this sounds strange but im married to a 50 year old man and we get along so well, but he has a sonw hos 24 and he told me he really likes me and wants me to leave his dad for him i dont know what to do i have to live in the same house as him and im married to his dad its so awkward we have never done anything except a little snog at his auntys 40th what should ii do?
somebody please help im desperatee
xxx
2007-08-30 14:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Shame on you for kissing your step son... no wonder the lad is confused and i am sure if your husband found out he wouldnt be too happy.
You made your bed and now you have to lie in it.
2007-08-30 14:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not only destroying your marriage but also the relationship between father & son. Can you imagine how painful your hasband will be if he know that?
You should stop now before you get into a worse situation. Ask your step son to move out asap.
2007-08-30 22:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Littlestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awkward situation.if you tell the father might create trouble.if you try to calm the son ,might not work.what to do.you married the father so let the son knows how happy you are and that nothing can make you leave his dad.from now on act as a mother to your stepson.if he saw that his advances will only lead to nothing,eventually he will give up and wish you a happy life.
2007-08-30 21:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married - the end. Treat this situation the same as if anyone else was hitting on you. I don't see why you have anything to figure out??? You aren't available - at least you aren't supposed to be.
Edit:
Badgirlforlife007 - thanks for filling us in on the real scoop. I was suspicious when I found the prior Q's and A's blocked after this outrageous question. Note to everyone: appears we have a lying piece of **** asking this question!
2007-08-30 21:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u really need to let him know that u are not for him. dont kiss him or touch him in any way either. he needs to understand that u are not his. plus u need to think if he can stab his own father in his back like this what he will do to u. if u dont want to be with the father either than just pack and leave.
hope that helps. best of luck
2007-08-30 21:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by MrFA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how old you are and how serious you tink he is about being wit you and how happy you'll be its always better to be with someone closer to your age you really need to let your heart decide always do what makes you the happiest
2007-09-01 18:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by endlesslydreaming 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on do you realize what your saying?if you don't want to be with his father then leave.have you ever stopped to think that he may be sitting you up?besides if this person could do this to his own father then how could he possible love you?
2007-08-30 21:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by ldhotlipps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you ,,--- you are married to his Dad for heavens sake.
2007-09-01 08:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess you willhave to try him on a sale or return basis and see if you like it
2007-08-30 21:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by rphilsell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband - no doubt he will put his son in his place.
2007-08-30 21:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