Family - August 2007

My mother moved in with us a 3 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend of 20 years and retired. My wife has always gotten along with her and thought the world of her, but now she is starting to cause trouble with my wife. My wife says she turns into a different person when I leave the house. She told me that she saw her kick our dog and she says mean things to my wife. When I ask my mom about it she denies it says she never said that. We were planning on selling our small house and buying a bigger one so we would have more room. I thought that would help but Im worried now it will only get worse. She has a good retirement, but all her friends are gone now. I hate to ask her to leave but might have to.

2007-08-29 23:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

I have a tricky situation.I have a family member who is separated from her husband..They have a 10 year-old boy who neither of them want.They don't physically abuse the child but mentally they do..I have just found out that last weekend, the father and some other people went out motor bike riding with the boy.The father and other adults were all drunk.There was an accident where one of the adults rode his bike straight into the child's bike.The adult was taken to hospital a couple of hours later, but he lied about how the accident happened, so the police didn't investigate..One of my family members is the Godmother to the little boy and i was wondering if there is something that she can do.I was told that a godparent has the right to take the child if they think it is in the child's best interest..Is this true? Or is there something else that can be done?

2007-08-29 22:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Liz S 1

The one who gives the biggest Lie, gets my best answer!!! lol lol

2007-08-29 22:13:18 · 19 answers · asked by Alice in Wonderbra 7

hey guys! im so sick of this.. i love my mum, no doubt about that.. but lately she's taken up a habit of looking for any thing in my room for any reason or any way just to yell at me.. so i hide my marks sometimes because they're bad and i dont want to show her YET but okay. but thats not it! she leaves my room in a mess! and i have afternoon class which means she finishes work early which seems to give her 2 extra hours to do what she does.. i come home to a fuming mother and a messy room and we end up arguing! i hate it!! how can iget her to stop??

2007-08-29 21:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so the problem starts like this
many years ago my friends parents split when she was only a little girl. just recently her dad was acting weird the past few days.1 night we heard him say "i love you". we thought he had a girlfirend and were both excited but scared to ask him. so she made a fake msn messenger as a random guy and added her father. she started asking him questions and said if he was single. it turns out that her father had been in an open relationship with his flat mate who is male for 10 years and had lied to her for all these years. till this day he doesnt no that she knows anout him being bisexual. she absolutly hates his flat mate and so do i,but not because of this issue. my friend doesnt care that her father is bi but cares that he has lied to her all this time. but what should she do.. keep quite or tell him that she knows but doesnt care that he's bi.? or do u suggest something else. thank you so much!

2007-08-29 21:27:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm feeling anxiety :/

2007-08-29 19:15:42 · 4 answers · asked by TR 1

a baby is alone at the home

2007-08-29 18:57:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well i just moved into this apartment i love it except one thing. the neighbor upstairs. now right off the bat i'll tell you, they don't BLAST their tv, but downstairs (i live on the bottom floor) absolutely every time they watch tv i can hear it in my living room, or room depending which tv they run. it's not loud to where you hear the tv full and clear, but i do hear mumblemumblemumblemumble all the time while its running. is it within my right to be upset with this? recently it's been late night too..right now its 1:50 AM and im hearing mumblemumblemumble in my room. one can see how that's very annoying, but at the same time i dont think its going to keep me up at night. i stay up latenight on the computer and im respectful and have almost non-existant volume i dont feel i should have to listen to THEIR tv's mumbling. i've talked to them once (during the day) and asked if they could turn it down they said yes, but the next day (today) i heard the mumbling again. =(

2007-08-29 18:52:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i work for my grandparents at a store they own. i am 17yrs old. am a ok worker. i want to ask for more money because i only get paid 5 dollars an hour. wat should i say to them..help

2007-08-29 18:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant seem to make friends with my mom i try so hard but it never works.We never agree on anything and we fight 24/7.And i make her so mad sometimes she'll slap me or grab my arm real hard and i hit her!It just comes out i cant help it.And sometimes she'll cry and it makes me so sad!
Can someone help me please i hate being this way with my mom=(

2007-08-29 18:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by mia marie 1

Whenever he gets me made i like to hit him and yes he hits me.

