ok, so my freinds mom needs help..but just gets madder if u tell her that..
She will always get mad over lil things like today, she got mad at my friend and her lil sister because my freind had the vacume on and was on the floor so it was in her ear and she had music on o get mdivated..but her mom just yelled and screamed and made them cry..then she called after all calm..
and she HATES me! She never wants me over..but i am my freinds BEST friend like seriously! And wen i am around she acts like she loves me! but wen i am gone she tells my freind that i have a very big tough side and need to be watched..hello?
and she only thinks that because i say ain't ya'll and forget some words in my senteces..like i would say
"i aint doin that" lol
but that is southern talk...
how can i convince her she needs help? or at least how to tell my freind what to do wen she is like that?
she will even hold them down and yell in ther face...not very nice!
2007-08-30 17:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by pugglelover1207 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh..and she always says everything is my fault and tells my parents so i get grounded..and my parents dont even listen to my story..
2007-08-30 17:59:39 · update #1
Tell your parents I guess. I wouldn't recommend you get in the middle of this.
2007-08-30 17:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is her dad in all of this? Any grandparents?
Is this woman drinking? Doing drugs? What is going on?
If this escalates, it may come to where she will need to call the authorities for a rescue... actually she should probably talk to the counselors at school.
I don't know how old you two are, but your friend needs to give her messed-up mother some space. I mean like come in, do her chores, grab the schoolbooks and go somewhere else to do homework.
If she is old enough she could get a job, or invent a job... anything... scoop doggy-poo from people's yards for a fee (you get several families and clear each yard like twice a week for a flat fee). The trick is to handle the necessary stuff and get that out of the way so she can legitimately stay away as much as possible.
2007-08-31 02:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is letting stress get the better of her. I have done that but I have never held any of my kids down and yelled at them. I don't think she will listen to you if you tell her that she has a problem. If you are already on shaky ground with her, you better think twice about bringing up her problems. Your friend, her daughter, should talk to her. Maybe write a letter to show her how serious it is and use examples like holding them down while she yells. Maybe she will listen to her. She should just be honest.
2007-08-31 00:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop going over since she doesn't like having you around. Perhaps when you are not there, in their house, the vacuuming gets done properly and quickly.
Have some respect for your friend's mom. The same way you would want your friends to respect your mom too.
2007-08-31 01:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents involved. This is a form of abuse and you could get hurt if you get too closely involved. Also arrange for your friend and her sister to see the school counsellor so that people are aware of the situation.
2007-08-31 01:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like your friend's mom has that weird disorder, forget the name of it...that one where someone gets all mad and pyscho for no reason, and they lose control of their emotions. my suggestion would be to talk to your parents about it and try not to get stuck in the middle, you might get hurt.
2007-08-31 01:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by thelovelyfey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some weed sounds like she could use some, for medicinal purposes of course.
2007-08-31 00:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