Yesterday I got my first spanking. (with belt) :( 4 about 15 minutes.
I learned my lesson but will I get another soon?
I don't want to be like the girls who gets spanked almost everyday.
The reason I got spanked on my bare *** was cause I stole my dad's credit card. What can I do to stay out of trouble and not get spanked. I don't mind a few pats on my bottom but not like yesterday. Help!
2007-08-30 03:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by popstar901 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Good for your dad, if you learned your lesson.
To avoid more spankings, stay out of trouble - don't do stupid crap like stealing.
Spankings on the butt have never been, nor will they ever be, child abuse. Child abuse is when you hit to cause damage or humiliation. Formal spankings in direct response to a spank-worthy display of behavior is not abuse, it's discipline.
Those people out there who have convinced the world that spanking your child is the same as child abuse are part of the reason kids in the world are such trouble makers.
2007-08-30 03:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by nephthys76 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well, honey, you used the word 'stole' so you know that what you did was wrong. What's more, you knew it was wrong BEFORE you did it, but you went ahead with it anyway.
That's really the lesson you should take away from this. If you know that you have to sneak around to avoid getting in trouble for something, you're about to mess up. If you can't look in a loved one's eyes later and tell them how glad you are you did something, you're about to mess up.
The real point is to behave morally, not just to avoid punishment. Remember that you reap what you sow. Always think hard about how your actions will effect others. Do a web search for 'thinking morally'. What you learn will improve your life and those around you.
Oh, and as a fringe benefit, you'll avoid those darn spankings!!
All the best!
2007-08-30 11:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
WOW, brings back memories. I use to get spanked too, or whipped with a tree branch. I know it sounds hard & cruel, but I got a lot smarter and more mature fast. I luv and thank my parents for punishing me, I'm a better person now.
To best answer your question about getting into trouble I would have to ask, why a credit card... but I'd assume for money (duh me)... so to answer your question, if you don't want to get in trouble for stealing, look for a job,
Baby-sitting, cleaning, maybe talk to your parents about a bigger allowance.
tell them it'll help better your understanding about money.
Good luck
2007-08-30 11:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by vim4you2 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real?!!??!?! Um, lets see... stop stealing and listen to your parents and it'll all work out in the end! Next time could be worse. How old are you anyways?!
2007-08-30 11:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by *@*@* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got what you deserved. With luck the memory of it will help you stay out of trouble.
2007-08-30 14:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well all you need to do is ask ur parents or things and not take them. I kno spankins hurt but ur parents are only trying to keep u out of trouble.
good luck
2007-08-30 10:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you got what you actually needed...good for dad...
2014-09-25 18:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bill H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is child abuse..There are other ways of punushing.STay out of trouble and you wouldnt be getting punished
2007-08-30 10:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini 4 · 1⤊ 8⤋