Family - August 2007

and if they are just guessing..are they any close???
some girlfriends of mine are so close with their mum that they told her after the 1st time, I didn´t tell anybody...

2007-08-30 21:33:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 20:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by sakura0925 2

(This question is from my almost Sister in Law)

what to do about alcoholic boyfriend who is an asshole while drinking but awesome while sober? staying with brother right now overnight have 17 month old baby please help me?

2007-08-30 20:53:42 · 19 answers · asked by carls812 4

my younger brother moved in with his gf and they sleep across from my room i've heard serveral noises out of there room. never cared for it.

i got home a few hours ago, my brother and his lady were in the room. they didnt know i was home. and i over heard the same noises and this time it was louder and more verbal. i didnt realize what was happening until i heard her crying and the noises were continuing. I paniced and i didn want to hear or be noisy but i had to and i heard my own brother hitting his girl. and I freaked out. she was crying and saying stop and the whole time he was laughing.

i dropped 2 my knees & cryed , I was so afraid to go in the room. I wanted so bad to break down the door and kill him(not literally) but im still so hurt by it and i dont know what to do. all those other times i didnt think much of it and now it makes sense. i called my bf and he told me not to get involved bc its not my business.

i dont know how to handle this. im a wreak right now.

2007-08-30 19:25:17 · 3 answers · asked by ♥cup_cake♥ 2

2007-08-30 18:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by ndanu c 1

Today we all went to my in laws house, just to hang out and he comes in and he's always saying his little remarks about me,.... I today I exploded,... he said that my husband was contaminated and usually he will say: Just kidding, and just get away with it but tonight I got so mad and I snapped back before he could say anything and told him: WTF,.... Why dont u just be a man and tell me that your NOT kidding and dont pretend to like me, and stop saying your constant stupid remarks,........ so this guy got in my face, and said: I think your a jacka s s .... and I said: what?!!! He repeated it so I called him SCUM of the family, and then thats when everything was set off, every1 started gettin upset and my husband told him: Get the F outta my wife's face and be a man about it and face me,... what type of man confronts a woman? So then I grabbed my keys and just left,...... My in-laws were tryin to calm me down, becuz my eyes were a little teary.... and I do love my husband;s family,.....

2007-08-30 18:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by Justme 2

My sister has been keeping something from me.We are twins and from as long as i remember, i could feel what she was feeling, think what she was thinking. Even if wer'e not together i know if she is happy or is hurting, and her me. I even got severe pains in my leg the day she broke her leg, while i was in LA and her at our grandparents in Minnesota

I believe we are almost telepathic. But lately i am confused. I feel She is trying to hide something from me. I feel cold & blank around her and Im soo afraid ive lost what we had, and i feel like so sad & even scared, almost like shes gone

How can i get her to open up to me?

2007-08-30 18:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years now. Just recently, we moved closer to her parents house and they've started inviting themselves over at their own conveniance. We both hate unexpected guest, more me than her. What can we do to avoid this? Her parents are extremely sensitive and DRAMATIC, so what can I do or say without having them regret taking me in as their own daughter??? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-08-30 18:31:16 · 13 answers · asked by Iesha 1

Well me and my boyfriend have been together 1 year 3 months and it's going to be forever!! BUT, he looks out the corner of his eye to look at someone else, he always gets angry when I look through his phone, he sees a girl I don't like and doesn't tell me about it.( the one he fouled around with on me) An d lately he wants space. We live togwther and I get confused. Should I give him space? Change my appearence, because I always want to be wit him, what am I doing wrong??

2007-08-30 18:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 18:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by shing 1

MY BOYFRIEND LIVES WITH HIS DAD. AND IF HE DOESNT DO WHAT HE SAID THE MOMENT THAT HE SAID IT HE WILL HIT HIM ON THE HEAD WITH THE FIST. WHEN THE DAD COMES HOME AND HE SEES HIS BEDROOM DOOR OPEN HE WONT EVEN ASK HIS SON MY BOYFRIEND MICHAEL DID YOU GO IN MY ROOM. HE WILL JUST CALL THE COPS AND REPORT A BRAKE IN ON HIS SON. OR JUST KICK HIM OUT. HIS WHOLE FAMILY IS CRAZY. IS THAT RIGHT WHAT THE DAD IS DOING?

