Family - August 2007

im 15 & i usually call my grandma every few days. everytime i called, no answer. she is busy & hanging out with friends. i sit by the phone everyday for her to call. she doesnt call. i feel like my life is being wasted. everyday is wasted cuz she doesnt call. so now i havent called her for ten days. i never go that long without calling her. i dont want to be needy. i want her to call me for once. do you think she is wondering why i havent called? i usually call more than every ten days. now im crying right now cuz i miss her. i want her to come to me. now im stuck here waiting for something that will never happen.

2007-08-30 13:29:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some help. I have a girl that is calling my son name, she has cut a shirt of his and she has also, said"that she would cut my son's head". We talked to her mom about the shirt and her mom said"that she would keep her daughter from coming over here. We she hasn't and she then told my son that she would kill him. When he told me this, I went to the cops and told them and they said"all they could do is talk to her mom and dad". But the girl still come over here and when she comes over here I make him come in so, I know she isn't calling him names, cussing at him or giving him the finger.
Oh he is disabled. He is a dwarf and I think that is why she is picking on him.
What Can I Do? Can any one help me or tell me what I can do?

2007-08-30 12:10:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was raised by my Grandmother, and my mother left home and by the time I saw her again, she already been married a couple of times. Mother has passed away as well as rest of the family members. Can this information be found with my birth certificate number, and where would I go to find out?

2007-08-30 11:50:49 · 19 answers · asked by wayne r 1

I usually watch my little sister until someone gets home from work when both parents are working. My stepdad is my little brother's football coach, so some nights I have to watch my sister during football season. This isn't the problem, because I know it helps my parents out a lot. Seeing as my mom is pretty much a stay at home one, I feel like my sister is her responsibility while she's home. She likes to leave my sister with me constantly to go do errands or whatever, which started to get really old. I don't want to feel like a 19 year old parent. She's not my kid, even though I love her to death. The other day my mom asked me to watch my sister while she went to do something and I told her it was starting to get old. She went off on me saying she would never help me with anything anymore including cosigning a loan I need for school. A couple days have passed and we still aren't speaking. I don't want to confront her and apologize because I'm not sorry at all. What should I do?

2007-08-30 11:47:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my sister are really close she has my nephew who is 6 and is due to have her next baby(a girl) in november. ive recently got back with my daughters father who i love,after being split up for 5 weeks. me and him have been on and off for nearly 6 years,after having other relationships and domestic violence. i have been wrong at times in the relationship too,but even tho he dont continue hit me no more,she will not accept the fact we're back together and we love each other and want to make it work. wm worried now she wont let me see my nephew or my unborn neice i love her and her family so much and dont want to loose touch with her,but i know she's already changed her number,she knows where i live i jus hope one day she'll visit us and see blood is thicker than water?

2007-08-30 09:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 2

Okay, My husband and I worked with a youth group at a local church. I got really closed to the pastors oldest daughter. She was going through a rough time and I really felt that God had brought me there to be an influence to her and encourage better behavior. After being there 2 years we felt led to leave the church.

This girl will be 18 in a few weeks. Her parents are really hard on her. She has rededicated her life to the Lord and has really matured through the years. She is a senior and is working a part time job. Her dad refers to her as a pain in his flesh. her parents are always telling her to get a second job to pay for her school supplies and school clothes. She pays her Car payment, Car Taxes, Insurance, gas and cell phone bill. They do not make her younger sister pay for her own cell phone.

She feels really close to me and my family. I have 4 children ages 7 ,4 and 2 year old twins. Should I let her move in with us? What is your opinion?

2007-08-30 09:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 09:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by girtie 1

My last name is Britt

2007-08-30 09:13:35 · 4 answers · asked by Doug 1

I feel like I have a problem being too sensitive. I am a friendly person and if I sometimes write a message to someone on myspace for example like an acquantaince to say hi etc. and they don't answer it hurts my feelings. I am like a big people pleaser and I want everyone to like me. If something says something that's not so nice about me, I feel awful. I wish I could just be like those people who rub it off, don't care, and move on.