Not a perfect Family.

Today (1:07 am)
he went downstairs and made a huge mess.
My mom came home and we got into fight
when she went inside.

He tried to punched him then i nailed him in the back.

He ran to the couch and i said OMG ims o sorry i didnt mean too.
But that was my Anger =[ that made me do that.

Ive hit him badly alot before.

How can i make it up to him?

Hes 10.
and im 13.

Help?♥

2007-08-29 18:08:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom.... she is just. uhg... how can i get her to listen. im unhappy and hse doesnt take me seriously. she just thinks i over react to everything.... n maybe i do. idk but one thing is for sure i am not happy.... and she just wont listen. i feel so alone and i have no one to talk to. help me!! how do i get my mom to listen and start to realize how unhappy i am.

2007-08-29 17:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son decided to join the 7 th grade football team this year and he hasn't even completed the week of practice and he's already looking for excuses to quit the team. As a younger child he also tried peewee football, and baseball and quit that too. My husband says he can quit if he likes but I think he's becomming a quiter in everything he tries. I don't want him to grow in life thinking that when the going gets tough he gets going. Am I wrong for wanting him to see things through?

2007-08-29 17:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by sassy 2

I'm not really sure if this was worth a fight, but I felt like my husband "crossed the line" with one of his young, female co-workers. A few times a week they eat lunch together. On his days off she'll text him with messages like, "we miss you here!"
Now, he's trying to help her quit smoking by taking away her cigarettes and hiding them in his car for her. The other day he had a work function we attended and when we saw each other she was somewhat snotty.
I talked/(yelled) to him for all of this because I've had it! He thinks I'm acting like a jealous wife and I'm losing it, but quite frankly I'm very upset that he caters to her every whim.
Should I be upset? Is he crossing the line? What's going on?

2007-08-29 17:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Ronni 2

I could loose my job when i come back and i dont know what to do...I really need help....

2007-08-29 17:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by texaschick_2k5 1

my mum nags bout me asking her for money, but then goes and spends a huge amount on unnecessary health products. i freelance to get some extra cash but the cheques come in too late. im completely broke but my mum doesnt understand. im into varous exta curricular activities so that i can have a good cv for when i apply for college, but she keeps telling me to stop all im doing if i dont have the money to support my work. what should i do to make her realise that this is imp for my future studies??

2007-08-29 17:26:29 · 2 answers · asked by supergull 1

after giving you to trust, and sign the paper, as in hopes to help out... i know, what an idiot, right? my sister got me into troubles and now im struggling all alone, as she acting like a stranger, and sometimes a smarty advisor that really isn't effective to help with a situation at all.

as a result, ruined credit, future haunting by irs and lenders... and instead of bonding, feeling of emptiness and betrayals.

sibling who'd lie to 'see if i am useful, otherwise who cares'.

2007-08-29 17:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by h 2

I'm in need of 2 poems, for I have 2 brothers that live back in USA where I lived all my life up until 4 yrs. ago. Whilst I was here in UK, my "mean and jealous sister" planted ideas into my beloved brother's minds: She actually made them believe that they are out of sight and out of mind. Also, she has managed to cause problems with communicating with my family (not to mention that my "sister" has ALWAYS been very jealous of me) My brohters and I are the older ones, and we 3 were adopted when we were just born-Dr's told Mom and Dad that conveiving would be impossible...well, Mom had what they thought was a tumor, and that tumor turned out to be my younger sister!,So Doc's were wrong after all. My sister has been spoiled her whole life, and my Dad just died 3 years ago. What she did was "GET our house, (our family house Mom&Dad worked butts off to pay for)because she knows how to play Mom like a fiddle. Real mean. I want 0 to do w/her. BUT, I've been SO sad that she actually turned my

2007-08-29 16:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, im a 16 year old girl, im close w. my dad and stuff, but like, he calls me baby.
It sounds kinda weird, ive grown up to him calling me that and i actully kinda like it, it has no sexual meaning to him, im positive.
like when were on the phone and i say ok talk to you later, hes like "ok baby, see you soon" or whatever.
do u think this is weird, or if other people heard this it would sound bad?

