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I'm in need of 2 poems, for I have 2 brothers that live back in USA where I lived all my life up until 4 yrs. ago. Whilst I was here in UK, my "mean and jealous sister" planted ideas into my beloved brother's minds: She actually made them believe that they are out of sight and out of mind. Also, she has managed to cause problems with communicating with my family (not to mention that my "sister" has ALWAYS been very jealous of me) My brohters and I are the older ones, and we 3 were adopted when we were just born-Dr's told Mom and Dad that conveiving would be impossible...well, Mom had what they thought was a tumor, and that tumor turned out to be my younger sister!,So Doc's were wrong after all. My sister has been spoiled her whole life, and my Dad just died 3 years ago. What she did was "GET our house, (our family house Mom&Dad worked butts off to pay for)because she knows how to play Mom like a fiddle. Real mean. I want 0 to do w/her. BUT, I've been SO sad that she actually turned my

2007-08-29 16:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

Sorry....continued now: I am EXTREMEly heartbroken because she manipulated my Mom with her BS into giving her our house (not that it matters much, but the house cost $490,000 USA dollars which is about a million quid) As I say the money DOES not matter to me. What DOES matter to me is my family. In the duration of my moving to UK with my hubby and with our baby boy, she has had the opportunity to spin her evil web, and lo and behold, true to her character...Each family member gradually eased away from calling, writing, etc. NOW, I got the whole low-down as to what happened from my brother Louie (I just took a deep breath 3 weeks ago and dialed his apartment-what did I have to lose?) My bro Lou and I were the closest and we were inseperable as kids, and I love him dearly. I expected the frosty response to my call, but I got the opposite-He and I were in tears.,'cause it all came out: She told them (my brothers, and other loved ones) I left, and don't love them, etc. I now have a great

2007-08-29 16:49:23 · update #1

relationship back with my Bro Lou, and he tells me EVERYTHING that she is doing, and has done. See, we had a HUGE house because Mom and ~Dad (God rest his soul) supported other family members, friends, etc. In other words, anyone who was out of a home, or had none, moved in with us until they could get out on their own. They are the greatest parents! To get to the poems, I want to send my two brothers loving poems, and I am not too great with those. I have re-established contact as I said with my one brother Lou, and it's his birthday in 3 weeks, I'd like to send him a poem showing how much I missed him and my love for him. I thank GOD that we are back in contact again, for we were ALWAYS a tight-knit, loving family-It was just that when Dad died, (the beast)my sister took over and manipulated everyone in every way possible to her advantage. When I heard she convinced my family that I will never come back & I hate them-Out of sight,out of mind I was crushed! Now it's cleared up and I

2007-08-29 16:59:09 · update #2

wish to send a great poem to my bro' REALLY SPECIAL, and as I said I've got another brother who is the oldest. He has a manipulative wife, she comes from rich family and is soooo snooty, and she bought everything my evil sister said. So, she has managed to ban me from communication with my oldest brother Jeff. I miss him, very much as well, and am not hurt by him personally, because his wife has always been jealous of me from day one (she even eerily tried to look like me, dying her hair my color, cutting it like mine, copying alot of things about me because Jeff and I were SO VERY close when she came into his life. He will not go against her word (OR she is telling him the same kind of BS like my sister has to everyone)either way, she emailed me and said my bro no longer will email me & she has gifts from several occasions (i.e.my son's B/Day,etc)as she told me in her cold email, but (and I quote her)"She doesn't know if she'll get time to post them" I called his job & said "I LUV YOU

2007-08-29 17:11:13 · update #3

WOW-KazM-The poem is beautiful and gets accross what I feel, and the advice from my second friend Cristal makes such clear sensible advice and encouragement. WHY oh why do I have to pick a "best answer" when both qualify? (I wonder if Yahoo Q&A team ever allow 5 points to one and the other 5 to another person-HIGHLY doubt it though, but to me it's worth checking into.

2007-09-01 02:50:40 · update #4

6 answers

Distance now divides us
fate did make us part
but my love for you goes on and on
inside my broken heart

I wish it could be different
I wish that you could see
how much I long to be with you
or to have you here with me

Just remember that I love you
and love you more and more each day
a sisters love is eternal
and I'll always feel this way

I miss you................

2007-08-29 16:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by aussiechick 4 · 4 0

I don't think there isn't anything left to say that hasn't already been said except things happen for a reason even though it's hurtful, they may actually make you and your brothers closer as you now write to them from the heart. Telling them things you might never have said before.
Also you sound a loving daughter, sibling, person in general and you are a better person than your sister. You need to forgive her though because she must have deep issues that cuase her to act this way, maybe she feels jealous and frightened because your parents chose you to be in their lifes and she just came along. Maybe you could write to her, explain your hurt, without attacking her, ask her why she acts the way she does towards you and ask her how you can address this problem. Maybe she feels neglected now you have moved. She may feel that you don't love her anymore and is projecting this on to the other memebers of your family. God loves you all and says that holding a grudge is worse for the person holding it than the person the grudge is against. I have found that to be true in my life. I know you say you don't want anything to do with her but for your sake and your family's now is the time to be strong put the past i the past and try to move on. Good Luck. God bless. Hope I have helped and that you will think about what I have said. I don't intend to hurt you or disrespect you darling. You just sound like a sweeheart.xxx

2007-09-01 12:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sazzy 2 · 1 0

Poems are wonderful and heartfelt to read, but I don't think that a poem would be the best way for you to express how deeply you feel. You may not think that you are able to write down what you feel and maybe a poem would make it easier, but after reading your story I think that you would be able to tell your brothers exactly how you feel straight from the heart, without rhyming words and without help from anyone else. A good way to start is remembering good times together, sentimental times that only you and them share. On the subject of your sister, there is definately alot of damage been done and she obviously had the upper hand because when you are not there you can't defend yourself, but don't even give her the satisfaction of bringing her into the conversation or venting your anger about her. You and your relationship with your brothers are what's ultimately important. As the saying goes "sticks and stones ........." You and only you know the strength of the bond between you and your brothers and she may be able to tug at it a few times with her negative opinions but she won't be able to break it as long as you don't let her. Don't waste another minute of your life going over bad issues with your sister, instead build on what you have with your brothers, this will ultimately put her in her place. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad, but even although you think you sister is manipulating your Mum, remember your Mum will have her own thoughts so don't give up on her either, that's exactly what your sister wants. You go girl! and give it your best shot, I'm positive your brothers won't have forgotten what a wonderful sister and friend you are.

2007-08-30 06:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Wow some question!
May I humbly suggest that you have got speaking to your little brother, you will get your brother.
Don't give her the satisfaction of spending so much time stressing over her.
You have only one life and everything to gain and nothing to loose. Don't play games with your life. Phone your brother at work if need be. Tell him your sister you have always loved him always will and now the rest is up to him.
As for your mum, explain how you feel, ask her to re affirm her love for you and that you want the family to stick together.
Life is a one shot venture and you never know how long you have with someonr till it is too late. Don't worry about worrying, if they reject you then you know where you stand. Subtly never works on men - not even brothers. be upfront and dirrect adnd you will be well received. why wouldn't you?

2007-09-06 03:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rach 1 · 1 0

i am not much of a poem writier but let me tell you about your older brother. its very hard when they just listen to their wifes but that is what one is suppsoet o do and theyshouldn't be lied to but sometimes it does happen. some day you will get the chance to talke to him and then you can talk to him yourself but never talk bad of his better half. that is the secret. she will be there till the day you die and never speak a word of ill towards her it will help you in the long run. take care.

2007-09-06 21:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1 0

$490,000 is about £200,000. not a mil.
as for poems what you should do is find poems writen by someone quite profound. writing them yourself will be difficult. also dont ask a bunch of strangers to write them for you its too personal.

2007-09-06 09:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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