Family - August 2007

They just recently divorced.. like last month.

The divorce personally i don't have a problem with its just when they start moving on i do.

My mom "has a boyfriend" already probably met him after the divorce. It's hard for me to accept this and i'll probably kick the guys *** once i see him out of instinct... I keep telling myself when i enter college(which will be soon) everything will be better since i will have a life of my own. Is this true, will i feel better when i have a life of my own?

And not having a girlfriend probably contributes to my loneliness lol. Probably once i get a girlfriend i'll feel better?

Feedback on how to deal with this and my question of having my own life.

2007-08-27 19:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 3

that is makes me really happy when i act. how will i ever persue this careeer?

2007-08-27 18:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by dreamer 5

I'v got every toy imaginable and i'm going to rehab tomarow,i know i can't spell very well do you think i should go or go buy a new toy? Now that i'v got $ i'm falling apart though i promised my parents and friends i'd go,i'm an alcoholic that doesn't smoke crack to much but when i get into that,shoot i'll go through $800 in 1 night.Please!

2007-08-27 17:58:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

California for me! My parents wanna move after my new baby sis is born.They chose either England or Ca.England is were most of our family are also from and Ca because they say that houses and businesses are good.But we preffered Ca becoz celebrity and etc.My dad doesnt know what to choose yet.BUT they know that they arent gonna stay here.Soo..what you ppl think?My mom will agree wif my dad sinces she didnt have a boy.NO its NOT torture thing.

2007-08-27 17:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i was just talkingto my familyin colombia over msn and well they complimented my lil bro and sis and not me they talked more to my little bro and sis, they asked for my little brothers and sis msn and not mine, WHY IS THIS i feel like complete sh*t right now, as wimpy as it sounds i really just want to cry myself to sleep.

2007-08-27 17:50:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i help a female alcoholic quit?

2007-08-27 17:33:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 17:28:49 · 29 answers · asked by 4-GiVeN 3

some young one,s up to 10 or more you think this is ok

2007-08-27 16:52:45 · 26 answers · asked by rocketman 3

Just met this dude in the materinty ward no less. My sis tells me in code that this dude is a real dirt bag. My neice is only 17 and nine months pregers. I go to introduce myself and he gives me the matcho hand shake with the kung fu grip. I look him dead in the eyes and return his challenge with a stout grip of my own, and ask him. "What's this?" to which he says "Just a hand shake." I then tell him I'm her Uncle and love her very much so be sure and understand that her welfare is my first concern. I get the feeling he's the type that might slap her around a bit to which I feel powerless to do anything about without first being called on to act. I'm 53 now & he's maybe 20 or 21. There is no doubt in my mind I could educate this young man and I'm talking old school as is my rule. This kid thinks this old biker isn't much of a challenge but if I find out he's smacked my little girl around....well like I said I'd like to hear what y'all think. What should I do? Serious now.

2007-08-27 16:48:49 · 10 answers · asked by Chicote 2

in your family at times i do iam closer to the other side of the famly my moms side but i want to be closer to my dads side they dont give me pain i dont know how to make myself comfortable towards my dads side 2 diffrent race

2007-08-27 16:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

Last year my nephew (husband's brother's son) molested my daughter. My brother-in-law lied to us and has never apologized for his son's actions. We have had no contact with them since the incident. This hurt the family - esp. my mother deeply - my mother wanted to kill the monster for what he did. My mother died very suddenly August 16th. It has been hard, but I am dealing with it. Today, I received a symphathy card from my brother-in-law and family with the 14 year old monster's name signed inside the card. What that monster did to my daughter haunted my mother and caused her great hurt and stress which did not help her health. I am offended that in 13 months they couldn't say "I'm sorry" for what their son did, but now are sending a sympathy card to me???? Do I have the right to be offended and upset? Thank you.

2007-08-27 16:35:42 · 32 answers · asked by KaseyT33 4

My 15 year old daughter is now living with me. She was living with her father from the age of 10 until now since we are divorced.

She has to start her Junior year in a new school either with me or her Dad since her Dad moved due to job reasons and I live in a different state.

We went to see the High School today and she did not like it. The classes, school set-up and type of students did not appeal to her.

Should I move to where she was living before or get back together with her father so that she has some stability in her life because she is with her father again? He was and is still verbally abusive and controlling.

2007-08-27 15:55:28 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My Mom lives in Wisconsin, I live in Florida with my sons and husband. My mom and Dad are getting divorced after 45 years. She wants me to come up and help her fix up the house. The problem is that my mother drives me bat crackers! I can't stand being around her because she corrects nearly everything I do. She's also very needy and complains to me about how my father just up and left her for a younger woman even though their marriage was NEVER good.
I know she needs help but I really do not want to deal with her ranting about what a bad guy my Dad is. (Trust me, he isn't. He's made mistakes but he just got out the way she was going to last year). So I'd rather send some money up so she can hire people to help her. Am I a bad daughter for not wanting to put up with her crap?
Also hubby and I own our own business and with fall starting I really can't afford the time away.

