because. I have been trying to give them to her and I ask her in email when I can come by and give them to her but she either doesnt answer me sometimes or like today, told me to come over in email, but then called me later and said her AC wasbroken and being fixed, and to reschedule for next week. This will be the 3rd reschedule already. I told her it was time sensitive, which it is. I really think she is a great person and I understand she is busy with teaching and the baby, but she

2007-08-31 16:05:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of my mom doesnt cook at all - we only go out to eat. We are an average wealth family and can't afford to eat out. Anyway whenever we try to get her to cook (which she can) she just gets angry and locks herself in the masterbed room and crys. Anybody know how I can get through to my mom to change the way she acts. I bring this us because she is currently acting this way and I can't stand to hear her cry.

2007-08-31 15:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by pr33min3nt 2

Or is it usually the other way around?

2007-08-31 14:27:05 · 18 answers · asked by hello world 7

i have just got accepted into med school and i've found an apartment with three bedrooms .. my room-mates are sooooooooooo very much diffrent than me .. how can i deal with them??!

2007-08-31 14:23:53 · 2 answers · asked by fo6a 2

my sister is not a bad mom but she started to go down hill and using drugs. She was staying at a bording house with her curnt boyfriend and you could see track marks on her arms one day her kids got up and went out side naked and she was to high to know her kids were 2 and 4. they ended up getting kicked out and I took them in. I also called CPS. while living with me she started prosatuting and she tested positive for more that weed and they took the kids and placed them with my mom and dad.
she didn't know it was me that called untill last night and she tryed to bet the **** out of me. I think that she brusied my collar bone and left a few bumps on my head. I couldn't fight back because my brother tried to cover me and protect me and he took alot of hits. should I press charges? She was in the wrong I only called to make sure the kids were safe and I love them but there mom (my sister) really needs help. if she gets them back I will never see them again and I have helped raise them.

2007-08-31 13:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

help my mom is getting married and i hate that im getting 2 new step sisters! i already have 1. what sould i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-31 13:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter (age 15) and I are living with my parents for now. I live in a different state than her father and he just sent her to
live with me.

My parents can be very pushy. They try to take charge of her life.

I don't know how to tell them that its my child and I will make decisions regarding her life.

My mother keeps making weird comments about how its a big day for my daughter to be going to school here.

They also keep pressuring me about the admissions process and keep asking about what classes she is taking.

My daughter thinks that its because my mother is lonely and wants a friend in my child?

It really irritates me because I thought I could get my ex-husband to change and could put the family back together again.

Yet, my parents keep pressuring me to get my daughter situated here where she is not comfortable.

How should I react to their statements?

2007-08-31 12:59:33 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Hello everyone. Can you help me in finding some Bible verses where I can give some comfort and support for a dear family of a friend. One son is not happy, no job, no self esteem, just proposed to a girlfriend. Mother having a hard time as girlfriend stayed with them, and bought her own house, but is not moving into it because it "stinks". That son won't talk to his mother, also is always angry and or depressed. He quit a job as he wasn't working well for that job. My friend, who lives out of the state, is having a hard time dealing with how the family members are reacting to these things. The Dad works out of the country. They are all grown. Youngest is 23. I would like some Bible verses to give them to help them through this rough patch. Prayers are welcome for my friend and his family. Thank you for your kindness.

2007-08-31 12:33:39 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie F 7