2007-08-30 18:19:04 · 16 answers · asked by **prIncEsS gIrL*** 2

Hello all, I'm a resident in Texas and have a baby due tomarrow (I'm sooo excited!!) I've never been married to the mother..and we broke up quite a while ago. I believe a mother and a child should be together for the childs sake, but I do want joint custody on paper and she wants full custody and has stated many times she wants me to not have a part in my childs life just to hurt me. I'm not abusive, I don't drink, I'm a good person who just wants to have a positive impact in my childs life. I even agreed I'd let her move to San Antonio with the baby and her new man and that's not good enough...What can I do!? Will a court deny me joint custody if there's no probable cause!? She's just being so childish and unreasonable and I need to know my rights before it gets ugly.

2007-08-30 17:56:59 · 28 answers · asked by Justin S 3

ok, so my freinds mom needs help..but just gets madder if u tell her that..

She will always get mad over lil things like today, she got mad at my friend and her lil sister because my freind had the vacume on and was on the floor so it was in her ear and she had music on o get mdivated..but her mom just yelled and screamed and made them cry..then she called after all calm..

and she HATES me! She never wants me over..but i am my freinds BEST friend like seriously! And wen i am around she acts like she loves me! but wen i am gone she tells my freind that i have a very big tough side and need to be watched..hello?

and she only thinks that because i say ain't ya'll and forget some words in my senteces..like i would say

"i aint doin that" lol

but that is southern talk...

how can i convince her she needs help? or at least how to tell my freind what to do wen she is like that?

she will even hold them down and yell in ther face...not very nice!

2007-08-30 17:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by pugglelover1207 3

my little sis . .. is going isane out of her mind. .. im in my room ryt now. .. .and shes locked up in the bathroom ryt next to my room. . .. banging on everything. . . and crying. . . .her eyes out. . ..going wild and crazy . .. and shouting. . .if i ask her what she's mad about . ..shes just screaming. . ..she's 7 yrs old. . .
help i don't know what to do . . .
i just told her you look like the devil ur eyes r so red from crying. . . ..and said just kidding . . u look like an angel. . .
shes banging the door 10 times. .
help i don't know what to do

2007-08-30 17:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by doc_red09 4

i have a younger cousin that is 6 months younger than me but a head taller than me. she is a lot stronger than me and i dont like it because she can pick me up easily and throw me on my bed. i cant even lift her off the ground because shes a lot bigger than me. we are both 10 years old. how can i get stronger than her?

2007-08-30 17:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my nephew is always hitting my neice and when i tell him to stop he says your not the boss of me and hits people and says bad words.

2007-08-30 16:32:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 18 year old brother got really really drunk at a party, passed out in a closet in someone's basement. When the cops came he wouldnt wake up, so he got sent to the hospital, where the doctors called our house at 3 am and my mom had to go pick him up. This happened in June. Im kinda worried because after that he hasnt been the same. He yells at me a lot and cusses me out. He doesnt care about anything! Im almost 15 going to be a freshman and i want to talk to him and tell him that what he did was wrong and hurt his girlfreind (well now his ex) and his family that loves him. Any tips?

2007-08-30 16:06:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey every-one i just need some advice. My step - dad who is pretty much my real dad passed away too months ago..i am having so many problems. when my brother and uncle died i was able to let go after about a month and accept it...i still think of them a lot. with my dad he has been gone for about 2 months and everything reminds me of him. i see someriding there bike i think of him smoking i think of him they dont even have to be doing anything and i look at someone and i think of him. every where i go everything reminds me of him. He's the only thing or person on my mind. I ve been trying so hard just to let go and move on but i cant do it. I pretend that i am fine and just act normal but inside i am crying i just wanna lock myself in a room and cry. but i cant i have a son to take off...please help what can i do to help me move on?