2007-08-30 08:38:52 · 25 answers · asked by Ebony 2

im 15. i havent seen grandma for 2 weeks. i usually see her once a week. she never calls me because she is always busy. i always have to call her. i havent called her for a week and she still wont call me. i left dozens of voicemails and she wont return my calls. i hate it when she neglects me. i cry every night because i miss her. everyday i sit home bored and everyday is wasted because i sit around waiting for grandma to call. tomorrow im gonna wait around for grandma. how can i make her call me? when i talk to her next, she will say "what havent you been calling me?" then what do i say?

2007-08-30 08:37:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

She'll be with me for 4 days, should i tell him to leave money for her? so that she can go out to the Zoo and pier? he;s my older brother and my niece is 3

2007-08-30 08:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is moving out tomorrow and my dad completely objects to this. He is in financial trouble with major debt and a failing business and he cannot secure payments on the house alone. My mom is fed up with him and wants to leave because my dad is never home. Mind you my dad has back and leg problems and is working from 7am-late evenings and comes home exhausted. He wears second hand clothes and gives us money to buy good clothes until recently(My mom works now so she does most of that) He usually pays the bills but he can't do it alone and he has the idea that the family needs to stay together. He wants 50/50 payment and knows if we leave he'll wind up on the street, he cannot afford the mortgage alone and cannot pay for rent at the same time while selling the house. My dad does not want the house signed over to him like my mom said she would and wants her to take the bad credit as he will. My mom's moving date is tomorrow and I really don't want my dad out on the street.

2007-08-30 07:29:07 · 5 answers · asked by Zayd 1

my dad gets mad of every little thing
i dont even give him a good reason too he just does.
what can i do about that?

2007-08-30 07:22:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a small town and my family owns a funeral home..just recently my father hired a new guy to drive our hearse..hes not very sensitive when it comes to the deceased recently i noticed him dropping the casket out of the hearse and the women sort of slipped out..he then very angrily shoved her back in..then i noticed him stealing money from one of the deceased..he took the jewerly off of the elderly woman and put it in his pocket.then he slapped her across her face.laughed and did it again.this time even harder.. it seemed unreal.i tried to tell my mom to watch him but she thinks im dreaming it all up.i mean those are just a few things ive saw.who knows what i havent seen..i would hate for him to do something worse nextime.how could he be such a coward.these are innocent people hes harming..should i tell my dad so he can be fired.

2007-08-30 07:18:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 07:13:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14 years old and i dont really listen to a thing that my mother tells me and i dont even obey almost ALL the rules that she tells me to follow. I know i am out of control and i love my mother i cant explain why i act the way i do to her. I think it might be because of my anxiety disorder and it makes me want to lash out on her. I really dont know. Can somebody please help me??

2007-08-30 07:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

As her father is in jail for theft of property, Drugs, Failure to pay fine and all sorts of other things. But this little 4 year old lives at my sons house with my sons sister in law. And all of a sudden she is cussing her mother, me, and any other adults she is around that she hates her mother wishes she was dead. Threw a butter knife at her Tuesday morning asked my 8 year old grandson if she stabbed him with a Knife if he would Die So she can watch Him Flop around Because it would be Neat. And yesterday she was upstairs was stomping my granddaughters dolls and telling it die bit** die. Asked my 3 year old grandaughter if she Knocked her down the stairs if she would die. I made her come downstairs and would not even let her play with the Kids. My sister was watching them for a few minutes and she untied her shoe she told my sister to tie it or DIE. We are at wits end my grandchildren are scared to death of her Even her own mother told me she is scared to go to sleep with the child .

2007-08-30 06:58:44 · 7 answers · asked by bjwill72961 2

im 15 and i've got parents who are immigrants from india.. they're all bout having a perfect education and marrying someone of the same race & religion.they never let me go out with friends unless they absolutely know them and they're parents. and knowing a boy is Satan to them. now that i'm in high school i think its time they start letting go. but how can i do that?

