my younger brother moved in with his gf and they sleep across from my room i've heard serveral noises out of there room. never cared for it.
i got home a few hours ago, my brother and his lady were in the room. they didnt know i was home. and i over heard the same noises and this time it was louder and more verbal. i didnt realize what was happening until i heard her crying and the noises were continuing. I paniced and i didn want to hear or be noisy but i had to and i heard my own brother hitting his girl. and I freaked out. she was crying and saying stop and the whole time he was laughing.
i dropped 2 my knees & cryed , I was so afraid to go in the room. I wanted so bad to break down the door and kill him(not literally) but im still so hurt by it and i dont know what to do. all those other times i didnt think much of it and now it makes sense. i called my bf and he told me not to get involved bc its not my business.
i dont know how to handle this. im a wreak right now.
2007-08-30 19:25:17 · 3 answers · asked by ♥cup_cake♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel so awful for not doing anything. and i'm never going to be able to look at my brother the same.
is it wrong of me to feel that way. did i do the right thing. i really dont know
:(
2007-08-30 19:26:29 · update #1
Your brother just developed a very bad habit. You need to kick them out. If you are in your parents' house, you need to get them involved FAST for an intervention.
Talk to the GF and tell her that he is an abuser and the beatings will get worse each time... tell her to go home to her own family and don't look back. Tell her to NOT wait until the bruises become permanent.
2007-08-30 19:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get his gf away from him first of all and then you definitely need to get him somewhere that he cannot hurt anyone else and then hurt himself when he realizes what he has done...sounds like he might be on drugs or have a very harmful disorder that needs medical treatment...stay away from him and get help soon before he hits you or he needs to do something more drastic...
2007-08-30 19:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by stormy31750 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i emailed you because i couldnt respond to ur question until now....i hope what i wrote can help you an any way...best of luck really...
-Karla
2007-08-30 20:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Karla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