What do you guys think?

2007-08-27 15:44:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard and watched stories of women going through the 9 month process and labour itself. My mom said that when giving birth to me, she was tied down and stuff in the hospital in some other country... well, i plan to take care of a child of my own, but im afraid of the pain. I've heard many women say that they've gone through hours of pain through labour. I've talked about it with my partner, and he's said that he'll respect my decision. He discouraged adoption, (althought to me its a good idea) because he knows friends who got depressed and suffered when they found out that their parents were not their real ones.
Is my fear reasonable? Or is giving birth a miracle worth enduring the pain for?

2007-08-27 15:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

tell me some of the funny stuff your grandkids have done. all my kids are grown. i need a laugh

2007-08-27 15:30:24 · 4 answers · asked by LoVeLoVeLoVe 2

My birthday is Thursday, and my oldest son talked to me a couple of weeks ago about what I'd like to do for my birthday. I said the usual--we go out to dinner and come home and have cake. He lives about 70 miles away and made plans to work in my area. I'm picking my Grandson up from school, but he'll be with his mother that night about 20 miles away. We were going to eat near where my Grandson lives because he has school on Friday. My youngest son lives near me, has a camping trip planned for Friday after school through the Tuesday after Labor Day (about 45 minutes away) and my Grandson will be with him on Wednesday night. Now after our plans we laid, he wants me to celebrate my birthday on Wednesday so he can pack for his camping trip on Thursday evening. So what would you do--Wednesday or Thursday, if your birthday were Thursday? Relationship with my youngest son hasn't been that good lately.

2007-08-27 15:27:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, he just sits around the house and watches television all day long. I have tried everything that I can think of to make him become more active, but no luck. He needs to exercise but he doesnt want to, and prefers to do nothing all day.

2007-08-27 15:21:11 · 1 answers · asked by Salt Hydrolysis 2

Okay so here is the situation, I have my desktop computer in the computer room, however, there is also a television in the room hooked up to satellite so it cannot be moved. My dad likes to come into the room even when I am doing homework to watch the tv with a high volume, and making it so that I cannot concentrate on my work. No matter what I say, he still wont listen to me. The computer also cannot be moved to another room since it is hooked onto interent. What should I do?

2007-08-27 15:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by Salt Hydrolysis 2

ok so my brother (a 13 y/o freshman) wont go to school.
we are trying to get him to go but its to much stress. my moms disabled so she cant really do anything and my dad doesnt live with us. he also is bipolar, anyways people are thinking about putting him in a hospital or taking him out of the house to a group home (his therapist is thinking about doing this). since hes bipolar his mind doesnt think out what could happen if you doesnt go to school etc.
Im trying to tell him but i cant do anything. also today the school said my mom will go to jail if her son doesnt go to school.
my sister and i think he should be taken out of the house were people can take care of him.
im just wondering what you think about what i wrote.
also he's a really big guy 6ft. so we cant pick him up and take him to school.
also at home he just eats and eats and just sleeps watches t.v and nothing more. he thinks thats a good life.

2007-08-27 15:17:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 1 years ago i met my current gf, she got pregnant and we moved in together. Well from the point she got pregnant up until now the relationship has gone to hell. She's abusive, manipulative and violent. I stopped talking to all my friends, stopped watching certain TV shows, stopped talking to certain kinds of people as well. We have had cops come to our place several times due to violent fights with her. I have cuts, scratches, and scars all over my body. I want out of the relationship! We have a 5 month old son together. I was going to wait until she has left the house to her relatives house after i drop her off cause we have only one car and then take her stuff and drop it off as well and change the locks on the door and never let her in again. Im also going to try to fight for custody of my son. Is what im going to do legal? I can't take it anymore, im not very happy right now. Were not married. How can i get her out my house if she won't leave?

2007-08-27 14:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by Unhappy D 3

Hey everyone, I just founf out that I am pregnant (about 3 weeks) by my bf and we get along great! The problem is his aunt did something totally wrong to me (similar to identity theft), blamed it on my bf when he had NOTHING to do with it (I'm positively certain, I know this for a fact), and ever since then, I have hated her to the point of where I can't even stand to hear her name. Anyway, we are having the baby around the end of April and I told him I didn't want his aunt around, visiting or seeing our baby, even when I'm in the hospital giving birth. I dont want our kid to have ANYTHING to do with her because she's sneaky and is a con artist in my opinion and he feels I'n being unfair. My question is: do u guys believe I'm being selfish or am I making the right choice? Give me some serious feedback, no insults because I'm not in the mood for them. Thanks :)

