How do you get another kid to stop teasing your son?

Question

I need some help. I have a girl that is calling my son name, she has cut a shirt of his and she has also, said"that she would cut my son's head". We talked to her mom about the shirt and her mom said"that she would keep her daughter from coming over here. We she hasn't and she then told my son that she would kill him. When he told me this, I went to the cops and told them and they said"all they could do is talk to her mom and dad". But the girl still come over here and when she comes over here I make him come in so, I know she isn't calling him names, cussing at him or giving him the finger.
Oh he is disabled. He is a dwarf and I think that is why she is picking on him.
What Can I Do? Can any one help me or tell me what I can do?

The girl is nine years old and she is in 4th grade. They go to the same school but the 4th graders don't see the first graders. The only time that they see each other is at the bus stop and on the bus. This problem started when she was over in your landlady's yard playing with the little girl that lives under us. If she is going to play with the girl that lives under us then the girl that is calling my son name shouldn't say a word to him while she is over her playing with the little girl that lives under us.

Answer 1

Sue the kids parents for emotional damages....lol

Answer 2

May now after u have talked to the mom and dad let the cops know again and see if there is some kind of restraining order of protection u can get on this girl and her family. If this is going on at school too talk to the school and let them b aware of whats going on so they can watch. Keep lots of documentation so if u go to court u can present it all. Good luck and ur son is lucky to have u to protect him! It really angers me that kids r like that to disabled kids. I teach my kids that even if some kids r alittle different, to treat them with respect because they r the same as them inside. Ill pray for ur little boy!

Answer 3

Hire a Hit man
That was a joke no one should be able to pick on any one else If her mother refuses to listen get a restrain order when she arrives call the cops after a night in jail maybe she will wake up Tell your son to be stronger that not every one in the world is an *** Good luck and god bless

Answer 4

How old is this girl? When you are young and immature you tend to act up when confronted with things you don't understand or are afraid of. One other person mentioned talking to the girl. If she is receptive to talking that might work. Or another possibility is making friends with her and supervise her visits with your son. It is possible by being exposed to your son in a controlled enviroment she may come to more fully understand your son's condition and be more compassionate.
However, it is also possible that she gets her attitude from home and nothing you can do will change that.

Answer 5

I presume they go to school together? Have a meeting with the principle... Next forget the cops.. How many times have you heard of a guy harrasing a woman and they say unless he touches her we cant do anything about it. And the next thing you know he has killed her... Go to the Sherrif's Dept and tell them you story especially about the killing statement and mention the cops. Then as them for a P F A (protection from abuse) Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania

Answer 6

I would find a group of kids for your son to play with that are not so horrible. Try a play date with someone you know. or sign him up for group time at the local library.
As for the horrible little girl, keep calling the police if she continues to come near your son, maybe file for a restaining order. Dont let these people keep your son from enjoying his life.

Answer 7

There isn't much you can do to keep your son protected from ignorant people in this world, The best you can do is what you are already, keeping him inside and etc. Although i dont find it fair that you should have to do that you need to look into getting a lawyer that specializes in rights of disabled. Also, document every time she does this and every time you reported to police. If this continues you can ultimately sue for emotional damages.

Answer 8

I would advise against hiding your son in the house. Just be there when she shows up and be the adult. Ask her to go away and come back when she isnt so mean. Your obviously trying to find a quick and painless solution but turning your son into a wuss is going to hurt him later in life. Dont teach him to run from others, teach him how to verbally protect hisself....or rise above this worthless little girl. She is the one with the dissability.

Answer 9

I cannot believe that the police said that all they can do is talk to her mom. Insist that they write a report on it and press charges on her for harrasment,continued threats and for assault. Her cutting his shirt off is assault! If the parent will not doing anything about her,then you do it through the courts.

Normally I would say to tell him to beat her till she screams but s you mentioned your son has a handicap.Let the police handle it and make them uphold the law.Do not let them brush you under the carpet.

Answer 10

the source is the parents.. i would arrange a meeting with the parents and a third party./.. juvenile division officer.. or family pastor or priest. i would also document everytime the girl comes over.. and call parents immediately to retrieve their daughter. ask juvenile court if you can get restraining order. also you could invest in a fence with a locked gate. seems drastic.. but hey. but your son should not have to give up his freedom for a rude.. little girl whose parents.. do not understand the seriousness of this. it is not just your son.. but this little girl.. is making threats that make me question anger management issues.. or worse.

Answer 11

Perhaps it is time to have a respectful, mature, calm but clearly more severe conversation with her parents. I absolutely mean no disrespect but in the end, if her parents are going to continue to look the other way and be ingnorant (and sadly teaching their daughter the same) then all you can do is use the moment to love your son and teach him about being the "bigger" (again, I mean no disrespect to him or to you) person. Take care and good luck!