2007-08-30 05:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by EmOESKiMo 1

2007-08-30 05:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by lonelyone64 1

How do I tell my mom. I'm 25

2007-08-30 05:31:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My FATHER and one of his mistresses are going to have a baby. If the baby is a BOY I am RUINED. I am the SOLE MALE heir to the St. James Family fortune in St. James Town, CT. The baby will be biracial because my Father's mistress is our MAID. I need to know how greedy the MEXICANS are as a race. I will NOT have this child's grubby paws all over MY INHERITANCE.

2007-08-30 05:23:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm doing a lot for the wedding, too, like hosting the rehearsal dinner - I got suckered into that by being a "nice guy." I feel like it's not worth it & I'm ready to pull the plug on the dinner. She's a smarmy, self-absorbed twit, I can't stand her, she's doing little passive-aggressive jabs at me, and I'm so mad right now, I'm shaking. How do I deal with this?

2007-08-30 05:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by sweet pea 5

Yesterday I got my first spanking. (with belt) :( 4 about 15 minutes.
I learned my lesson but will I get another soon?
I don't want to be like the girls who gets spanked almost everyday.
The reason I got spanked on my bare *** was cause I stole my dad's credit card. What can I do to stay out of trouble and not get spanked. I don't mind a few pats on my bottom but not like yesterday. Help!

2007-08-30 03:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by popstar901 2

he was kicked out he is only 16 can he stay with us

2007-08-30 02:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by susan 2

Your spouse or your close blood-relatives - Mother, Father, siblings.
(For this question, children are not included)

2007-08-30 02:21:07 · 39 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

Yes this girl goes to my boys school and is going to have to get a place on her on. We found her a 2 room house and the rent is $325.00 a month. She gets $400.00 a month beacuse hem mom died a year ago. I was wondering if anybody knew of any help she cold get or anybody willing to help her get started. We help her all we can but we can't do it all. She had to get out because parents were very abusive both mentally and physically and I don't blame her, so if anybody has any ideas please e-mail me. Any help or advice would be good. We have already got her a bed and dresser and night stand to help her. She is staying with us till the 3rd then she is moving in the other house. Thanks very nuch.

2007-08-30 02:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by golfer 1

Ive been dating the wondeful guy for almost two years & we now live together as of a year ago.. He & his wife have been seperated for 5 years. they have two kids together... in the past two months, the Mother was found to be an unfit mother, and there father now has full custody of his two girls 9 &10.. I now find myself in an instant family.. the kids occupy most of his time, and his affection towards me is less because of the lack of time... I know it sounds selfish.. but how do I cope with this? and how do I develope a relationship with his girls and him? what can I do, to insure that he and I keep a strong relationship even though we have a full house now? I feel left out... Anyone else going through this?

2007-08-30 02:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by honey5161025 1

I have some friends mostly guys and they bum rides all the time in my car to the mall etc I asked them to pay some gas money but then I changed my mind and asked them to buy me a few clothes they said ok and I got a cute outfit. my mom freaked and said I was hoaring myself out. I don't understand I did them a favor why not let them buy me a skirt or whatever instead of money for gas? help.

2007-08-30 01:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1

This is one of my dads friends. Every time he is over at the house he stares at me and if I am talking to him he stares at my chest. He is OLD. Do I say something or just ignore him?

2007-08-30 01:46:24 · 12 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1

I come from a family where there was strict discipline. Since both me and my brother were very young (till about 14-15), we were spanked regularly by our parents (if we were bad).

Both me and my brother have been given bare bottom spankings when we had been really bad. My father used to typically administer this (and he had powerful arms!)..occasionally mommy.

I never saw it as abuse/anything wrong then. I never thought that my father spanking my bottom or mother spanking my brother is something wrong. But now i wonder?

Does a parent ever see their own children in a sexual manner? I know one thing - i never felt any shame (in a sexual way), when my father used to spank me....there was only fear and hurt.

The fact that he may be 'looking' at my privates did not shame me at all then(ditto for brother and mom). Then why is it such a big issue now????

Once when i was really sick & bedridden, my father even helped me with my bedpan (mommy was sick too)...again is it wrong??

2007-08-30 01:19:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous