my dad gets mad of every little thing
i dont even give him a good reason too he just does.
what can i do about that?
2007-08-30 07:22:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well first off you should be happy you have a father period, not a lot of us can say the same. You just need to have a talk with him, tell him you want a good relationship where you can talk about anything with him but that right now he gets mad right away so it's pulling you away from him, unless he wants his little girl to elope with some loser he needs to relax and be cool. Once he sees you talking to him as an adult maybe he'll start treating you like one.
2007-08-30 07:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is your Dad under pressure at work, having health problems, or is he generally an unhappy person. You will have to let him rant and rave and when he is calm and in a good mood, ask him why he gets so mad over little things, and if there is anything that you could do to make it better. Maybe he doesn't realise what he does to everyone around him.
2007-08-30 14:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have one to one talk with him. Tell him what bothers you. Ask him what's really wrong. He might be having problems at work or with his finances or generally stressed or depressed.
If the talk didn't resolve anything, have a third person get involved in the conversation to resolve the issue. Preferably your mom or someone close.
If the problem persists, go to a professional councilor.
If he is abusive in any ways, physical or mental, tell someone you trust or your teacher. If you feel threatened, call a cop.
2007-08-30 14:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a daughter to dad talk sit down with him and tell him that your growig up and your gonna have to start being your own person. like if he gets mad when you mention going out with friends then ask him what bothers him about it try to compramise like if he doesnt like you going out with yuor friends ask for a cell if you dont already have one that way he knows where you are and you can still go oput and have fun. hope everything works out. sometimes parents are just really over protective
2007-08-30 14:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by sexythang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey sounds JUST like my dad.
The only thing to do is ignore him and just dont give in to his temper tantrums. I do and then just walk away. Don't give him the satifaction at knowing he is mad.
Tell him he is blowing this out of propution and walk away. It's about all you can do.
2007-08-30 14:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by BB 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
move out is probably the best thing... but you may not be able to do that... counseling? for yourself and maybe as a family.. would be a shame if you had to suggest it.. guess you could try and do everything right and attempt not to make him mad, but that might drive you mad!
2007-08-30 14:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by River (was V C) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are some people who are mad in general. No matter what you do, it won't change their attitude. So don't bother yourself. When he yells, don't listen and don't show you're affected by this.
2007-08-30 14:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Aatami 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Move out
2007-08-30 14:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by senorarroz 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
with a kid like you, he has every reason to get mad on little things.
2007-08-30 14:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell Mom. If that doesn't work, then tell Aunt or Grandma.
2007-08-30 14:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Christopher D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