2007-08-27 13:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by Beautiful 2

I am nothing compared to my greatest person known as my sister. Everyone loves her. She is one of the fastest female runners in the country. She is 2nd in her class. Her parents love her so much and would do anything for her. Now look at the less (WAY LESS) than perfect me. I am in the advanced placement classes like her, get the same grades as her. But I work hard for those grades and she barely needs to do anything to get what she has. Also I am not ranked as highly as her because I get b's and one c in gym. I do cross country too, but I suck at that. I work so hard to and I have no fun at it. And then I have very few friends, unlike her. and whenever I do something wrong, I get screamed and scolded at. If she does something wrong my parents pull that "oh people make mistakes card."
I can tell she will be more successful than me in real life because she will be able to get into a good college, and get the best as she deserves (even more than she deserves).

2007-08-27 13:38:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

With the lyrics and content of these so called songs, how do I show her that they are nothing but disrespectful and trash? ANY for of art, music included, that talks about sex, being players, disrespecting authority, and such SHOULD be banned from all minors (In my opinion). Other Parents opinion please.

2007-08-27 13:19:33 · 32 answers · asked by Common Sense 5

What about a Father kisssing his preteen son on the lips?

2007-08-27 12:48:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently 30 weeks pregnant and is very happy. My mother is jealous. She started by telling me that my husband didn't seem to be that happy with my pregnancy. When she saw that I wasn't convinced with that she didn't say Happy Birthday to my daughter because she claimed it was against her religon. This Friday she calls me and asked me would me and my family like to come with her on a trip with my aunt to an amusement park that was reserved and you had to be an employee to enter. We said okay and that night I went to bed early because I didn't want to be tired and she calls and say I only have 2 tickets so one of you have to stay home. I couldn't believe that she would be so cruel and do such a thing. So we decided that If we all couldn't go no one would go. Then she have the nerve to take up for my aunt that is very jealous of me and my husband from the start. I feel very hurt and depressed. I called her on the phone but I got so upset that I hung up on her should i call her back?

2007-08-27 12:28:50 · 8 answers · asked by jones2mascoll 2

i was so excited to leave for college, i was so ready to get out of my house. i've been at college since friday and i have cried every single day multiple times. not in front of my roommate or anything, just kinda by myself. i don't even really get along with my dad and when he called me today, i almost started crying. i almost start crying when my mom calls because i miss her so much. i'm making friends and everything; it's just the whole experience is really overwhelming. i'm just really homesick and i want it to go away soon. is this normal? can you please give me some advice?

2007-08-27 12:21:40 · 26 answers · asked by BEBE 1

I am using my friend's computer because my computer is down, anyway I'm 20 and i'm am 6 months pregnant and my ex-boyfriend is 21. This is unplanned pregnancy but I was still happy ,my family is very happy , i thought he would happy too but he wasn't.Neither were his parents or family, his parents think I trapped him,they have called me a w **** and other foul names more than once,Now my boyfriend is starting to act the same way, so we have broken up. The bad blood between myself and his parents is making my pregnancy stressful,so I'm not going to talk to them until my daughter is born.

I'm not sure if I even want my baby around his family anymore,if this is how they feel but I don't it is fair to my daughter to not have her grandparents around either.

Do you think they will come around once my baby's born or do you think they will still treat me badly and treat my daughter badly as well.

Can you give some advice on how to deal with this.

thanks

2007-08-27 12:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by nbabmorefan 3

...at the phone because he got stress..it is right if i dont call him???he is stressed about EVERYTHING and i feel like i cant take it no more...

2007-08-27 12:11:02 · 1 answers · asked by dorthe q 2

I am hated cause I am half white. My dad side is hispanic. He hasn't seen me in forever like 12yrs. I'm 22 now. Why do people act like that?

2007-08-27 11:41:05 · 8 answers · asked by marissadesiree 1

Last week, i was visiting my sister and her family. She has 2 children, a 7-year-old girl and a 5-year-old boy. The day after i got there, her children started fighting with eachother, so she spanked them! I didn't see the spanking, but i heard it and she gave them each about 15 spankings! Afterwards i confronted her about it and told her it was barbaric and primitive to spank, and that it's a terribly violent thing to do. I also told her that she's teaching her children to be violent, and i pointed out that spanking is sexual abuse. She got really mad at me and told me it's none of my business how she raises her children! Excuse me, but when children are beaten like that, it is the responsibility of bystanders to put a stop to the abuse and call C.P.S. I don't want to get my sister in trouble, but i don't want my nephew and niece to be beaten and sexually assaulted, either! Do you think i should call C.P.S.?

2007-08-27 10:48:06 · 22 answers · asked by FMEXICO 1