I am 14 years old and i dont really listen to a thing that my mother tells me and i dont even obey almost ALL the rules that she tells me to follow. I know i am out of control and i love my mother i cant explain why i act the way i do to her. I think it might be because of my anxiety disorder and it makes me want to lash out on her. I really dont know. Can somebody please help me??
2007-08-30 07:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Pry your head out of your butt.
Lingering in the dark with the odor of poop makes you an Ugly girl.
There is no excuse to be disrespectful towards your Mother.
Get up off your Princess Butt and go apologize and get busy helping her and being nice to her.
One day you will be real sorry for being so Ugly.
If you where mine you would be Locked in an Institute for STUCK ON STUPID until you where 21.
2007-09-01 05:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dionannan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start understanding where your mother is coming from. You don't like to be disrespected right, then don't disrespect your mother or anyone else. I know it's hard, but you need to remember, your mother loves you very much and wants the best for you. And if you and your mother work things out now, you two will have more fun being around each other and less stress; that causes your anxiety right now. So take it easy and relax, your mother don't mean any harm, she just wants her daughter back!
2007-08-30 14:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by 979 v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect comes with love. If you love your Mom, then you care about her feelings and what she wants and needs and not just yourself. Obeying your Mom is a way of showing her that you respect, love and care for her.
Also doing the right things and making the right choices shows you respect yourself and is a sign of maturity. If you can show your Mom that you can behave and make good choices and decisions, she will give you more freedom.
2007-08-30 14:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop making excuses for your bad behavior and grow up. If you really love her you wouldn't do this to her. If you want to change than when you go to do something you know is aganist the rules stop and tell yourself that you will not act this way. Only you can change the way you behave. what is your anxiety about, deal with it and stop taking it out on your Mom.
2007-08-30 15:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tonight when you go to bed, pretend she died and see how you feel and how you feel about what you would do different for her and how you would wish you would have treated her if you had a second chance, know start treating her like that from that moment on.
2007-08-30 14:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i think u should be your self and treat her goodly and give her a happy surprise bye..goodluck...
2007-08-31 14:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