2007-08-30 15:50:43 · 12 answers · asked by mommy to 3! 5

I LOST IT!!! i dont know hwat has happened these days but i cant be at my house without someone yelling at me, bothering me, cursing (insulting)... i really try to me patience and just dont say anything but i got to the pint that i just cant handle it anymore!!!! i`m always fighting with my sisters, as much as i try not to fight, they always start and i end up arguing with them. my mom an dad are almost all the time yelling or mad, my 14 year old sister is a brat who thinks she`s superior, she always wants everythinhg her way and she is so inmature, hiting my little sisters, cursing, yelling, rebel, i cant stand her anymore. dont get me wrong, i do love my sister but she makes me want to leave home!!! i dont stand her! i dont want to figh, i dont want to argue, i dont know if this is a phase or something but lately `ve been losing my patience easily. i dont know what to do!! please, if you have any advice, i would appreciate it. its like i cant live in my own home!

2007-08-30 15:40:59 · 3 answers · asked by me 2

my mother is saying she simply has "given up on me" and that i should move out if i please, and i said "where do i move to?" and she replies "well your the one who was so smart to come up with that idea then you can figure it out yourself."

so i need to know where i can go if there is in fact anywhere i can go to.
i know this all probably sounds like some teenager's rant but i assure you it's not.

2007-08-30 15:17:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 13 and my dad & i always get into fights,
he yells at me so i do it back.
treat someone the way you want to be treated.
...
well he slaps my arms.
so i slap him back.
he yells at me for not doing extra credit homework when i have like ALL A's!
..
abusive?

2007-08-30 15:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Lolly Pop Lolly Pop Oh. 1

i'm not interested in going on vacation with her and my dad for Labor Day weekend because:

1) I'm 23 years old

2) Three's a crowd with my family because my Dad acts like I get in the way of his time with my Mom

3) I'm a new teacher who is exhusted from work.

The only problem is I still live at home, so if I don't go, Mom will be upset because Dad is extremely clingy which annoys her, so I'm like a buffer. She's said several times she wants me to come. It'll be hard to look at her...

2007-08-30 15:08:55 · 4 answers · asked by o.O 1

2007-08-30 15:04:35 · 7 answers · asked by Padmanaban A 1

You can say anything you like but no rude answers please!

2007-08-30 14:48:02 · 14 answers · asked by Zahra 2

I was babysitting besides im 12 okay so the phone rang it said unknow caller i must be thinking its my realtives from London but it was this lady shes like is your mom home?? im like No. then i thought she said by so i just hanged up then she called back and got all pissed she is said very strong i need to talk to an adult then im like no adult here im sorry.Then she said i will call back EVERY HOUR i don't appreciate you hanging up on me the lady is sooooo stupid

2007-08-30 14:46:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this sounds strange but im married to a 50 year old man and we get along so well, but he has a sonw hos 24 and he told me he really likes me and wants me to leave his dad for him i dont know what to do i have to live in the same house as him and im married to his dad its so awkward we have never done anything except a little snog at his auntys 40th what should ii do?
somebody please help im desperatee
xxx

2007-08-30 14:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband committed suicide just a month ago. What i dont understand is why? He was a good husband a great dad! HE kissed me good bye for work and then shot himself with a 9mm! My question is how do you go on after something like this? everyday seems to get harder emotionally? Please any ideas on how to cope with this?!

2007-08-30 14:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Lori M 1

In southern ohio there was an assistant principal that left her 2 year old in the car, behind the school during staff meetings for 8 hours in 100 degree weather. The child died, and they can't figure out weather to charge her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyhow, just answer honestly, I am curious to see the responses I get on this one.


Do you ever leave your child alone in the car, even for a few minutes?

2007-08-30 13:58:10 · 12 answers · asked by Cassandra K 2

2007-08-30 13:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by 3dgrocks64 1

2 yrs ago i found out my dad was cheating with the worlds biggest cougar (aka; old, think theyre hot, mainly talented in bed, rude, all about $$$). a year later he died and i dont see "her" anymore but im still mad pissed about her in general like i just wanna put her in her place. Can anyone relate??

2007-08-30 13:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous