They just recently divorced.. like last month.
The divorce personally i don't have a problem with its just when they start moving on i do.
My mom "has a boyfriend" already probably met him after the divorce. It's hard for me to accept this and i'll probably kick the guys *** once i see him out of instinct... I keep telling myself when i enter college(which will be soon) everything will be better since i will have a life of my own. Is this true, will i feel better when i have a life of my own?
And not having a girlfriend probably contributes to my loneliness lol. Probably once i get a girlfriend i'll feel better?
Feedback on how to deal with this and my question of having my own life.
2007-08-27 19:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents grew apart long ago, and they finally moved towards independence. They probably stayed together longer than they should have just for your sake. You are still mourning that loss.
All you can do is try to give support to both of your parents and let them know that you love them and want them to be happy. Don't say anything bad about anything they drag home... it will only encourage them.
Yes, by all means, go to college, be active, meet people and learn everything you can to make a good living once you get out. You will probably meet some wonderful people at college. It is amazingly exotic compared to high school. It really is a whole new world, and you have the ability to be who you truly are without impediments. You will be too busy to worry about who your parents are dating.
Making new friends will make you feel better.
2007-08-27 19:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents may have just got divorced but I bet they were over each other long before that so them getting boyfriend or girlfriend so soon isnt a surprise. It would be smarter to take time for oneself but most people cant stand to be alone very long.
You will enjoy getting out and having your own life and not have to deal with your parents crap. Girlfriends are nice but make sure nothing stops you from getting your education so you can live well later.
2007-08-27 19:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As annoying is it according to danger, i think of a meet-an-greet would be a stable theory. tell your mom and dad that one and all they have ever wanted for you is to be happy, and you're, they are pushing you away no remember if or no longer they recognize it or no longer. according to danger you are the rebound guy, according to danger your gf needs somebody to pay for each little thing for her and her babies, according to danger no longer, yet mom and dad understand the indicators and would see what we interior the "cloud 9" bubble can't. If after the meet and greet your mom and dad nonetheless do unlike her tell them thats ok, you do and as a 26 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous guy you have the main appropriate to be sure the place it is going. it is your life.
2016-12-12 13:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by whiten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't either one get a new partner? They were divorced for goodness sake!
No-one died & had to have the 'mandatory' grieving period before getting someone to fill the gap.
You accept that they both have lives to lead - just like you.
2007-08-27 19:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks sometimes. idk i guess theres nothing you can do. she must of been ready or needed someone to help her get over the divorce o something like that. my sister was engaged and they broke it off like 2-3 months ago. shes sleep with a few guys, had a few bfs/ its ridiculous. but sometiimes it must cover up how your really feeling. idk if it helps but i hope things work out. just talk to her?
2007-08-27 19:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