2007-08-29 16:23:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband found out a couple of weeks ago that he has a 4yr old son whom he has never been there for. he is wanting to sign his rights over, but the mom is not agreeing. is there anything he can do?

2007-08-29 16:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother has a disability and stole my purse and lied about it and was exposed as he did it. He already has 2 offenses against him and I am reluntant to file charges. I did not want to file on him to prevent hurt to him but I still hurt badly inside that he did this to me being I helps him out so much. Please advise what you would do in a situation like this.

2007-08-29 16:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6

okay if you read my previous question... you know that i like to wear my step sisters sexy lingerie (though i do not have any sexual fantasies towards her). i wrote the question and right after that i went down to her room to grab some lingerie and while i was looking in her drawer she came out of the bathroom and said what are you doing and i just walked out of the room really quickly. i didnt know she was in the bathroom at the time. i didnt even know she was home. what should i do?

2007-08-29 16:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by beachcid 1

i never have a minute,with my husband...........hes either on the phone, or out working! everytiime we try to watch a show someone calls,and calls and calls!usually HIS FAMILY!I WAS OUTRAGED TOLD HIM IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS TAKE ME TO MY DADS.......Later I realized,what a fool I made of myself! how could I have handled the situation better?

2007-08-29 16:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by gggg g 1

He does drugs and has people around his house on a constant basis, whether he knows them or not, and he lives with my boyfriend, with plenty of women around I am starting to feel inadequate!! My boyfriend loves me and I got my brother that living arrangement. I just wish he would get his life together! How can I tell him he owes me $300? How can I tell him I'm only 17 and thats all my savings!? How can I tell him that I love him and nothing can change that? How can I make him believe me? I just need a big brother that is a good example for me. He has even tried to jump out of a moving car on a busy street in front of me.

2007-08-29 16:11:27 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

Latley, my sister has been so mean and cruel!! All she ever does is exclude me and my brother and hogs my dad. It it is getting really tireing and she's only 8 yrs. old!! I feel that I'm living with a disguised teenager

2007-08-29 15:35:30 · 7 answers · asked by beth j 1

he wants to be with friends than his family and when you think you got ridd of him he comes back sayng that he loves you and wants to be a family with his kids and you but does the opossit.

2007-08-29 15:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by nana 1

2007-08-29 15:25:46 · 2 answers · asked by solonay 2

im in my late teen with a girlfriend. and i'm having some problems with overprotective and racist parents.

they say i can't go anywhere after 8, and i always need to go places where i know the direction.
my GOD DAMN CURFEW IS 8!
they also want to know what i'm doing in college(this isnt THAT overprotective, but if they check it every hour, it gets very annoying).

i have a girlfriend who is caucasian(i'm asian) they hate her just because she is not asian. they said i shouldn't trust anyone but asian. that the fukc?
there's nothing wrong about my girlfriend. it's not like she is a slut or anything. we started to date just cuz we liked each other and we still do.

i dont have enough money to support myself. but after i get a decent job and make some money, trust me, im living away from them!

until then, what should i do?
i had some serious conversations with my parents, but they don't understand me. i mean, you know, those 'typical' asian parents.

help me please

2007-08-29 15:21:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am very supportive of my bff she is not at all with me?

2007-08-29 15:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my parents have been divorced since I was 2. And I lived with my mom till I was 4. But when I was 4 she just got up and took off. I have lived with my dad since and I am now 13. I visited my mom over the summer and we got into talking about me maybe living with her one day. And from the two weeks I spent with her I know I want to. I want to move at the end of this school year so I will be starting high school where my mom lives. I want my dads aproval alot but when im 14 I will legally be allowed to choose who I WANT to live with. So I thought maybe if I told him now it would make it easier. Give him time to think about it. What I need help with is a way to aproach him with this. I dont want it to come off as " I dont love you and want to live with my mom" I just have lived with him for 9 years and I think my mom deserves the last 4 before im 18. SO please help. I dont want to hurt him.

2007-08-29 15:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by mcrgirl94 2